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Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by donjobill: 7:22am On Jul 01, 2018
OP, nature, generally, endowed men with more macho power than women so as to serve them ( and our young ones) more and to protect them.

You are seeing things from "do me as I do you " mentality.
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by MISEDUCATIONS: 7:27am On Jul 01, 2018
donjobill:
OP, nature, generally, endowed men with more macho power than women so as to serve them ( and our young ones) more and to protect them.

You are seeing things from "do me as I do you " mentality.
the Bible verse says Women help men not the other way round.
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by NightHound(m): 7:40am On Jul 01, 2018
Smh. The man, the boy, and the donkey. You're a fool whatever you do, because everyone will have a different perspective of things. By your reasoning, if your girl had paid for the stuff, you would be happy to carry the load? Think about it: she pays and you're left holding the bag by default? I don't think so.

It's probably a very tiny bag; whoever bought it doesn't need a "bag-carrier" for it. You can relinquish it only if the other person offers to "help".
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by donjobill: 7:40am On Jul 01, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
the Bible verse says Women help men not the other way round.
You're entitled to your viewpoint.
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by XhosaNostra(f): 7:51am On Jul 01, 2018
Dami12345:
Coming from the partner who wants all the benefits and none of the losses.

Besides if it's no big deal why didn't she carry it? angry

Why is it such a big deal for her to just pick it the fuvck up.
Look, this scenario depends on how it was approached. If someone expects you to carry a bag because they paid, it has a condescending ring to it. It's like he is using the fact that he paid as leverage. That's a subtle type of bullying IMO & I also would have a problem carrying out orders because someone paid.
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by MISEDUCATIONS: 7:51am On Jul 01, 2018
donjobill:
You're entitled to your viewpoint.
its not mine. its a verse.
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Originalsly: 8:00am On Jul 01, 2018
Hmmmm......it is pretty bad if you have to find out if carrying a bag is right or wrong. With this kind dinner menu.....when it comes to real life problems... your brain will never develop to make confident decisions. You're not ready for gf..... you're on the road to heartbreak.
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by donjobill: 8:00am On Jul 01, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
its not mine. its a verse.
The interpretation of which you accept as true. Your viewpoint, by implication.
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by austyn0(m): 8:03am On Jul 01, 2018
Sarkae:
she said; Beb, it doesn't make sense why we will walk together n I will be the one holding the nylon?. Which means it will b an everyday stuff. To be sincere. What that suppose to be my work?
It depends on the way you both relate....But withouta an iota of doubt, a girl that respects you won't think twice before collecting that nylon when you demand it.....

You ask her for reasons why it doesn't make sense? I bet her reasons would be funny.
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by ibietela2(m): 8:05am On Jul 01, 2018
Both of you are acting immature
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Timewilltell2(f): 8:18am On Jul 01, 2018
[quote author=MISEDUCATIONS post=68976575][/quote]Slavery is you . You is a slave . With your stupid fugly women.
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Dami12345: 8:24am On Jul 01, 2018
XhosaNostra:
Look, this scenario depends on how it was approached. If someone expects you to carry a bag because they paid, it has a condescending ring to it. It's like he is using the fact that he paid as leverage. That's a subtle type of bullying IMO & I also would have a problem carrying out orders because someone paid.
I wonder if and how you would keep a job?
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by dingbang(m): 8:26am On Jul 01, 2018
Well. I wouldn't mind carrying it. But thunder would fire her if wen we get to the house and she expects me to cook the food.
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by MISEDUCATIONS: 8:28am On Jul 01, 2018
Timewilltell2:
Slavery is you . You is a slave . With your stupid fugly women.
MISEDUCATIONS:
according to these lowlife modern women, a man must earn the money, buy the food, carry it, and when at home they'll complain cooking isnt for them and after eating complain doing dishes aint a woman thing.
you nigerian guys are too nice for your own good. come to Southern Africa and see women who find joy in shopping, cooking and doing dishes. .
i swear next you gona be putting food in these lazy creatures' mouths. man up for once. you are big act like it.
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Sarkae(op): 8:28am On Jul 01, 2018
Hmmm
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by MISEDUCATIONS: 8:29am On Jul 01, 2018
donjobill:
The interpretation of which you accept as true. Your viewpoint, by implication.
MISEDUCATIONS:
its not mine. its a verse.
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:32am On Jul 01, 2018
Dami12345:
I wonder if and how you would keep a job?
What does that have to do with anything? A boyfriend is not a boss undecided
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by pocohantas(f): 8:49am On Jul 01, 2018
LivingFree:
Erm.... what happened to being an adult huh

It doesn't matter who carries the damn bag! But since you paid for it, the contents belong to you, so carry your shopping and go!

Can I ask who cooks the contents? Who washed the dishes after the contents were eaten?

After you answer this truthfully, you'll understand who should be kind enough to carry the bag...

I can't believe we're having this discussion but... let's go with it undecided
As in,e weak me.
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Nobody: 8:53am On Jul 01, 2018
You should carry it, my boo do carry the nylon, na love jare, be romantic for once.
Re: Who Is To Carry The Grocery Bag? by Dami12345: 10:24am On Jul 01, 2018
XhosaNostra:
What does that have to do with anything? A boyfriend is not a boss undecided
You know what angry.
Your right.
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