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Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by KekeNash(f): 3:07pm On Jul 02, 2018
OrireSA:
hahahahahahahahahahaha don't hate me cause I'm dark
LoL WTF!
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by brenister10: 3:09pm On Jul 02, 2018
Timewilltell2:
Go and kill your mom and sell her body parts, idiot.
A fool will always be a fool. Its obvious you came from a home where love is a dream.

Goes like you aren't hard to detect
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by OrireSA(m): 3:09pm On Jul 02, 2018
Timewilltell2:
Wtf ? Get off mentions you desperate human trafficker. Are there no women you can rape there. Stupid.
hahahahahahahahahahahaha okay o
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Timewilltell2(f): 3:16pm On Jul 02, 2018
KekeNash:
LoL WTF!
Your brother is busy embarrassing himself upangan grin. Stop him , it's creepily and scary.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by KekeNash(f): 3:19pm On Jul 02, 2018
Timewilltell2:
Look here you SA hoe, I'm not your mate ok. I'm too classy for your kind. You don't want me to embarrass you like that fool xhosanostra.
No YOU embarrased yourself, its clear you are fugly inside out.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by XhosaNostra(f):
Timewilltell2:
Look here you SA hoe, I'm not your mate ok. I'm too classy for your kind. You don't want me to embarrass you like that fool xhosanostra.
Seems you're obsessed with me smiley I'd be flattered if it wasn't so creepy.

Let me tell you something, sweetheart. Ignoring you doesn't mean you've embarrassed me in any way. I'm not responding to your excessive mentions because you simply bore me. I'm overlooking you, to interact with those who have the mental capacity to be engaging. You're neither captivating nor smart, so to the trash bin you go, you insipid human garbage! I'm not going to stop what I'm doing just to read yet another one of your mindless word vomit. Bye.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by KekeNash(f): 3:30pm On Jul 02, 2018
Runalong333:
You like embarrassing yourself don't you? grin. SA women are the most liberal in Africa and don't hunt down men for marriage. They stand on their own two feet , something clearly foreign for you. If a man comes along to marry them, then they have to partner unlike in naija where the men will have the final say on money. Or give a fool like you allowance like a child . You are probably a bored house wife who gets an allowance and can't even access your man's business account cus he don't trust you , you might spend all his money on bleaching creams and ugly weaves.
TIME WILL TELL for TimeWillTell to understand this
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Nobody: 3:36pm On Jul 02, 2018
KekeNash:
TIME WILL TELL for TimeWillTell to understand this
Leave her, she's depressed.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by OrireSA(m): 3:39pm On Jul 02, 2018
KekeNash:
TIME WILL TELL for TimeWillTell to understand this
TimeWillTell doesn't have Time to understand lol
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by KekeNash(f): 3:44pm On Jul 02, 2018
OrireSA:
TimeWillTell doesn't have Time to understand lol
Kwaaa! Am throwing a blanket, towel gon chop chop o.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by MrCork: 4:05pm On Jul 02, 2018
Timewilltell2:
Your brother is busy embarrassing himself upangan grin. Stop him , it's creepily and scary.
^^yor brain seem to be normal today...great...now i can talk to u on mature levels

..anyways are u lightskin?
smiley
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by ekanempatrick28(m): 5:27pm On Jul 02, 2018
bukatyne:
Maybe you shouldn't wait until she has gone through a lot from you before treating her like a queen.

Maybe you should treat her like you would want to be treated in the first place so she doesn't have to suffer or endure anything.

Maybe she would be rather treated with respect than treated as a queen as a reward for suffering.
i understand wat u saying and my wife wont suffer. But she is saying d truth most men hurt dere wives knowingly or unknowingly i can boldly tell u 85percent of married men in nigeria have side chicks and u know its d truth. She is just saying how a marriage is. There are times u will get hurt no matter how gud d man is. It might not b by cheating it might b something else
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by ekanempatrick28(m): 5:32pm On Jul 02, 2018
Timewilltell2:
Lol, liberal ? More like slaves and hoes. Stop talking to me, lazy goat who has adopted a culture of laziness and immasculity. Imagine this fool bragging about being controlled by a woman? Is that one a man undecided.. Good thing you didn't marry a classy naija girl who knows her worth, you would have ruined her life. Nonsense.
pls if its dat 80percent of naija girls are runs girls so who are d hoes. Madam pls dat means british ladies are hoes and slaves cos they work alot same as american ladies baaa
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by mikeuz(m): 6:01pm On Jul 02, 2018
cococandy:
She Lost me here.

“He will hurt you, really really damage you”.

Stop marrying psychos
I don’t think you are married yet, if you are, you will understand.it goes both ways, the man and the woman.
My colleague will always say when he gets pushed and hurt; “Women are not problems, they are not complicated they are just UNIQUE”

Marriage is for mature people,( This type of maturity is different from the type you think you have now), you only experience it when you are in it.
He will hurt you, she will hurt you, the children will hurt you too.imagine it being rosy all the time, it will become boring.
It’s part of what makes marriage an interesting journey. It’s fun and lovely, and as you grow older you will begin to appreciate it more, as long as the marriage is founded on the right principles, and not SOCIAL MEEIA PRINCIPLES.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by cococandy(f): 6:15pm On Jul 02, 2018
Yea tell me all about it undecided
mikeuz:
I don’t think you are married yet, if you are, you will understand.it goes both ways, the man and the woman.
My colleague will always say when he gets pushed and hurt; “Women are not problems, they are not complicated they are just UNIQUE”

Marriage is for mature people,( This type of maturity is different from the type you think you have now), you only experience it when you are in it.
He will hurt you, she will hurt you, the children will hurt you too.imagine it being rosy all the time, it will become boring.
It’s part of what makes marriage an interesting journey. It’s fun and lovely, and as you grow older you will begin to appreciate it more, as long as the marriage is founded on the right principles, and not SOCIAL MEEIA PRINCIPLES.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Nobody: 8:13pm On Jul 02, 2018
cococandy:
She Lost me here.

“He will hurt you, really really damage you”.

Stop marrying psychos
Only a person from an abusive home will find this statement normal. undecided

Looks like you have the same shoes as I do. smiley
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by ClimberG: 9:50pm On Jul 02, 2018
"He will hurt you" : Okay thats true, happens in relationships. Its a give and take and forgive.

"He will really really damage you" : Wait a minute, stop right there! Is she really advising her fellow women to accept this type of marital abuse cheesy cheesy. Well well, her age of marriage (17yrs) says it all.

Its hilarious that the male folks in this thread are showering praises on her as-per THE GOOD OBEDIENT WIFE and advising other women to listen to her advise. If some men had their way, they will bring down the marital age to 12yrs winki swear.
Finally Sweetheart, since you have the courage to brag that you can tolerate marital abuse and you are advising other women to accept it, pls kindly drop your husband's number so i can help damage you the more.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Nobody:
KekeNash:
LoL WTF!
[color=darkblue] but you know that u are ugly?.this is kekeNash .a South Africa monkey who's think that she's a human being kikikkk[/color] grin

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Nobody: 10:01pm On Jul 02, 2018
Runalong333:
[s] sure a naija guy dumped your bleached ass for a wholesome SA girl, deal with. We are sick of burdens, we want equal partners not mouth feminists. You brag about being well educated but look down on women who hold their own ? Foolish[/s].
[color=darkblue] no sane Nigerian will date a South African HIV Aids women, unless he's a scammer and a drug dealer[/color] wink
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Nobody: 10:29pm On Jul 02, 2018
Saviour22:
[color=darkblue] no sane Nigerian will date a South African HIV Aids women, unless he's a scammer and a drug dealer[/color] wink
Ladies and Gentleman, the trophy for the most mo*ronic comment of this month goes to Saviour22. Everyone who liked it, slap yourself hard.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Nobody:
Mindfulness:
Ladies and Gentleman, the trophy for the most mo*ronic comment of this month goes to Saviour22. Everyone who liked it, slap yourself hard.
[color=darkblue] common shut up mumu.is it not the same South Africans who called Nigerians "drug dealers " and" kwerekweres "? U are stupid and senseless for mentioning me.[/color]

Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Nobody: 11:00pm On Jul 02, 2018
Saviour22:
[color=darkblue] common shut up mumu.is it not the same South Africans who called Nigerians "drug dealers " and" kwerekee "? U are stupid and senseless for mentioning me.[/color]
And that's the reason to hate on ALL South Africans? Don't be such a mo*ron. At least, TRY!
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Nobody: 11:02pm On Jul 02, 2018
Mindfulness:
And that's the reason to hate on ALL South Africans? Don't be such a mo*ron. At least, TRY!
[color=darkblue] common shut up ode, u it's u who bring ur stupidity on my mention fool.who I love and who I hate it's none of ur damn business [/color]
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by BlackAdam55(m): 11:16pm On Jul 02, 2018
Mindfulness:
Ladies and Gentleman, the trophy for the most mo*ronic comment of this month goes to Saviour22. Everyone who liked it, slap yourself hard.
did u see the screenshot? I bet u have I guess u are from South Africa undecided
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by BlackAdam55(m): 11:19pm On Jul 02, 2018
Saviour22:
[color=darkblue] but you know that u are ugly?.this is kekeNash .a South Africa monkey who's think that she's a human being kikikkk[/color] grin
grin
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Nobody: 11:22pm On Jul 02, 2018
BlackAdam55:
did u see the screenshot? I bet u have I guess u are from South Africa undecided
I am not South African.
Another mo*ronic conclusion.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Nobody: 11:22pm On Jul 02, 2018
BlackAdam55:
grin
[color=darkblue] kikik she looks like death became hers grin Very ugly looking creature[/color] grin grin
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jul 02, 2018
Saviour22:
[color=darkblue] common shut up ode, u it's u who bring ur stupidity on my mention fool.who I love and who I hate it's none of ur damn business [/color]
Hungry people hate even themselves. Not sorry for you. You are beyond help.
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by BlackAdam55(m): 11:24pm On Jul 02, 2018
Mindfulness:
I am not South African.
Another mo*ronic conclusion.
now get out! Stop telling people what and what they can or can not do tongue
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by Nobody: 11:26pm On Jul 02, 2018
Mindfulness:
Hungry people hate even themselves. Not sorry for you. You are beyond help.
[color=darkblue] kikiki look at this fool grin grin Common carry your stupidity out off my mention defender of South Africans kikik[/color] grin grin
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by BlackAdam55(m): 11:29pm On Jul 02, 2018
Saviour22:
[color=darkblue] kikik she looks like death became hers grin Very ugly looking creature[/color] grin grin
hehehe cheesy cheesy
Re: South African Lady Who Got Married At 17 Gives Marriage Survival Tips by LeSudAfricaine: 12:09am On Jul 03, 2018
KekeNash:
You just sound stupid
she is stupid
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