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Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 11:06am On Jul 02, 2018
cococandy:
She Lost me here.

“He will hurt you, really really damage you”.

Stop marrying psychos
SA is a home of psychopaths with no brains , check the ones on nairaland. No brains at all, you can't even discuss properly with them.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by seekier(m): 11:07am On Jul 02, 2018
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Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Okuchris(f): 11:08am On Jul 02, 2018
Timewilltell2:
Ugly , lazy fool giving marriage advise ? Who marries these drunkard hoes in the first place . Nonsense .
if you are truly a woman,you won't say that to your fellow woman
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by leunamme93(m): 11:08am On Jul 02, 2018


I took this point as it not only applies to marriage but life in general...

Friends are not your measuring stick to your success. Don’t compare your marriage, . Some people compromise and sacrifice too much to be where they are. Just stick to the family vision and forget the noise.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by oglalasioux(m): 11:09am On Jul 02, 2018
Cheating begins at 35.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 11:10am On Jul 02, 2018
aycorporat:
I have observed that you have a thing for all this foreign ladies especially SA ladies. Is there any wound that is not healing or some offence from them?
I feel pity for their hiv ,hunger and illiteracy and desparation for naija men.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by chuberg(m): 11:10am On Jul 02, 2018
cococandy:
She Lost me here.

“He will hurt you, really really damage you”.

Stop marrying psychos
It must not be physical, you can damage someone psychological
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 11:12am On Jul 02, 2018
dsaintJ4Real:
Lol.
But are you married? She actually made some very good sense.
Also, experience teaches one that if you look closely you will see 'sense' inside 'nonsense'.

Enjoy.
She is a SA, that right there tells you how stupid the whole thread is. Who takes junkies seriously ,?
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 11:14am On Jul 02, 2018
Okuchris:
if you are truly a woman,you won't say that to your fellow woman
She is a SA, they are not women but dumb hoes who are lazy with nothing to offer. Educate yourself about their senselessness. Did you get anything from the rubbish she wrote ?. I bet you were laughing at her slave ass as I was.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Saff(f): 11:18am On Jul 02, 2018
Imagine being married at 17. No way
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by ekanempatrick28(m): 11:21am On Jul 02, 2018
Timewilltell2:
She is a SA, that right there tells you how stupid the whole thread is. Who takes junkies seriously ,?
if dats how u feel fine but note she aint wrong abt everything she said. So pls bring out a place in statement dat she got it wrong.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 11:24am On Jul 02, 2018
ekanempatrick28:
if dats how u feel fine but note she aint wrong abt everything she said. So pls bring out a place in statement dat she got it wrong.
She is a slave of a wife and a damaged one at that according to her. No more needs to be said.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by ekanempatrick28(m): 11:25am On Jul 02, 2018
Timewilltell2:
She is a slave of a wife and a damaged one at that according to her. No more needs to be said.
generally speaking most men hurt their wives and i dont mean physical hurt. And she aint no slave she is taking care of her husband
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by helpsystem: 11:27am On Jul 02, 2018
Still some people can't comprehend simple advice. This lady just spoke like a granny that has never been divorced with so much experience. Kudos to her if I can find a lady as matured and reasonable has she's, I will get married in 3months.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by elvido(m): 11:28am On Jul 02, 2018
cococandy:
A partner can hurt you and you’d all be fine at the end of the day because no one is perfect.

But once we are approaching damaging physically or psychologically, it’s bye time.
well anything that rocks yu boat, but i recommend yu try some of does wisdom for a lasting n fulfilling marriage...if all fails Im still here waiting..
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 11:30am On Jul 02, 2018
ekanempatrick28:
generally speaking most men hurt their wives and i dont mean physical hurt. And she aint no slave she is taking care of her husband
Hiv slave lover spotted .
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Okuchris(f): 11:34am On Jul 02, 2018
Timewilltell2:
She is a SA, they are not women but dumb hoes who are lazy with nothing to offer. Educate yourself about their senselessness. Did you get anything from the rubbish she wrote ?. I bet you were laughing at her slave ass as I was.
I got everything she wrote because I read with understanding.
for me,she made sense
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by donbachi(m): 11:36am On Jul 02, 2018
She is very very correct...i remember when i told my friends i was getting married,one of them said to me"how she go cope with dis ur clubing tins"..and i told him i wont stop.after my marriage i was still hitting the club so hard,atimes i clubed till 2am and she never complained,it does not mean she was stupid or a fool,rather i was the stupid and foolish one.she took all of it because she really came to marry and to be loved as well.she never talked me out of it,all she did was stayf awake and praying for me.so many women wont take it,but she did.it continued till i grew up mentally and maritally..we are both happy today..always know that in marriage there is no experience..rather it is like redeemed church with branches everywere,but with different preachings every sunday..dont breach the communication with your hussy/wify..also up your marital game.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by JANK23H(m): 11:38am On Jul 02, 2018
Timewilltell2:
Hiv slave lover spotted .
Aunty,why are you hyperventilating all over the thread?

Abi SA woman steal your man?

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 11:39am On Jul 02, 2018
Okuchris:
I got everything she wrote because I read with understanding.
for me,she made sense
You are clearly as damaged as she is .
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by ekanempatrick28(m): 11:40am On Jul 02, 2018
Timewilltell2:
Hiv slave lover spotted .
thank u and i appreciate it. If dat woman really acts on her advise i will marry her anyday anytime just as helpsystem said. Now all she said in summary is dis marriage aint perfect but u shd love ur husband and kids wit everything. They will hurt u definitely get u angry and all but be calm and take things easy and neva compare ur marriage wit ur friends. Now any sensible guy dat has such a lady will treat her as a queen and if dat make me a hiv lover or wateva u call me, i gladly accept it. But madam every marriage even urs will undergo trial. Its a must. Even our parents marriages have dere challenges and dat wat dis young lady is pointing out. U go girl.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 11:41am On Jul 02, 2018
JANK23H:
Aunty,why are you hyperventilating all over the thread?

Abi SA woman steal your man?
You are a testicle .
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by akinszz: 11:41am On Jul 02, 2018
Timewilltell2:
Ugly , lazy fool giving marriage advise ? Who marries these drunkard hoes in the first place . Nonsense .
to be sincere she is beautiful...
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 11:43am On Jul 02, 2018
akinszz:
to be sincere she is beautiful...
Naija women are way prettier than that plain jane hiv carrier. Don't be a fool.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 11:46am On Jul 02, 2018
ekanempatrick28:
thank u and i appreciate it. If dat woman really acts on her advise i will marry her anyday anytime just as helpsystem said. Now all she said in summary is dis marriage aint perfect but u shd love ur husband and kids wit everything. They will hurt u definitely get u angry and all but be calm and take things easy and neva compare ur marriage wit ur friends. Now any sensible guy dat has such a lady will treat her as a queen and if dat make me a hiv lover or wateva u call me, i gladly accept it. But madam every marriage even urs will undergo trial. Its a must. Even our parents marriages have dere challenges and dat wat dis young lady is pointing out. U go girl.
Go to that slave country then , and mine stupid hungry diseased lesbians like the ones here on nairaland giving silly advises like this fool.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by akinszz: 11:48am On Jul 02, 2018
Timewilltell2:
Naija women are way prettier than that plain jane hiv carrier. Don't be a fool.
beautiful people are everywhere.... stop being childish...
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by helpsystem: 11:49am On Jul 02, 2018
ekanempatrick28:
thank u and i appreciate it. If dat woman really acts on her advise i will marry her anyday anytime just as helpsystem said. Now all she said in summary is dis marriage aint perfect but u shd love ur husband and kids wit everything. They will hurt u definitely get u angry and all but be calm and take things easy and neva compare ur marriage wit ur friends. Now any sensible guy dat has such a lady will treat her as a queen and if dat make me a hiv lover or wateva u call me, i gladly accept it. But madam every marriage even urs will undergo trial. Its a must. Even our parents marriages have dere challenges and dat wat dis young lady is pointing out. U go girl.
Don't disturb urself on people who are still stuck with social media fantasies. Dey go soon wake up to reality. Also I dislike racist and I always avoid them cos they are full of bitterness.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by JANK23H(m): 11:51am On Jul 02, 2018
Timewilltell2:
You are a testicle .
You are suffering from severe insecurity grin grin grin

Going through the threads you created, I can't help but feel sorry for you.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Dami12345: 11:51am On Jul 02, 2018
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Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Dami12345: 11:52am On Jul 02, 2018
Timewilltell2:
A dummy without a dime , would think so. Get off my mentions.
Exactly what a worthless woman would say,
Learn from the op and up your game. Be a woman that is valuable to both herself and her husband should she choose to have one.
Stop being yourself, the only skill you have is " spreading your legs all day long".
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by JANK23H(m): 11:54am On Jul 02, 2018
Timewilltell2:
You are a testicle .
Ehyah....poor girl!

Suffering from severe insecurity grin grin grin

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