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What Could Be The Reason? by bentwain(op):
Invited my ex girlfriend over to a hotel when I visited her school, we drank and ate together, it was late so she decided to sleep in the same room with me after getting tipsy. when we got inside my room, she undressed in front of me and went to the bathroom to bath but to my greatest surprise, the bathroom door was open and I had to close the door when I heard a knock on the door. fast forward to we were both naked on the bed but to my greatest surprise she refused sex. I begged for it the whole night but she refused and she even threatened to leave that night. hmmmmm! morning finally came and I gave her 10k as tp but she also refused. my problem is what could be the problem? she is not a virgin and she wasn't on. noticed she was wearing a waist bead and Victoria secret undies n some rings on her toes. what could be the problem?
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by MANNABBQGRILLS: 11:02am On Aug 13, 2018
..........if you love her, it is worth waiting for.
Ok bye!
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by bentwain(op): 11:03am On Aug 13, 2018
bentwain:
Invited my ex girlfriend over to a hotel when I visited her school, we drank and ate together, it was late so she decided to sleep in the same room with me after getting tipsy. when we got inside my room, she undressed in front of me and went to the bathroom to bath but to my greatest surprise, the bathroom door was open and I had to close the door when I heard a knock at the door. fast forward to we were both naked on the bed but to my greatest surprise she refused sex. I begged for it the whole night but she refused and she even threatened to leave that night. hmmmmm! morning finally came n I gave her 10k as tp but she also refused. my problem was what could be the problem? she is not a virgin and she wasn't on. noticed she wears waist beads and Victoria secret undies n some rings on her toes. what could be the problem?
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by bentwain(op): 11:08am On Aug 13, 2018
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..........if you love her, it is worth waiting for.
Ok bye!
. Just wondering why she came? why she was naked? why she didn't let me? why she refused my money too
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by Pubichairs(m): 11:14am On Aug 13, 2018
she's a hoe... shine your eyes
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:18am On Aug 13, 2018
no big deal here, she came to spend quality time with you, have some fun, kissing, caressing, fingering and licking etc BUT NO SEX (she aint ready yet)....how difficult is that to understand? or do you believe that ANY woman who come to spend the night with you must want to be fukced?!
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by Uglymugg: 11:20am On Aug 13, 2018
The rings on her toe was to steal your destiny, but you didn't have any to her greatest disappointment.
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by bentwain(op): 11:20am On Aug 13, 2018
MrBrownJay1:
no big deal here, she came to spend quality time with you, have some fun, kissing, caressing, fingering and licking etc BUT NO SEX (she aint ready yet)....how difficult is that to understand? or do you believe that ANY woman who come to spend the night with you must want to be fukced?!
. if I kissed or fingered her, will I be here saying all diz? she shot the door to everything bro
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by kobarney(m): 11:22am On Aug 13, 2018
cheesy
Uglymugg:
The rings on her toe was to steal your destiny, but you didn't have any to her greatest disappointment.
cheesy
Uglymugg:
The rings on her toe was to steal your destiny, but you didn't have any to her greatest disappointment.
lollzzz.. you no just get sense.. hahahahahaha
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by bentwain(op): 11:22am On Aug 13, 2018
Uglymugg:
The rings on her toe was to steal your destiny, but you didn't have any to her greatest disappointment.
shey you don serve for marine kingdom before shey?
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by Homeboiy: 11:27am On Aug 13, 2018
you dey find who go open mouth tell you say your gf is now a lesbian.
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by MrBrownJay1(m):
bentwain:
. if I kissed or fingered her, will I be here saying all diz? she shot the door to everything bro
then kissing her etc should be your next aim in life... but let me just say that you must be lacking serious social skills if a babe is coming over to sleep butt nekkid next to you, and you couldnt even kiss and/or touch her.

here is a simple clue (for the next time she comes around): why dont you ask her A) why she is coming over and B) why she is getting nekkid in bed with you...?
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by Uglymugg: 11:34am On Aug 13, 2018
kobarney:
cheesy cheesy


lollzzz.. you no just get sense.. hahahahahaha
bentwain:
shey you don serve for marine kingdom before shey?
Just a bit of banter, my lad grin
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by Nobody: 11:36am On Aug 13, 2018
Ask her, not us tongue
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by victorian(f): 12:00pm On Aug 13, 2018
She wasnt ready for sex that day. All she wanted was fun, good time and romance. No heavy-duty knacking. Her pussy was asleep .
I wonder why some guys can't understand such basic facts.. Every romance, kissing and fingering must not end in sex.
So relax!
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by FuckoffMOD: 12:39pm On Aug 13, 2018
And thurder bolt dey hungry dis my chairman grin




Go ask her not us undecided
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by Famousqueen(f): 1:01pm On Aug 13, 2018
she wanted to show u what you are missing, not ready to go into detail, she is playing a game, and i pray she achieve it wink
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by Pusyiter(m): 1:37pm On Aug 13, 2018
Hmm...guys no go hear that one. We believe knacking alone makes a good sex whereas, ladies expect more of intimacy/romance and less of the waist pushups/knackingz grin
victorian:
She wasnt ready for sex that day. All she wanted was fun, good time and romance. No heavy-duty knacking. Her pussy was asleep .
I wonder why some guys can't understand such basic facts.. Every romance, kissing and fingering must not end in sex.
So relax!
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by victorian(f): 2:01pm On Aug 13, 2018
Pusyiter:
Hmm...guys no go hear that one. We believe knacking alone makes a good sex whereas, ladies expect more of intimacy/romance and less of the waist pushups/knackingz grin
Honestly, it's just like that sometimes.

But most guys brain is zeroed on knacking!

I remembered an ex who celebrated my birthday at Sheraton. After all the wine, dinner, I was in high spirits, very happy, slightly tipsy. In a perfect good mood.
All my mind was, he will drop me at home and I will sleep peacefully with nice dreams cheesy
My dear, as he was driving down, he smiled and said will I spend the night in his place? Drink clear from my eyes, I looked at him. I wanted to get angry.. I said in my mind, Vicky calm down.. You should know that's typical of a guy after spending some money, but this night o, am not going to end up in his bed..
No matter what. I don't feel like it and he can't force me.

I controlled my anger and smiled back sweetly, saying darling am really not in the mood for sex.. Can u just drop me at home? Please don't ruin this wonderful night we've just had. Am really not in the mood. Don't worry later we will have enough boogie.. But tonight? Am not in the mood at all.. He sighed and said OK. As your lordship demands .. I blew him a kiss thanks dear..

He jejely dropped me at home with a scowl on his face.
I say Abeg, Na him sabi Jare. Must we Bleep?
Smhhh.

Got home, opened the gate, bade him bye, then my door and slept like a baby on my beautiful peaceful bed.
cheesy
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by Pusyiter(m): 3:45pm On Aug 13, 2018
hahaaaa.... grin
Drama Queen
The guy enter one seat remaining. grin
victorian:
Honestly, it's just like that sometimes.

But most guys brain is zeroed on knacking!

I remembered an ex who celebrated my birthday at Sheraton. After all the wine, dinner, I was in high spirits, very happy, slightly tipsy. In a perfect good mood.
All my mind was, he will drop me at home and I will sleep peacefully with nice dreams cheesy
My dear, as he was driving down, he smiled and said will I spend the night in his place? Drink clear from my eyes, I looked at him. I wanted to get angry.. I said in my mind, Vicky calm down.. You should know that's typical of a guy after spending some money, but this night o, am not going to end up in his bed..
No matter what. I don't feel like it and he can't force me.

I controlled my anger and smiled back sweetly, saying darling am really not in the mood for sex.. Can u just drop me at home? Please don't ruin this wonderful night we've just had. Am really not in the mood. Don't worry later we will have enough boogie.. But tonight? Am not in the mood at all.. He sighed and said OK. As your lordship demands .. I blew him a kiss thanks dear..

He jejely dropped me at home with a scowl on his face.
I say Abeg, Na him sabi Jare. Must we Bleep?
Smhhh.

Got home, opened the gate, bade him bye, then my door and slept like a baby on my beautiful peaceful bed.
cheesy
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by victorian(f): 4:44pm On Aug 13, 2018
Pusyiter:
hahaaaa.... grin
Drama Queen
The guy enter one seat remaining. grin
Cmon? Am no drama queen jor! angry

He didn't tell me, before taking me out that sex go follow come the B-Day surprise gifts nah.

Can't a guy just spend and remove eyes from sex towards the end of a treat?

Must it always end in sexxx?
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by ImaIma1(f): 4:58pm On Aug 13, 2018
victorian:
Honestly, it's just like that sometimes.

But most guys brain is zeroed on knacking!

I remembered an ex who celebrated my birthday at Sheraton. After all the wine, dinner, I was in high spirits, very happy, slightly tipsy. In a perfect good mood.
All my mind was, he will drop me at home and I will sleep peacefully with nice dreams cheesy
My dear, as he was driving down, he smiled and said will I spend the night in his place? Drink clear from my eyes, I looked at him. I wanted to get angry.. I said in my mind, Vicky calm down.. You should know that's typical of a guy after spending some money, but this night o, am not going to end up in his bed..
No matter what. I don't feel like it and he can't force me.

I controlled my anger and smiled back sweetly, saying darling am really not in the mood for sex.. Can u just drop me at home? Please don't ruin this wonderful night we've just had. Am really not in the mood. Don't worry later we will have enough boogie.. But tonight? Am not in the mood at all.. He sighed and said OK. As your lordship demands .. I blew him a kiss thanks dear..

He jejely dropped me at home with a scowl on his face.
I say Abeg, Na him sabi Jare. Must we Bleep?
Smhhh.

Got home, opened the gate, bade him bye, then my door and slept like a baby on my beautiful peaceful bed.
cheesy
Especially when a guy has spent money...lol
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by 93Miles: 5:25pm On Aug 13, 2018
victorian:
Can't a guy just spend and remove eyes from sex towards the end of a treat?
When will y'all spend?
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by 93Miles: 5:27pm On Aug 13, 2018
ImaIma1:
Especially when a guy has spent money...lol
Nothing is free even in free town.

If you won't let him hit, don't waste his time or spent his money. Rape would be legal if you do.
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by ImaIma1(f): 5:35pm On Aug 13, 2018
93Miles:
Nothing is free even in free town.

If you won't let him hit, don't waste his time or spent his money. Rape would be legal if you do.
Not when he wasn't begged or forced to spend his money.

What if it is a lady that spends her money to celebrate her man's birthday, do you think she would ask for sex as payment.

Let's stop acting like we are trading sex.

Maybe before you spend your money on a girl, you should let her know that you are doing it only because you expect sex from her afterwards.
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:38pm On Aug 13, 2018
victorian:
Honestly, it's just like that sometimes.

But most guys brain is zeroed on knacking!

I remembered an ex who celebrated my birthday at Sheraton. After all the wine, dinner, I was in high spirits, very happy, slightly tipsy. In a perfect good mood.
All my mind was, he will drop me at home and I will sleep peacefully with nice dreams cheesy
My dear, as he was driving down, he smiled and said will I spend the night in his place? Drink clear from my eyes, I looked at him. I wanted to get angry.. I said in my mind, Vicky calm down.. You should know that's typical of a guy after spending some money, but this night o, am not going to end up in his bed..
No matter what. I don't feel like it and he can't force me.

I controlled my anger and smiled back sweetly, saying darling am really not in the mood for sex.. Can u just drop me at home? Please don't ruin this wonderful night we've just had. Am really not in the mood. Don't worry later we will have enough boogie.. But tonight? Am not in the mood at all.. He sighed and said OK. As your lordship demands .. I blew him a kiss thanks dear..

He jejely dropped me at home with a scowl on his face.
I say Abeg, Na him sabi Jare. Must we Bleep?
Smhhh.

Got home, opened the gate, bade him bye, then my door and slept like a baby on my beautiful peaceful bed.
cheesy
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i am sorry to say but "you" are the one who ruined that beautiful night by being selfish and thinking solely about yourself.
so you guys spent a beautiful evening TOGETHER, drank and ate TOGETHER and yet, you couldnt go home with him and said the above in bold, and spend the rest of the evening TOGETHER while sleeping in his arms?!?!?!?!

why even being angered by someone (you obviously care for) wanting to spend that "special" night with you?! what rulebook did you read where it says special nights should end when your belly is full and you've received all your gifts?!?! haba! if you dont want to have sex then fair enough, but talking about being angered by someone who want to make you feel special, after doing everything RIGHT that night, is IMHO cheap!
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by 93Miles: 5:39pm On Aug 13, 2018
ImaIma1:
Not when he wasn't begged or forced to spend his money.

1. What if it is a lady that spends her money to celebrate her man's birthday, do you think she would ask for sex as payment.

Let's stop acting like we are trading sex.

2. Maybe before you spend your money on a girl, you should let her know that you are doing it only because you expect sex from her afterwards.
1. Is impossible if the lady is a Nigerian.


2. A guy does not need to tell a lady that he's in for sex. Of course, everyone knows that sex is the motive since that's the only thing a lady can offer.
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by ImaIma1(f): 5:49pm On Aug 13, 2018
93Miles:
1. Is impossible if the lady is a Nigerian.


2. A guy does not need to tell a lady that he's in for sex. Of course, everyone knows that sex is the motive since that's the only thing a lady can offer.
Well you cannot use the girls you have been with to qualify every other girl. Nigerian ladies throw parties for their men. Nothing new there. I have even attended one of such surprise parties.

Thankfully, not every guy thinks that way. Some actually do respect women. And that is probably why they meet the women who have other things to offer than sex.
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by 93Miles: 6:03pm On Aug 13, 2018
ImaIma1:
Well you cannot use the girls you have been with to qualify every other girl. Nigerian ladies throw parties for their men. Nothing new there. I have even attended one of such surprise parties.

Thankfully, not every guy thinks that way. Some actually do respect women. And that is probably why they meet the women who have other things to offer than sex.
Super story.
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by Prognose: 6:05pm On Aug 13, 2018
bentwain:
. Just wondering why she came? why she was naked? why she didn't let me? why she refused my money too
Some girls like to be dominated.
Its true.
You shouldn't have begged.
All the time you made moves amd begged, did she leave the bed or put on her clothes?
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by ImaIma1(f): 6:06pm On Aug 13, 2018
93Miles:
Super story.
Change your associations.
Re: What Could Be The Reason? by Pusyiter(m): 6:09pm On Aug 13, 2018
My Dear, guyz joy don lost.
Men dey vex for matter unto money for hand, back na ground
victorian:
Cmon? Am no drama queen jor! angry

He didn't tell me, before taking me out that sex go follow come the B-Day surprise gifts nah.

Can't a guy just spend and remove eyes from sex towards the end of a treat?

Must it always end in sexxx?
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