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Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 11:54am On Jul 02, 2018

akinszz:
beautiful people are everywhere.... stop being childish...

But in naija they are more than them. Look at the thread they created on nairaland claiming SA beauty, yet posting pictures of black Americans and Ethiopians not their kiwi faces.

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 11:55am On Jul 02, 2018

JANK23H:
You are suffering from severe insecurity

Going through the threads you created, I can't help but feel sorry for you.

Your mother is insecure that's why she slept with a loser like your father.

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by JANK23H(m): 11:56am On Jul 02, 2018

Timewilltell2:
Your mother is insecure that's why she slept with a loser like your father.

I think I heard a sound. undecided

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 11:57am On Jul 02, 2018

Dami12345:
Exactly what a worthless woman would say,
Learn from the op and up your game. Be a woman that is valuable to both herself and her husband should she choose to have one.
Stop being yourself, the only skill you have is " spreading your legs all day long".

SA men are useless drunks , that's why their women work hard . You don't even know me , my man could buy you anyday fool.

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 11:58am On Jul 02, 2018

JANK23H:
Ehyah....poor girl!

Suffering from severe insecurity

So dumb.

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by akinszz: 12:01pm On Jul 02, 2018

Timewilltell2:
But in naija they are more than them. Look at the thread they created on nairaland claiming SA beauty, yet posting pictures of black Americans and Ethiopians not their kiwi faces.

y fill your heart with hate for s.a girls... what did they collect from you that made u to hate them so much. grin

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by JANK23H(m): 12:01pm On Jul 02, 2018

Timewilltell2:
So dumb.

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by DonBenny77(m): 12:02pm On Jul 02, 2018

Alejoc:
No one formula fits all!

Yeah!

Her's is a wonderful formula though

Makes sense to me

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by ekanempatrick28(m): 12:02pm On Jul 02, 2018

Timewilltell2:
Go to that slave country then , and mine stupid hungry diseased lesbians like the ones here on nairaland giving silly advises like this fool.

i dont need to go anywhere cos we have good women like her in nigeria though am also open minded. And see just cos someone doesnt agree wit ur point u will now be insulting dem dats bad. Everyone have a right to choose wat they want seriously. And i see u have a problem wit southafricans

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 12:03pm On Jul 02, 2018

akinszz:
y fill your heart with hate for s.a girls... what did they collect from you that made u to hate them so much.

I generally hate good for nothing people. Plus they have jealous hearts for us. And very lazy to fix their country.

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by kuuljay(m): 12:04pm On Jul 02, 2018

Timewilltell2:
SA men are useless drunks , that's why their women work hard . You don't even know me , my man could buy you anyday fool.

why you dey harsh like this?? Haba!!!

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 12:04pm On Jul 02, 2018

ekanempatrick28:
i dont need to go anywhere cos we have good women like her in nigeria though am also open minded. And see just cos someone doesnt agree wit ur point u will now be insulting dem dats bad. Everyone have a right to choose wat they want seriously. And i see u have a problem wit southafricans

You must be a low life to compare SA women to naija girls. Disgusting how dare you .

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by virago(f): 12:05pm On Jul 02, 2018

phantonce:
Am I the only one thinking that the husband be arrested for marrying an underage.

Isn't having sex talkless of marriage to an underage a crime again..

It may be legal where they come from , our fore fathers married at much an earlier age , our great great grand mothers married as soon as their breasts start showing , it was when the white men came we started following their culture

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 12:05pm On Jul 02, 2018

kuuljay:
why you dey harsh like this?? Haba!!!

It's the truth .

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 12:06pm On Jul 02, 2018

virago:
It may be legal where they come from , our fore fathers married at much an earlier age , our great great grand mothers married as soon as their breasts start showing , it was when the white men came we started following their culture

Paedophile is legal in SA .

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by akinszz: 12:07pm On Jul 02, 2018

Timewilltell2:
I generally hate good for nothing people. Plus they have jealous hearts for us. And very lazy to fix their country.

how is this your problem?

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by virago(f): 12:09pm On Jul 02, 2018

Timewilltell2:
Paedophile is legal in SA .

Who coined the word "Paedophilia" ?

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 12:10pm On Jul 02, 2018

akinszz:
how is this your problem?

Shut up you slave protector.

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 12:11pm On Jul 02, 2018

virago:
Who coined the word "Paedophilia" ?

Don't support evil

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by akinszz: 12:12pm On Jul 02, 2018

Timewilltell2:
Shut up you slave protector.

okugbé

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by KekeNash(f): 12:13pm On Jul 02, 2018

Timewilltell2:
Ugly , lazy fool giving marriage advise ? Who marries these drunkard hoes in the first place . Nonsense .

Are you pretty?

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 12:13pm On Jul 02, 2018

akinszz:
okugbé

Hunger will kill you fool

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 12:14pm On Jul 02, 2018

KekeNash:
Are you pretty?

Prettier than you.

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by bukatyne(f): 12:25pm On Jul 02, 2018

She has some really good points especially on SM, comparing/competing with friends

Ditto with in-laws/husband's friends not your friends and extreme importance of communication. I like the 'don't assume anything' part.

However, she sounds like the average endurance crew with suffering suffering.

Marriage is not for the selfish sha.

And scary how all the guys are happy with the advice because it teaches women to put up wit their shit.

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Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 12:27pm On Jul 02, 2018

bukatyne:
She has some really good points especially on SM, comparing/competing with friends

Ditto with in-laws/husband's friends not your friends.
However, she sounds like the average endurance crew with suffering suffering.

Marriage is not for the selfish sha.

And scary how all the guys are happy with the advice because it teaches women to put up wit their shit.

SA women are conditioned for slavery , are you surprised?. That's why they have to work like men to survive grin

. It's pathetic over there.

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by ekanempatrick28(m): 12:33pm On Jul 02, 2018

Timewilltell2:
You must be a low life to compare SA women to naija girls. Disgusting how dare you .

am not comparing am saying in every country they have good and bad women and like i said u dont have to insult someone if they dont agree wit ur point. So why sending insults madam. Everyone has a choice. Even they are some SA women better dan ours and dere are nigerian women beta dan deres too.

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by KekeNash(f): 12:34pm On Jul 02, 2018

Timewilltell2:
Prettier than you.

Well its simple post your pics al post mine.

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by ekanempatrick28(m): 12:36pm On Jul 02, 2018

bukatyne:
She has some really good points especially on SM, comparing/competing with friends

Ditto with in-laws/husband's friends not your friends and extreme importance of communication. I like the 'don't assume anything' part.

However, she sounds like the average endurance crew with suffering suffering.

Marriage is not for the selfish sha.

And scary how all the guys are happy with the advice because it teaches women to put up wit their shit.

dont get me wrong all her points are good and a sensible will treat such lady as a queen and spoil her silly but ur fellow lady i dont know wat her problem wit SA women even during or parents times we shouldnt lie our mothers took a lot of pooo

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by bukatyne(f): 12:47pm On Jul 02, 2018

ekanempatrick28:
dont get me wrong all her points are good and a sensible will treat such lady as a queen and spoil her silly but ur fellow lady i dont know wat her problem wit SA women even during or parents times we shouldnt lie our mothers took a lot of pooo

@Bold:

Which is the 'hallmark' of a great marriage.

Is there anything wrong with teaching men to do right by their women?

For me, I do not see marriage has a 'suffering ground'.

Yes, your spouse would hurt you, sometimes it feels like you are carrying most of the weight, you have to be selfless etc. however not a man would damage you, you can't never win bla bla bla.

Of course, a good number of men are conditioned to let women suffer/ see suffering as the hallmark of a good wifehood so it is only right they reward their slaves accordingly.

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Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by bukatyne(f): 12:47pm On Jul 02, 2018

Timewilltell2:
SA women are conditioned for slavery , are you surprised?. That's why they have to work like men to survive . It's pathetic over there.

Well never been there, can't say.

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by KekeNash(f): 12:52pm On Jul 02, 2018

Timewilltell2:
I feel pity for their hiv ,hunger and illiteracy and desparation for naija men.

You just sound stupid

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Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by brenister10: 1:08pm On Jul 02, 2018

Timewilltell2:
Ugly , lazy fool giving marriage advise ? Who marries these drunkard hoes in the first place . Nonsense .

Stupid idiot hoe who doesn't see anything good in the advice except to open your legs to useless dicks all in the name of feeling among...... Nemesis will soon catch up with you. FOOL

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