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Regardless of reason and intent, is it ever justifiable to have a side guy or a side chick?

Just the other day, ladies in relationships were being advised on social media to get a side-guy and that poses the direct question; of what use is an extra boyfriend when you already have one?

In a post published early in August, self-acclaimed love doctor, Joro Olumofin claims that it’s time for every lady “to have a contingency boyfriend, a backup boyfriend”

What this means is that he believes it is wise for women in relationships to have side guys to whom they can be married in “6 months” if their real boyfriends messes up.

The man says his advice is influenced by the number of heartbreaks he has seen among women dumped by their boyfriends. He says that if a woman keeps a side guy during her relationship, she won’t feel so much heartache as she would have someone to fall back on.

Obviously, having a sideguy will be blatant cheating. Whether he’s a sideguy in the real sense of the word, that is, one who performs all boyfriend’s duties including sex, or one “who fits all your criteria of a husband material but is your platonic friend,” it is cheating nonetheless.

If you’re hiding him from your boyfriend, it is wrong. If you are hiding from your boyfriend, your real intent for the other guy, it is still cheating.

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Hitting on ur bae is abject nonsense

incase the main guy f. up na

chiommy123:
incase the main guy f. up na

So you have a side guy?

No cheat..cheats with a reason,if it's in the person.it is,and can't be taking away.

sunbilor:
So you have a side guy?

nooo. just giving answers to his questions

As side chicks equates side guys too na win win situation....anyways check out our signature for some 18+ naija stuffs