XhosaNostra:
No, I don't believe rape has anything to do with a manner of dressing because some men have raped animals, babies & elderly women. What's sexually provocative about that? Blaming the victim is nothing but a cover up, plus a retàrded excuse for their lack of control & possible mental issues. It makes no sense to be aroused to that extent, by a stranger no less!

In summary, the issue is within the person who does the raping. No two ways about it. Something's wrong with him!

Henkor:


This way of thinking and responding to issues isn't going to solve any problems. Saying that all the blame and responsibility has to go to the rapist and the rendering the tirade about how rapists are retarded and lack self control, isn't going to stop people from raping. And I don't even know if you read my post at all, because if you did, I think I made some effort in trying to illustrate how indecent dressing leads to rape and sexual assault.

There are parts of my post where I stated that of course there are cases where men tend to rape people who aren't indecently dressed, but in majority of instances, men tend to be more motivated to rape people who they are aroused by, and what engenders arousal most of the time is the revelation of sexually enticing parts of the female anatomy.

If a man walks alone in any empty, unprotected street in the middle of the night, when he has the choice not to, hence motivating bad people lurking around to accost and deprive him of his belongings, doesn't he bear some responsibility for making such an inane decision that puts him at risk? Would you say the bad men that stole from him have to bear all the burden of responsibility?

XhosaNostra:


Listen, we're not animals here, we're humans with the ability to control our urges. The dysfunctional ones of our species cannot control those urges is my belief & I'm sticking to it. A normal, thinking person would look at & have thoughts about a scantily dressed stranger, but they won't act on them, because in the same train of thoughts they'd be thinking about all the diseases the person might be carrying. That is being rational. A sicko on the other hand doesn't follow the same rational, thinking process. Like an animal, he is controlled by instincts. He looks & he reacts. No critical thinking involved. Sorry but that's not normal.

Henkor:


Maybe you live in some imaginary utopia where evil and it's proclivities have been eradicated. But I live in a world were there are people who can't control their urges, whether it's the urge to steal, kill, or rape. And these people are always going to remain. There is nothing anyone can do about it. Evil and good are natural qualities that are endemic to human existence. So your goal - everyone's goal - should be to prevent themselves from being open to high risk situations and reduce the possibility of being perceived as a prey by predatory humans.

Why do you take precautions to lock your doors at night? Why don't you leave your doors and windows open at night and sleep comfortably without any fears since "we are all humans and we can control our urges" and since according to you "the dysfunctional ones of our society can't control the things you do?"

Craziestgirl:
Should men be held responsible when robbed,

because they dress fashionably and drive choice cars?

Henkor:


Maybe you live in some imaginary utopia where evil and it's proclivities have been eradicated. But I live in a world were there are people who can't control their urges, whether it's the urge to steal, kill, or rape. And these people are always going to remain. There is nothing anyone can do about it. Evil and good are natural qualities that are endemic to human existence. So your goal - everyone's goal - should be to prevent themselves from being open to high risk situations and reduce the possibility of being perceived as a prey by predatory humans.

Why do you take precautions to lock your doors at night? Why don't you leave your doors and windows open at night and sleep comfortably without any fears since "we are all humans and we can control our urges" and since according to you "the dysfunctional ones of our society can't control the things you do?"

FluidQueen:
One Question:

Should People bear responsibility for internet fraud as a result of being on the internet?

Should you bear responsibility for Armed robbery for having so much Assets that are liable to be stolen?


Rapist rape babies. Women on Hijabs. That shoukd tell you the problem is never with the victims. But men. The Real criminals.

FluidQueen:
One Question:

Should People bear responsibility for internet fraud as a result of being on the internet?

Should you bear responsibility for Armed robbery for having so much Assets that are liable to be stolen?


Rapist rape babies. Women on Hijabs. That shoukd tell you the problem is never with the victims. But men. The Real criminals.

J2381:
when you post like this you sound like all men are rapists.

wirinet:


Why criminalize only men? Are you going to tell me that you have never heard of women raping men or children?

FluidQueen:
Lol.

My bad?
That wasn't intended.