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Imagine if you married a guy, but the you realized, he had bad habits that couldn't be cured? In this post, take a look at why you need to avoid guys with these 6 habits. Prince Charming, might have flaws,but he doesn't have bad habits, that can ruin a relationship.

While it's impossible to find, the absolute perfect man, that doesn't mean, you should should drop your standards, and marry a guy, who has annoyingly bad habits. For a man to be a marriage material, he has to be completely the right man for you. Sure he might still have some little flaws, but flaws are different from habits.

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Habits are things we have learned to do over the years, they are ingrained in our behavior and we do them automatically and seems to be a normal thing. Now, let's go into the main thing, do not marry a guy with these 6 habits stated below:

1. Habitually Self-centered

If your guy makes it a habit to only talk about himself while you’re dating, it’s likely he’ll continue the trend once you’re married. Coming in second to someone else’s ego isn’t an ideal way to spend your future; don’t settle for a narcissist.

2. He Shouts:

Any man who has the habit of exploding with anger is a no-go and is definitely not good for you as far as this blog is concerned. If you have met a man, who verbally abuses people uncontrollably, it is advisable you stay well away from him.

3. He Lies:

Lying is sociopathic behavior. It’s not normal and should never be considered normal. It’s cute if you and your hubby are lying to get out of a party, right? It’s not cute if he lies about where he’s been, who he’s slept with, or what he’s doing for work. (Yikes!)

It’s really creepy when a man feels the compulsive need to lie to you—and all the more so, if it’s about “little things.” If he can’t even answer a simple question truthfully, what isn’t he going to lie about? He should either get therapy immediately or you should leave him. Unless of course, you want to be married to Walter White or something.

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one man meat is another man poison. what if all these characteristics are what attracts her?

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1. Habitually Self-centered
If your guy makes it a habit to only talk about himself while you’re dating, it’s likely he’ll continue the trend once you’re married. Coming in second to someone else’s ego isn’t an ideal way to spend your future; don’t settle for a narcissist.

2. He Shouts:
Any man who has the habit of exploding with anger is a no-go and is definitely not good for you as far as this blog is concerned. If you have met a man, who verbally abuses people uncontrollably, it is advisable you stay well away from him.

3. He Lies:
Lying is sociopathic behavior. It’s not normal and should never be considered normal. It’s cute if you and your hubby are lying to get out of a party, right? It’s not cute if he lies about where he’s been, who he’s slept with, or what he’s doing for work. (Yikes!)
It’s really creepy when a man feels the compulsive need to lie to you—and all the more so, if it’s about “little things.” If he can’t even answer a simple question truthfully, what isn’t he going to lie about? He should either get therapy immediately or you should leave him. Unless of course, you want to be married to Walter White or something.

4. He doesn't put you first:
If a man doesn't put you first, you have to ask yourself the question - When will he put me first? The answer is probably Never. Guys who don't prioritize their woman are instead in the habit of prioritizing their buddies, their work or their hobbies.
Love comes last, and if it's always been this way in your relationship, there is a good chance that it won't change.


5. He's Possessive:
It's a okay for someone to be a tad possessive at first. It's even kinda cute. But you two have been together for a while now and he's still being extra clingy, it's a habit he's probably not going to break. It means he is in fact a control freak. And that kind I don't recommend for marriage.

6. He Has An Unhealthy lifestyle.
If you man engages in drinking and smoking too much while you are trying to lead a healthier life, it's a strong sigh that you guys are not meant for each other. Sure he could cut down on his drinking and smoking, but if he's tried in the past to no avail, it might be best for you to avoid this kind of guy.
He is not worth walking down the altar with.

no one is born perfect except you decide to mould your dream life partner by yourself... instead of running away the instant you noticed those things, why not try to find out what the actual problem is, then help him be a better partner to you

MissMich:
no one is born perfect except you decide to mould your dream life partner by yourself... instead of running away the instant you noticed those things, why not try to find out what the actual problem is, then help him be a better partner to you

No matter what, you should take your time before getting married