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Why You Shouldn’t Be Friends With A Girl That You Find Attractive by Nobody: 10:58am On Jul 11, 2018
Do you ever ask yourself why a girl you desire acts all weird when you ask her out after being friends with her for a long time?

You meet a girl, you like her, you call her up on phone and talk for hours, you hang out with her every day, you go out and do things together, but then when you want to get romantic she becomes uncomfortable.

Why is that?

It makes sense to be friends with a girl before you start dating her

You’re honestly looking for a good girl to settle down with, and you feel it’s necessary to be friends before you start dating.

Sure, you’d want to know a girl better, and feel more comfortable with her first before you start dating her.

Or you’d want the girl to get to know you better before you make a move or ask her out.

It makes sense…

True, there are some situations where some guys were friends with their girlfriends before they started dating.

But such only happens when the girl is already attracted to the guy in some way.

Now, the downside

How long do you think the girl is going to wait for you?

…not to mention you haven’t even shown any sign that you’re interested in her.



Yes, she is still available, but for how long?

You guys met, you are a nice guy, you’re sweet, she likes you, she enjoys your company… but the mistake is you’re not displaying any signs that you’re interested in her beyond friendship.

Then she goes ahead to friend zone you her mind.

When you are friends with a girl for too long without showing a little bit of interest in her, she will get the impression you don’t find her attractive.

Sure, she will like you for your cool characters and enjoy your company, but she wouldn’t be interested in dating you.

After all, you’re demonstrating that you’re a good friend, not a potential lover.

So she’s going to do friendly things with you that she does with other male friends of hers.

Now, what I’m about to say next might sting..

When another guy comes along, and this guy has the confidence to make a move, she’s going to move on..

Click this link to read more: https://www.afrourbanstyle.com/why-you-shouldnt-be-friends-with-a-girl-you-desire/#
Re: Why You Shouldn’t Be Friends With A Girl That You Find Attractive by Onechancearmy(m): 11:04am On Jul 11, 2018
OP is speaking from her headquarters in the Friend Zone grin
Re: Why You Shouldn’t Be Friends With A Girl That You Find Attractive by FreshBoss007: 11:10am On Jul 11, 2018
op please change topic to how get friendzoned by a girl..
Re: Why You Shouldn’t Be Friends With A Girl That You Find Attractive by mikejj(m): 11:11am On Jul 11, 2018
grin grin..true..friendzone atimes ehn
Re: Why You Shouldn’t Be Friends With A Girl That You Find Attractive by Nobody: 11:13am On Jul 11, 2018
Too Lazy to read cry
Re: Why You Shouldn’t Be Friends With A Girl That You Find Attractive by milemimi93(m): 11:22am On Jul 11, 2018
luisina:
Do you ever ask yourself why a girl you desire acts all weird when you ask her out after being friends with her for a long time?

You meet a girl, you like her, you call her up on phone and talk for hours, you hang out with her every day, you go out and do things together, but then when you want to get romantic she becomes uncomfortable.

Why is that?

It makes sense to be friends with a girl before you start dating her

You’re honestly looking for a good girl to settle down with, and you feel it’s necessary to be friends before you start dating.

Sure, you’d want to know a girl better, and feel more comfortable with her first before you start dating her.

Or you’d want the girl to get to know you better before you make a move or ask her out.

It makes sense…

True, there are some situations where some guys were friends with their girlfriends before they started dating.

But such only happens when the girl is already attracted to the guy in some way.

Now, the downside

How long do you think the girl is going to wait for you?

…not to mention you haven’t even shown any sign that you’re interested in her.



Yes, she is still available, but for how long?

You guys met, you are a nice guy, you’re sweet, she likes you, she enjoys your company… but the mistake is you’re not displaying any signs that you’re interested in her beyond friendship.

Then she goes ahead to friend zone you her mind.

When you are friends with a girl for too long without showing a little bit of interest in her, she will get the impression you don’t find her attractive.

Sure, she will like you for your cool characters and enjoy your company, but she wouldn’t be interested in dating you.

After all, you’re demonstrating that you’re a good friend, not a potential lover.

So she’s going to do friendly things with you that she does with other male friends of hers.

Now, what I’m about to say next might sting..

When another guy comes along, and this guy has the confidence to make a move, she’s going to move on..

Click this link to read more: https://www.afrourbanstyle.com/why-you-shouldnt-be-friends-with-a-girl-you-desire/#
Trash Trash Trash..

Go make money and no girl will reject you..
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