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| I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Nobody: 6:53pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Good day to all Nairalander About a year ago I met a 26 years old girl on Facebook who lost her younger brother (their last born), she's single and have no guy around to talk to her so I decided to be closer to her we exchanged numbers and keep calling each other (she call most of the time when ever she needs someone to talk with). We became best of friends and things was going smoothly (may while my serious babe {wife} was pregnant carrying my baby and I became a father few months after meeting this girl who lost her younger brother), we shared our secrets with each other and all of that, she told me she was raped at 18, she lost her virginity to someone she don't even know and for that she swear never to fall in love with any man in her life. But few months ago things started changing, I can't stand her being just friends so I decided to pour out my heart and feelings for her, she couldn't say no for reasons best known to her. She introduced me to her mom, dad, sister and brother, seems our love keeps growing each day. We broke up two weeks ago due to some reasons, but I got the shock of my life today when I find out she's pregnant, I'm so confused right now, abortion is not an option as she said she can't abort her first child. Please what do I do now, I can't tell my woman who's with me at home. Please help me out.  Lalasticlala seun please help love this to front page 5 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by BiafranBushBoy: 6:55pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Smh... If abortion isn't an option, what else do you want us to tell you than to have a wife and a baby mama. Or... You can kill her and go to jail. This way, you would avoid both of them. Or... You feel the pains of 3hrs forever... Because na your type dey last 3hrs for bed 54 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by dingbang(m): 6:58pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
 What? You looking for who will tell you to abort? You must be seriously joking. By the way how much is condom again? 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by nellyelitz(m): 6:59pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Tell me the difference between u and Buhari cows in Duara? 38 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by randomShek: 7:03pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Now you know the wonders of ojukokoro 20 Likes 2 Shares
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| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by GraGra247(m): 7:05pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Men like you are the reason why men have a bad name. You have zero integrity. 44 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Nobody: 7:06pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
See what u have done to yourself becos of sex... Tell ur woman and keep the second child. Make sure u take care of them both 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by megafone: 7:06pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
She can have the baby. heaven will not fall. be the man! 6 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Nobody: 7:08pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
GraGra247:If only you understand  |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Nobody: 7:09pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
megafone:hmm please trow more light, I wanna know how without having a breaking home  |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by GraGra247(m): 7:10pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
YoungFr: Understand what So you even have the guts to try to excuse this absolute madness.18 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by paulpery: 7:11pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Maryy them. Happy polygamous life. Carry on 2 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by ameri9ja: 7:11pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Celebrate her pregnancy with her. Ask for your wive's forgiveness, explaining it was only a spur of the moment mistake 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by IsraelSongz: 7:12pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
*Smiles. I only came here to mock You. Suffer Your suffer alone. You deserve it. Useless cheat. Facebook friend kor, WhatsApp foe ni. My only advice, I just feel sorry for Your wife. So, please don't commit suicide. I'm out! 20 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by seunpas: 7:15pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
No panick, continue to watch her don't even give her advice on what to do aftreall she knew you are married. Nothing is new under the earth she can keep the baby. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by abdeiz(m): 7:27pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Why didnt you use protection? 4 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by babyfaceafrica: 7:30pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
this is super story 7 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Nobody: 7:36pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
babyfaceafrica:When I read such story on social media I do think they are all lies until today 1 Like |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Homeboiy: 7:38pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
op you should be happy nah My grandfather had four wives and he crossed 100 yrs before he died More kids coming 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Nobody: 7:43pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Why are nairalanders so vain and stupid, the man has come with a problem, he didn't come to justify himself, if you don't have a solution for him. SHUT THE Bleep UP. I think you should talk to the lady involved, so she knows that she is going to bring someone else into a very painful existence if she can not cater for the baby. But if she insisted, just be ready to man up, you won't be the first person to be in this situation, time will take care of you all 15 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Nobody: 8:02pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Heavyjew:Thanks so much I truly appreciate. You just put a lil smile on my Face 2 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by donbrowser(m): 8:04pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
YoungFr:How did you find out she's pregnant? You can't trust women. 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by mattonnairaland: 8:06pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
Dude, straight up! Find out if she's truly pregnant (don't worry whether it's your baby or not for now) Ask her her plans for the baby knowing you have a family already Somehow let your wife know about her, it's going to hurt her but still it's a must. Because the lady that looks gentle today can be a tiger tomorrow and start threatening to tell your wife. Keep your wife out of your mess. Handle the rest yourself. The way I see it, she would like to take care of the baby herself while you do your own part as a Father. 6 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Nobody: 8:07pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
donbrowser:She didn't tell me, she was hiding it from me but I manage to find the result today. She have been sick, so I decided to visit her that's how I find the text result |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by donbachi(m): 8:11pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
it's your mess..clean it up...as u buy d goat,na so u go take sell am. 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:13pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
some people and their BS stories sha so let me get this straight....you got close to a babe who knew fully well you were married and had a baby on the way. you had sex with her and got her pregnant....and now, what exactly do you want us to do?! btw, the below is the funniest part of your tale by moonlight. she was raped therefore she vow never to "fall in love again"....who was she in love with before?! the man who raped her?! abi?! YoungFr: 14 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Nobody: 8:14pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
mattonnairaland:Thanks so much but I can't tell my wife about it, yes she said if I'm not ready she will take the responsibilities herself but if she does I shouldn't expect the baby to answer my name when the time comes |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by mikejj(m): 8:16pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
you broke up with her,suddenly weeks later she said she is pregnant.les leave that aside..do you still love this girl??..the lady that has ur child at home,.do you love her??be honest to yourself?? |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by mattonnairaland: 8:17pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
The first 9/10 comments confirms that there are so many babies on Nairaland 2 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by Nobody: 8:17pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1:It have been modified, she said she will not fall in love with any man in her life. |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:20pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
YoungFr: so you are upgrading your story as we point out the inconsistencies, abi?! ok bro, now the important question IS: what exactly do you want us to do?! 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Big Mess, Please Advice Me On What To Do by donbrowser(m): 8:21pm On Aug 14, 2018 |
YoungFr:You should involve your wife. She might blackmail you later. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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