YoungFr:

hmm please trow more light, I wanna know how without having a breaking home

bro, your home was already broken/destroyed the minute you were cheating on your wife, duh! you are just wasting time by fooling yourself thinking you can fix this.

YoungFr:

Thanks so much but I can't tell my wife about it, yes she said if I'm not ready she will take the responsibilities herself but if she does I shouldn't expect the baby to answer my name when the time comes

No way! The baby must answer your name. You will never heal from the torment if you agree to that. Be careful this is not about now but the future.

There's nothing wrong in coparenting. Just be ready to do your part in your little way and the child must bear your name.


If it's too early for your wife to know and if you've observed your wife's nature and you think she can't handle it for now, hold it. But make sure she's aware soon. Because whether now or not, she will still know.

Tales my grandmother told me. This is purely a make-up story. Believe at your own peril.
Btw- If you are asking for advice,nairaland is definately not a forum you'd get one. We only have savages!

MrBrownJay1:
some people and their BS stories sha

so let me get this straight....you got close to a babe who knew fully well you were married and had a baby on the way. you had sex with her and got her pregnant....and now, what exactly do you want us to do?!

btw, the below is the funniest part of your tale by moonlight. she was raped therefore she vow never to "fall in love again"....who was she in love with before?! the man who raped her?! abi?!

Lol... You read too much and as such "between the lines" ...
Kaaaiii. I didn't take note.


Now to the topic .
The best way to make everything better for yourself and everyone in my opinion is to.

Tell your wife about it(The way you put it down would mAtter alot )

Don't abort the baby,( as doing such can create another problem, things can get complicated ,she could die, you'd become an accomplice to murder of a foetus)

When you've done all this, your conscience would be free, and you'd have to deal with the situation that would arise from it as a man..... Amicably...
Your marriage might be in jeopardy, but if you'll love yourselves that much... It should pass...

MrBrownJay1:


bro, your home was already broken/destroyed the minute you were cheating on your wife, duh! you are just wasting time by fooling yourself thinking you can fix this.

Broken I agree, but why thinking fixing isn't possible. He's not fooling himself. Shit happens and he's got to carry the cross. These things aren't new. There's diplomacy for every marital ish and don't make it worse than it looks bruh.

this is how your pricks will be moving from one skirt to another.
no shame atall.
married man for that,carry your cross abeg.
I just pity the innocent wife you left at home,only for you to be misbehaving on social media.

YoungFr:
Good day to all Nairalander
About a year ago I met a 26 years old girl on Facebook who lost her younger brother (their last born), she's single and have no guy around to talk to her so I decided to be closer to her we exchanged numbers and keep calling each other (she call most of the time when ever she needs someone to talk with). We became best of friends and things was going smoothly (may while my serious babe {wife} was pregnant carrying my baby and I became a father few months after meeting this girl who lost her younger brother), we shared our secrets with each other and all of that, she told me she was raped at 18, she lost her virginity to someone she don't even know and for that she swear never to fall in love with any man in her life.

But few months ago things started changing, I can't stand her being just friends so I decided to pour out my heart and feelings for her, she couldn't say no for reasons best known to her. She introduced me to her mom, dad, sister and brother, seems our love keeps growing each day.
We broke up two weeks ago due to some reasons, but I got the shock of my life today when I find out she's pregnant, I'm so confused right now, abortion is not an option as she said she can't abort her first child. Please what do I do now, I can't tell my woman who's with me at home. Please help me out.

how much is cd in the market U should av tot of it b4 going all the way.responsibility calling

YoungFr:

hmm please trow more light, I wanna know how without having a breaking home

Yo your home was "breaking" when you decided to ask another lady out even though you had a wife. This is medicine after death. Bro, may karma give you your payment full time. You dont deserve sympathy

Speakdatruth:

Broken I agree, but why thinking fixing isn't possible. He's not fooling himself. Shit happens and he's got to carry the cross. These things aren't new. There's diplomacy for every marital ish and don't make it worse than it looks bruh.

the only thing that needs fixing is HIMSELF/HIS HEAD, because thats the only thing that is broken here. sadly, this man instead of acting RIGHT is coming to NL asking for ways to trick his way around this pregnancy, instead of finally DOING WHATS RIGHT to solve a very simple issue (aka confess to your wife and find a way together as a family).

its men that want to make a mockery out of marriage, thinking they can continue cheating LIFE (and everyone in it), that are the problem here. if you cant control the tiger in your pant, then be HONEST with the person you seemingly love and let your wife know from the get go about it so that SHE can decide if she wants to be with a cheating demon in her life... and if she does, then let them both work together on this issue.

then when he infects his unknowing wife of whatever deadly diseases he is spreading, we will come here and blame poverty or what else.

please how much is the N50 naira condom again

Speakdatruth:
No way! The baby must answer your name. You will never heal from the torment if you agree to that. Be careful this is not about now but the future.

There's nothing wrong in coparenting. Just be ready to do your part in your little way and the child must bear your name.


If it's too early for your wife to know and if you've observed your wife's nature and you think she can't handle it for now, hold it. But make sure she's aware soon. Because whether now or not, she will still know.

Thanks for your time, #respect

Deckline:
Tales my grandmother told me. This is purely a make-up story. Believe at your own peril.
Btw- If you are asking for advice,nairaland is definately not a forum you'd get one. We only have savages!

Not a make up story, you can check my previous post when I asked on how I can break up with her

YoungFr:
Good day to all Nairalander
About a year ago I met a 26 years old girl on Facebook who lost her younger brother (their last born), she's single and have no guy around to talk to her so I decided to be closer to her we exchanged numbers and keep calling each other (she call most of the time when ever she needs someone to talk with). We became best of friends and things was going smoothly (may while my serious babe {wife} was pregnant carrying my baby and I became a father few months after meeting this girl who lost her younger brother), we shared our secrets with each other and all of that, she told me she was raped at 18, she lost her virginity to someone she don't even know and for that she swear never to fall in love with any man in her life.

But few months ago things started changing, I can't stand her being just friends so I decided to pour out my heart and feelings for her, she couldn't say no for reasons best known to her. She introduced me to her mom, dad, sister and brother, seems our love keeps growing each day.
We broke up two weeks ago due to some reasons, but I got the shock of my life today when I find out she's pregnant, I'm so confused right now, abortion is not an option as she said she can't abort her first child. Please what do I do now, I can't tell my woman who's with me at home. Please help me out.

New wife loading. Congrats

;Dguy you are to be blame for this big mess you put your self into,friend with lady thus not mean you should have sex with her,I have many girls and lady's as friends,am happily married, please you have no options than to take her as second wife,your useless play cause you life mess,congratulations bro tell me the naming venue so that I can join you in celebrating ;Dguy you are to be blame for this big mess you put your self into,friend with lady thus not mean you should have sex with her,I have many girls and lady's as friends,am happily married, please you have no options than to take her as second wife,your useless play cause you life mess,congratulations bro tell me the naming venue so that I can join you in celebrating

YoungFr:

hmm please trow more light, I wanna know how without having a breaking home

Without having a breaking home?
Haaa.. Oga I pity you

You better convince her to abort it. I am not even sure you are the owner of the pregnancy.

A guy

YoungFr:

Thanks so much but I can't tell my wife about it, yes she said if I'm not ready she will take the responsibilities herself but if she does I shouldn't expect the baby to answer my name when the time comes

The child should answer your name and you should let your wife know

Guyo!! Like my guy would say, u surely have fast swimmers . Congratulations!! Anyway whatever advice u get here today be sure to juxtapose it with the disposition of your wife and the side chic. Easy je je, we all make mistakes.

randomShek:
Now you know the wonders of ojukokoro

lol... really now?

Any girl who tells you she was raped at a tender age, just pack your bags and leave immediately!!

highqueen:
this is how your pricks will be moving from one skirt to another.
no shame atall.
married man for that,carry your cross abeg.
I just pity the innocent wife you left at home,only for you to be misbehaving on social media.

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Heavyjew:
Why are nairalanders so vain and stupid, the man has come with a problem, he didn't come to justify himself, if you don't have a solution for him. SHUT THE Bleep UP.

I think you should talk to the lady involved, so she knows that she is going to bring someone else into a very painful existence if she can not cater for the baby. But if she insisted, just be ready to man up, you won't be the first person to be in this situation, time will take care of you all

Did you just say Nairalanders? not even some? Why are you so daft to think you can just say whatever you like here to who you know and who you don't know? Why can't just give you shit_ of advice. Beautiful Nonsense

YoungFr:
Good day to all Nairalander
About a year ago I met a 26 years old girl on Facebook who lost her younger brother (their last born), she's single and have no guy around to talk to her so I decided to be closer to her we exchanged numbers and keep calling each other (she call most of the time when ever she needs someone to talk with). We became best of friends and things was going smoothly (may while my serious babe {wife} was pregnant carrying my baby and I became a father few months after meeting this girl who lost her younger brother), we shared our secrets with each other and all of that, she told me she was raped at 18, she lost her virginity to someone she don't even know and for that she swear never to fall in love with any man in her life.

But few months ago things started changing, I can't stand her being just friends so I decided to pour out my heart and feelings for her, she couldn't say no for reasons best known to her. She introduced me to her mom, dad, sister and brother, seems our love keeps growing each day.
We broke up two weeks ago due to some reasons, but I got the shock of my life today when I find out she's pregnant, I'm so confused right now, abortion is not an option as she said she can't abort her first child. Please what do I do now, I can't tell my woman who's with me at home. Please help me out.

oh I love this, I hate cheats, if you abort that child, even God will be super angry at You. ACCEPT UR RESPONSIBILITIES.

P.S congratulations on the new baby
In fact I hope you get twins or triplets that one go sweet me die, pls update us woh

SIMPLE...
JUST MAKE UR SECOND WIFE.. CHIKINAH

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