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I am married with one kid. I try all I can to make everything available for the family and to the best of my understanding for an average guy how did not plus normal.
but the issue is considering the standard of living in Nigeria and ekiti to be precise is not showing or making the work visible. its still feels like vision 2025 for break through. if i was single, I dont think the situation would have been better. but now my question is; stay single , get married which propels you more to success and stability??

Xcoolwunmi:
Am Solomon,
I am married with one kid. I try all I can to make everything available for the family and to the best of my understanding for an average guy how did not plus normal.
but the issue is considering the standard of living in Nigeria and ekiti to be precise is not showing or making the work visible. its still feels like vision 2025 for break through. if i was single, I dont think the situation would have been better. but now my question is; stay single , get married which propels you more to success and stability??

You can't determine success and stability....those things are beyond our control.

You can only set goals and strive to attain them. Your goal can be to stay single or married . Which ever choice makes u happier , choose it. But take note, life is in stages. Even for those who decide to remain single, as time passes, many begin to reassess their goals, finally get married.

If a single persons finds someone who makes him or her happy, n is serious about married, well, let them marry.

Success and stability comes and goes at any time. So those two are unimportant in in a real relationship.

The keyword is contentment.


So,

Restroom:
You can't determine success and stability....those things are beyond our control.

You can only set goals and strive to attain them. Your goal can be to stay single or married . Which ever choice makes u happier , choose it. But take note, life is in stages. Even for those who decide to remain single, as time passes, many begin to reassess their goals, finally get married.

If a single persons finds someone who makes him or her happy, n is serious about married, well, let them marry.

Success and stability comes and goes at any time. So those two are unimportant in in a real relationship.

The keyword is contentment.


So,

Agreement -- 100%

Based on the present situation in Nigeria, Been single, you may not even achieve anything been Married, my brother if you have a good wife an understanding one, a hustler like you, things will work out well, my Brother it take Gods Grace, mercy, Luck, etc to make it in life, everything has time when it's God's time for your glory Bros you will blow even if you live in a den it MST find you, pray and work you will succeed,


(quote author=Xcoolwunmi post=69557694]Am Solomon,
I am married with one kid. I try all I can to make everything available for the family and to the best of my understanding for an average guy how did not plus normal.
but the issue is considering the standard of living in Nigeria and ekiti to be precise is not showing or making the work visible. its still feels like vision 2025 for break through. if i was single, I dont think the situation would have been better. but now my question is; stay single , get married which propels you more to success and stability??[/quote]

Xcoolwunmi:
Am Solomon,
I am married with one kid. I try all I can to make everything available for the family and to the best of my understanding for an average guy how did not plus normal.
but the issue is considering the standard of living in Nigeria and ekiti to be precise is not showing or making the work visible. its still feels like vision 2025 for break through. if i was single, I dont think the situation would have been better. but now my question is; [b]stay single , get married which propels you more to success and stability??[b]

NONE! your relationship status is not a key to success. You can be single, married, successful and either miserable,.. None of this is a determinant. But the beauty of being married is combating whatever challenges life throws at you as a TEAM!

Does your wife work? the country is so bad that there is no available slot for sit-at-home mums anymore.
If your wife works plus whatever you earn, all you need to do is cut your expenses and be more prudent.

Stay positive, if you wear a long face and brood about your situation, how do you want madam to carry on?

you have spoken well@yetty thanks