That's why every lady should endeavor to work. Make your own money and support whoever you want to support.
The best thing is for the man to face his nuclear and extended family while the wife should work and support her own extended family, anything from the man to her family will be a plus.

But you said your father in-law is alive in your other post, Abi is it a coicedence that you and your friend are facing same predicament?

joa2013:
Are you a prophet? Her father died in 2011, dunno what killed him anyway.

mikkyjagga1:
But you said your father in-law is alive in your other post, Abi is it a coicedence that you and your friend are facing same predicament?

Lol