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Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by Theflint1(m): 11:58pm On Jun 29, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
grin grin grin
That's not funny.
Yet you're grinning...you even liked the comment where I complimented your lips. You're from Akwa Ibom, got the accent?
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by UyaiIncomparabl(op): 12:01am On Jun 30, 2018
Theflint1:
Yet you're grinning...you even liked the comment where I complimented your lips. You're from Akwa Ibom, got the accent?
Thanks for derailing the thread as promised. Don't quote me again. Yes. I'm from AKS. No, I haven't got the accent. Even if, have you got a problem with that?
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by Theflint1(m): 12:06am On Jun 30, 2018
Told me not to quote you again yet you ended with a question...you're enjoying the chase right? wink wink

I actually love the accent...peeps there like speaking proper English. How come you don't have the accent?
UyaiIncomparabl:
Thanks for derailing the thread as promised. Don't quote me again. Yes. I'm from AKS. No, I haven't got the accent. Even if, have you got a problem with that?
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by mimimile93: 1:17am On Jun 30, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
One thing is to live, the struggle is to keep living. Until we sniff out, we are very unsure of how turbulent our lives can turn in an instant.

Oh yea, you're alive and you smirk or with a shrug of a shoulder dismiss how easy it is being alive? Know this, Everyone will DIE, someday. You escape death, and you term it luck? Nay. You're not lucky. It's not just your turn. When it is your turn to bow out, no force can rigidly withhold the possibility of it happening. Now that you're alive, make it count. We live to leave. I've come to realize, that life is very flexible. It hangs on a thin thread, and in a second, it snaps.

This is really a tragic month. Too many deaths have taken place in a flash. Whom could we've wronged? Sometimes I wonder, Is God really immune (If that's the right word to use) to the menace and dastardly acts, gory sights and never-ending killings quadrupling by the day? Were some people destined to die gruesomely? Even if they were, why in such horrific and unpleasant manner?
This are but rhetorical questions. These things. I repeat, these things baffles and gets me thinking till I doubt that there is a God somewhere watching. But what do I know?

God they say is an unquestionable God. Know this, I have over a million questions to ask him. Why did he have to create and give us an existence if He knew we will all die someday; not determining the longevity? When I get up there, if ever I get lucky to. I'll inquire of him so much. I need to know. I'm curious.
What do the Theologians say? These are the signs of the 'End Times'. Well then, let the world end already, and let's get riddance to the gory sights and sickening news we hear and see daily. I just hope it meets me in good deed. As a non-conformist, I say, we're only but a compilation of breaths. Live it like it is your last.

Everyone is so busy with their lives and struggles(s) that we forget to sap off life's inspiration and teachings. Yes. Life in itself is a mystery and has a lot to offer than we can ever fathom. The depth and magnitude of its knowledge is unfathomable, indescribable, insatiable to man (I'm short of semantics to use). There's more to this Life than meets the eye.

Little wonder, the movers and shakers of Earth are doubting Thomases. They doubt HIS existence. The truth is, it'll only get worse, and very worse until we see Life's worst. Make your stay count. Be impactful.

Cc: Lalasticlala
Ishilove
IamPlato
SoapQueen
MakyDebbie
In your words; "Were some people destined to die gruesomely?"

Now my question is, "Is destiny preplanned?"

If yes, then the God of creation is unfair..
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by RAFIC(m): 2:58am On Jun 30, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
Please Danny, do so. I'll love to read this book. Even if the so called 'First Father' unleashed this, couldn't God just have wiped them out and start with a whole new people?
I would love to send you a book that I'm certain will answer the bulk of these questions, if you keep an objective mind. May I send you a PM?
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by kalu61(m): 6:16am On Jun 30, 2018
You sounded as if Nigeria is the worst to live on earth or God is punishing us. l don't like looking thing from too spiritual perspective but I must say this for example.
Was it God that killed Dbanje son? the tanker explosion,herdmens killing, book haram, the natural disasters? Most of the deaths are human making and some are just natural reaction of the place we live in.
ls it God that instructed leader to short change the people? Was it God that passed the arms bill in USA? Was it God that told our leader to under rule us and steal billions of naira?
I repeat most things that happened is a result founded in human activities.

live a good live and forget about what happened in the underworld.
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by UyaiIncomparabl(op): 6:44am On Jun 30, 2018
mimimile93:
In your words; "Were some people destined to die gruesomely?"

Now my question is, "Is destiny preplanned?"

If yes, then the God of creation is unfair..
I ask myself that question too. Were our Destinies pre-planned? Even if, why were some people unlucky? I wouldn't say God's creation is unfair. He is the Omniscient. We just can never question him.

But if ever I get a chance to talk one on one with him, I'll inquire of him so much.
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by UyaiIncomparabl(op): 6:46am On Jun 30, 2018
RAFIC:
I would love to send you a book that I'm certain will answer the bulk of these questions, if you keep an objective mind. May I send you a PM?
Is it a soft copy?
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by UyaiIncomparabl(op): 6:55am On Jun 30, 2018
kalu61:
You sounded as if Nigeria is the worst to live on earth or God is punishing us. l don't like looking thing from too spiritual perspective but I must say this for example.
Was it God that killed Dbanje son? the tanker explosion,herdmens killing, book haram, the natural disasters? Most of the deaths are human making and some are just natural reaction of the place we live in.
ls it God that instructed leader to short change the people? Was it God that passed the arms bill in USA? Was it God that told our leader to under rule us and steal billions of naira?
I repeat most things that happened is a result founded in human activities.

live a good live and forget about what happened in the underworld.
No. Nigeria isn't one of the worst place to live in. It just gets messier and scarier by the day. Deaths here and there. Okay. Deaths occur in even the developed countries. Look at this, don't you think it's more alarming here in Nigeria? People are losing lives gruesomely and there's nothing that's been done to be curbed. Human activities you say? *scoffs*

Is it fair for the Omniscient God to watch these things happen? Couldn't it have been averted if He so much loves us?
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by kalu61(m): 7:29am On Jun 30, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
No. Nigeria isn't one of the worst place to live in. It just gets messier and scarier by the day. Deaths here and there. Okay. Deaths occur in even the developed countries. Look at this, don't you think it's more alarming here in Nigeria? People are losing lives gruesomely and there's nothing that's been done to be curbed. Human activities you say? *scoffs*

Is it fair for the Omniscient God to watch these things happen? Couldn't it have been averted if He so much loves us?
if you have admitted that our belove country is not the worst then lets switch to the spiritual because I love constructive criticism.

Are you now blaming God for keeping a blind eyes to the atrocities?. His foolishness is wiser than your wisdom. Can you prove as well the millions he adverted which you brain capacity and subconscious mind will "NEVER DECODE"?.
When people use substandard materials do they want God to advert it consequences?
When roads are not good and driver keep over speeding, is it God that will stop that?
When driver put unhealthy vehicle on the road, who is to blame?
When people can avoid some death and property lose instead to say "am sorry", whose fault?

like is said, no human has the full capacity to understand what goes beyond us. We can only comprehend within the limits of our brain. Like somebody said on this thread. Do you know they are millions of number between 0 and 1. If there is, why are we not talking about them.

My dear, God is never a magician.
He gave us the choice to choose and in every choice there is an effect.

You can only question what you know, how about those that your brain cannot read.
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by mimimile93: 7:33am On Jun 30, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
I ask myself that question too. Were our Destinies pre-planned? Even if, why were some people unlucky? I wouldn't say God's creation is unfair. He is the Omniscient. We just can never question him.

But if ever I get a chance to talk one on one with him, I'll inquire of him so much.
I noticed some things about the Elites and the Peasants.

ELITES;
Give birth at the hospital, spend a week or two in the hospital after delivery, most times have complications during birth. Getting home spend some months resting before starting up with chores.

PEASANTS;
Give birth at home or local midwife centre, most times without complications, are back on feet that same day and start up with chores. Some go trading/farming the next day after delivery.


Some times there are stuffs a peasant will eat and she's ok. But if elite eats that same stuffs might likely gets sick. (I have seen this happens)


It will be UNFAIR to say that destinies are preplanned.
But if destinies are really preplanned then it isn't the same God that created everybody but if it is, then the God is UNFAIR!
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by IamPlato(m): 8:23am On Jun 30, 2018
mimimile93:
In your words; "Were some people destined to die gruesomely?"

Now my question is, "Is destiny preplanned?"

If yes, then the God of creation is unfair..
...


Never! It Was Never Pre planned... Whatever Happens To Us Are As A Result Of Choices we Have Made while Leaving Here On Earth
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by IamPlato(m): 8:28am On Jun 30, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
Yes. Boko Haram was as terrific as fright itself. The point is, too many deaths are happening in successions and it is sickening. Even now, I fear nothing at all, not even death.
...


God Will Not Allow Us To Die Like That...
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by IamPlato(m): 8:29am On Jun 30, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
Please Danny, do so. I'll love to read this book. Even if the so called 'First Father' unleashed this, couldn't God just have wiped them out and start with a whole new people?
...



This Is One Of The Questions Answered
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by IamPlato(m): 9:24am On Jun 30, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
I ask myself that question too. Were our Destinies pre-planned? Even if, why were some people unlucky? I wouldn't say God's creation is unfair. He is the Omniscient. We just can never question him.

But if ever I get a chance to talk one on one with him, I'll inquire of him so much.
...



I Also Have Millions Of Questions... One Which Is, Why Do We Exist? Reasons for Creating Us...




We Were Never Pre planned... Everything Happens As A Result Of Our Choices Made...


But Because The Is Something Called "Grace" the World Calls It "Luck"... Death Works With Time as Grace Expires in Lives Everyday...

Some Have Short Grace, some Have It Lengthy...



The Grace Is What Sustains Us. Once Your Grace Is Not Exhausted, no Type Of Accident Can Take A Man's life...



Why Do We Recite "The Grace" after Service? Have You Ever Thought About That?

After Services 2 God On Sunday, we All Wnt Unlimited Grace which Can Nt Be Possible in This World
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by RAFIC(m): 9:27am On Jun 30, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
Is it a soft copy?
Sure, it is. I believe you are from a Christian background, yes?
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by UyaiIncomparabl(op): 2:59pm On Jul 01, 2018
RAFIC:
Sure, it is. I believe you are from a Christian background, yes?
Definitely. I am.
Does it come with a price tag?
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by peacengine(m): 3:29pm On Jul 01, 2018
crackhaus:
As a non-conformist, you should understand that bad things happen everywhere in the world and it has nothing to do with God or Nigeria.

Turn on your TV and see tragic things happening around the world. At least Nigeria is safe from natural disasters and war.
Can you imagine being inside your home chilling with your loved ones and the earth starts vibrating and opening up under your feet - which direction will you run to in such a situation?
What about tsunamis and monsoons?
You think Fulani herdsmen and boko haram are the worst? Go to the middle East and you'll see children and teenagers who were born and grew up in the midst of war - they don't even know what it feels like to live a quiet life in a city without hearing bombs dropping around them every 3hrs.
Just yesterday, a gunman shot and killed five journalists at a newspaper in the US - gun violence has become a monthly occurrence in the United States. Sometime last month it was volcanic eruptions in Hawaii with people abandoning homes they've labored for all their lives as hot lava consumed it all.

Death is everywhere, and I disagree with you when you say luck is not involved. I also don't buy into the rhetoric that's been going around since this tanker explosion yesterday about how Nigerians have wronged God and bla bla. We really don't have to make everything about religion, accidents happen everywhere in the world even in the safest most developed societies and it's nothing but sheer LUCK when people escape these deadly situations unhurt.

Cheers...
O boy to give you 1000 likes de hungry me. It's clear that you are exposed and enlightened.
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by crackhaus: 10:07pm On Jul 01, 2018
peacengine:
O boy to give you 1000 likes de hungry me. It's clear that you are exposed and enlightened.
Lol, you're too kind..
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by RAFIC(m): 5:28am On Jul 02, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
Definitely. I am.
Does it come with a price tag?
No, it doesn't. I've been trying to respond to your mail, but the message simply shows me 'queued', and remains in the outbox folder. I'm not sure what the problem is, but I'd give it another try and let you know.
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by gabbynak(m): 10:20am On Jul 02, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
You escape death, and you term it luck? Nay. You're not lucky. It's not just your turn. When it is your turn to bow out, no force can rigidly withhold the possibility of it happening.......
This is the part I love most.... Weldone!
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by gabbynak(m): 10:23am On Jul 02, 2018
IamPlato:
...


God Never Had Death In Store For Us... It Was Unleashed on Us By Our First Father...


I Have A Book About Creation, when I Publish It I Will Send You a free Copy... There So Many Things We Do Not Understand About God
Please also send to me! Thank you...
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by IamPlato(m): 10:28am On Jul 02, 2018
gabbynak:
Please also send to me! Thank you...
NOTED
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by gabbynak(m): 10:39am On Jul 02, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
Please Danny, do so. I'll love to read this book. Even if the so called 'First Father' unleashed this, couldn't God just have wiped them out and start with a whole new people?
I love the way you think! But look at it from this way, I am not quoting any bible but I will be paraphrasing some bible story.
Now God Created Human and all things, Right? Before then, He created the Arch Angel Lucifer who wrestled with God, then Lucifer a.k.a The devil, or simply put satan was cast down, to the earth, he tries to be like God, and to make every one sees or believes that God is not just or fair, he frustrate every plan and agenda of God. Don't you think if God had acted according to your question, The devil will be justified? As in after He created Man, the Lord destroys the Man immediately because they made a mistake, or after God created the devil, and the devil rebelled against God He destroys the devil before the very presence of the other Angels? Would God be Just and True in his actions? Me I am also just asking ni ooo! I don't know if you get the picture I just painted.
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by virago(f): 8:02am On Aug 01, 2018
SoapQueen:
My sister, I am scared and really worried.
Nothing to be scared about , she's only trying out her literary prowess. She doesn't sound like a truly depressed person
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by UyaiIncomparabl(op): 5:59pm On Aug 01, 2018
virago:
Nothing to be scared about , she's only trying out her literary prowess. She doesn't sound like a truly depressed person
Why're you such a spoilsport? angry
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by virago(f):
UyaiIncomparabl:
Why're you such a spoilsport? angry
The only thing you crave is attention and it seems to be working for you
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by UyaiIncomparabl(op): 6:44pm On Aug 01, 2018
virago:
The only you crave is attention and it seems to be working for you
Get behind me, spoilsport. Go and create your own attention too. angry
Re: Why Is Life So Rigid? by virago(f): 6:45pm On Aug 01, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
Get behind me, spoilsport. Go and create your own attention too. angry
Buzz off pesky insect
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