My girlfriend's pastor asked her to swear by the bible that she will not commit fornication again. Though she refused, was the pastor right even when the bible says our yes should be yes and our no, should be no. He takes her as his daugther and calls and chat with her more than neccessary even as late as 10pm and he is married i don't trust him but my girl feels he is just being caring since he has not asked her out. Sometimes he gets jealouse because of me and often get angry when she fails to visit him at his request. He has other daugthers that he chats with or visits often but he seem to have special liking 4 her. He even had the gut to search her inbox.

She is using my phone number as her phone password, when he discovered this, he was not happy. Sometimes i read his chats and though he hasn't said anything to woo her, he openly how much he loves her. I once sent her a text threatening to call him and find out what he wants from her, he saw the text when he went throw her inbox. Is it even right for him to do that? He calls her like up to 6 times or more in a day and she feels he is just being caring. She is not even up to a year in the church. Does he love her more than her father who doesn't call like that? Our relationship is a serious one and we both love each other

If i wasn't serious with her, i would quit. Is it rigth for me to confront him because i don't him and my girl realy trust him and she is being naive. I suspect he wants to use a cunny and innocent way to get her. Please moderators move this to front page for me. Help a brother.

This is a story narrated by a friend

I wanted to suggest oo till I saw this

BRASH:
This is a story narrated by a friend

BRASH:
This is a story narrated by a friend

The spirit of jealousy has fallen upon you ...lol. My brother , if what you said is true , simply tell your girlfriend how you feel. If she still insist on keeping such an engagement with the pastor, then let her go ; for it means she prefers to please her married pastor than to please you. For it is wrong for pastor do such.

VictorRomanov:
I wanted to suggest oo till I saw this

na me oya suggest. Lol

BRASH:
My girlfriend's pastor asked her to swear by the bible that she will not commit fornication again. Though she refused, was the pastor right even when the bible says our yes should be yes and our no, should be no. He takes her as his daugther and calls and chat with her more than neccessary even as late as 10pm and he is married i don't trust him but my girl feels he is just being caring since he has not asked her out. Sometimes he gets jealouse because of me and often get angry when she fails to visit him at his request. He has other daugthers that he chats with or visits often but he seem to have special liking 4 her. He even had the gut to search her inbox.

He is more of fake than real. Instruct your girl friend to limit the relationship to church activities only . She should not take his calls whenever he call again to discourage him.

Lastly , you and your girl friend should desist from fornication.
There is no purpose of the two of you going to church if you cannot obey the commandment of God.

If it's true, what the Pastor is doing is not normal. He is going beyond the call of duty. God no send am.

Paaaassstooor!