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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Tundeobama(m): 11:18am On Aug 23, 2018
Wilfredpat22 Anyone who is ready for open marriage check profile to add up.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Tundeobama(m): 11:18am On Aug 23, 2018
Wilfredpat22 Anyone who is ready for open marriage check profile to add up.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Rexnegro(m): 11:26am On Aug 23, 2018
Ytea:
Not this Nigeria, they both may cheat steady but none must find the other out. That's how this works in Nigeria.
that's close marriage with cheating involved
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Nobody: 11:27am On Aug 23, 2018
Yes, but without each other's consent and it is called Minding Your Business but don't come home with another man's belle and don't give another woman belle.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by mylove4God(f): 11:27am On Aug 23, 2018
starpower:
We dem plenty but like our politicians we no dey declare asset.
That means you practice it?
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by frugal(m): 11:28am On Aug 23, 2018
Even in advanced climes, it is still frowned upon. Instead of 'open marriage', why not just be friends, live separately and fork whenever you want to?
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by jolyment: 11:28am On Aug 23, 2018
starpower:
We dem plenty but like our politicians we no dey declare asset.
This is hillarious
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by momove4real25(f): 11:28am On Aug 23, 2018
SirMichael1:
[color=magenta]There's nothing like open marriage here but there's something like a cheating spouse right? There's someone like Bobrisky here right? They're forced marriages planned by parents here in Nigeria right? They're gays living amongst y'all rights?

Why don't y'all stop your fūcking hypocrisy and instead of sneaking around to fūck behind your spouse, sit and sign a contract of an open marriage with a time span?

Son, if you keep perusing through my posts and keep giving me needless mentions, I'll give you what you're looking for.

Also, that nonsense isn't the pattern of evolution of relationships or whatever you meant it to be. No one can force you to do something you don't want but only make you see reasons to do them.
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i like ur comments
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Nobody: 11:29am On Aug 23, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
Men practice open marriage while we women do it secretly. The most funny thing is that you men think you are marrying marriage material, you are marrying a expired, used lady that her destiny has probably been used by 50 year old men

The truth is if you aren’t marrying a virgin, you are marrying, proposing and saying vows to a lady who has a body count of 60. Forget the lines we use about being raped (how many men rape women this days) how many do we read??

If we women can open our legs before marriage and sleep and our body is now useless and worthless it is better for you men to marry us and do to us as you please (except she has her own money)

All my life I play and grew up with boys, and none of them attempted rape, so I wonder where the accusations are coming from?? huh
Your comment just shows how retarded you are. U obviously think with your relaxed shitting area. How on earth does your comment relate to the post?
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by jolyment: 11:31am On Aug 23, 2018
SirMichael1:
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Don't say it is impossible for two married humans to agree for an open marriage. That's shortsighted of you.

Just as marriages are closed here, there are also open marriages.

Imagine a marriage that was setup by the parent of both spouse and these couples do not like themselves one bit. So they agree within themselves to see other people but never get anyone pregnant or get pregnant.

Or a scenario where two party knowing their sexual orientation as Gay anf Lesbian agrees to get married to avoid the prying eyes of extremely concerned Nigerians. Now these two persons will never find themselves interested in each other so why is it impossible to see others?

Think beyond your horizon!


Good points
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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by enemyofprogress: 11:32am On Aug 23, 2018
That kind marriage go sweet die for naija
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Adakintroy: 11:33am On Aug 23, 2018
HeWrites:
undecided

Yes, We do but without each others consent.

But our madams practice it most.
Lol that's a lie na.

Na our work. Na we teach them the work.

Student no DE know pass master.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by enemyofprogress: 11:34am On Aug 23, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
Men practice open marriage while we women do it secretly. The most funny thing is that you men think you are marrying marriage material, you are marrying a expired, used lady that her destiny has probably been used by 50 year old men

The truth is if you aren’t marrying a virgin, you are marrying, proposing and saying vows to a lady who has a body count of 60. Forget the lines we use about being raped (how many men rape women this days) how many do we read??

If we women can open our legs before marriage and sleep and our body is now useless and worthless it is better for you men to marry us and do to us as you please (except she has her own money)

All my life I play and grew up with boys, and none of them attempted rape, so I wonder where the accusations are coming from?? huh
fine you no fine, English you no sabi mtcheeeew
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Ugosample(m): 11:36am On Aug 23, 2018
it's widely practiced in Nigeria
but it's on code
Especially amidst the elite
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Ugosample(m): 11:38am On Aug 23, 2018
frugal:
Even in advanced climes, it is still frowned upon. Instead of 'open marriage', why not just be friends, live separately and fork whenever you want to?
yh true

but in liberal circles in advanced climes, it's widespread grin
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by farem: 11:39am On Aug 23, 2018
IamHeWrites:
Open marriage is the type of marriage where the man and the woman with each other's consent, are allowed to cheat.

is it really being practiced in Nigeria?

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9546/do-people-practice-open-marriage-in-nigeria-lady.html
It's better to tell us that ashewo work still dey your blood
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by HeWrites(m): 11:40am On Aug 23, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
Men practice open marriage while we women do it secretly. The most funny thing is that you men think you are marrying marriage material, you are marrying a expired, used lady that her destiny has probably been used by 50 year old men

The truth is if you aren’t marrying a virgin, you are marrying, proposing and saying vows to a lady who has a body count of 60. Forget the lines we use about being raped (how many men rape women this days) how many do we read??

If we women can open our legs before marriage and sleep and our body is now useless and worthless it is better for you men to marry us and do to us as you please (except she has her own money)

All my life I play and grew up with boys, and none of them attempted rape, so I wonder where the accusations are coming from?? huh
Lmao... Are you a virgin, are you marriedhuh
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by KevinMATTHEW346(m): 11:41am On Aug 23, 2018
We (most nigerians will never understand what were meaning to say) but i do...
I clicked on this thread unknowingly and started reading on and i never knew "open marriage" was a thing till now and we don't practice such in nigeria, the reason why bobrisky is not locked in prison or getting beaten is because he's rich, there's no way a poor guy will do stuff the way bobrisky does his stuff... He'll get bullied, beaten, shunned, he'll be stripped off of his rights... Why? Because he's poor, plus in nigeria nobody listens to a poor sensible guy but a rich foolish person... Seeing our comments on this thread just made me shake my head till it nearly fell off my neck...
I have alot to say but i'll stop here and thanks for this question though, it helped me learn something new today, and do have a nice day
SirMichael1:
[color=magenta]There's nothing like open marriage here but there's something like a cheating spouse right? There's someone like Bobrisky here right? They're forced marriages planned by parents here in Nigeria right? They're gays living amongst y'all rights?

Why don't y'all stop your fūcking hypocrisy and instead of sneaking around to fūck behind your spouse, sit and sign a contract of an open marriage with a time span?

Son, if you keep perusing through my posts and keep giving me needless mentions, I'll give you what you're looking for.

Also, that nonsense isn't the pattern of evolution of relationships or whatever you meant it to be. No one can force you to do something you don't want but only make you see reasons to do them.
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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by obowunmi(m): 11:47am On Aug 23, 2018
YES.

Nigeria is a sex haven. All the religious stuff is FAKE.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by PreciousBro: 11:47am On Aug 23, 2018
What do you need an open marriage for, why not just stay unmarried rather than defy the sacredness of the institution of marriage. Which devil sent you to normalise sabotage in marriage?
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by badjack(m): 11:47am On Aug 23, 2018
You can start it my sis if your in-laws will allow you to do so. If they allow you, you can call me. My number is 0888844477333666999455
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Adakintroy: 11:47am On Aug 23, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
Men practice open marriage while we women do it secretly. The most funny thing is that you men think you are marrying marriage material, you are marrying a expired, used lady that her destiny has probably been used by 50 year old men

The truth is if you aren’t marrying a virgin, you are marrying, proposing and saying vows to a lady who has a body count of 60. Forget the lines we use about being raped (how many men rape women this days) how many do we read??

If we women can open our legs before marriage and sleep and our body is now useless and worthless it is better for you men to marry us and do to us as you please (except she has her own money)

All my life I play and grew up with boys, and none of them attempted rape, so I wonder where the accusations are coming from?? huh
This girl you lack dignity sha. Na small pickin sense DE make you yarn like this. I for slap your mouth correct if tosay I stand near you. I swear.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by AreaFada2:
Nothing is open in Nigeria o. Even how much your governor spends of petrol/diesel will not be open to you to know. Many women do not know categorically how much their hubby of 20 years earns per month.

In 9ja virtually everything happens. Just do not mention it. Hush hush!

Only when we see a headline like "Married woman dies having marathon sex with married neighbour/friend of husband in an Ikotun Hotel", then we know how far. cheesy grin grin cheesy
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Josh44s(m): 11:53am On Aug 23, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
Men practice open marriage while we women do it secretly. The most funny thing is that you men think you are marrying marriage material, you are marrying a expired, used lady that her destiny has probably been used by 50 year old men

The truth is if you aren’t marrying a virgin, you are marrying, proposing and saying vows to a lady who has a body count of 60. Forget the lines we use about being raped (how many men rape women this days) how many do we read??

If we women can open our legs before marriage and sleep and our body is now useless and worthless it is better for you men to marry us and do to us as you please (except she has her own money)

All my life I play and grew up with boys, and none of them attempted rape, so I wonder where the accusations are coming from?? huh
Lmfao

Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Ghostmode2two(m): 11:54am On Aug 23, 2018
It is practiced codedly plentiful in Naija.Enough away games while the other partner is kept in the dark.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Anwons(m): 11:56am On Aug 23, 2018
OP, who you be and where you from?

Answer my question first before I answer you.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Nobody: 12:03pm On Aug 23, 2018
I doubt it would be openly stated but, in my opinion, it should be the best. Why? Two reasons:
1. Humans are hardly monogamous
2. One Human cannot lay claim to another Human, emotionally.

But in this Nigeria, if you're hoping that you're going to be the only one occupying your partner's heart for a long while, then OYO is your case...
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by sanpipita(m): 12:10pm On Aug 23, 2018
Vickygarl:
Your comment just shows how retarded you are. U obviously think with your relaxed shitting area. How on earth does your comment relate to the post?
Ignore him, he is a guy posing as a lady to seek attention by posting diatribes against women.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by dmg1: 12:11pm On Aug 23, 2018
SirMichael1:
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Don't say it is impossible for two married humans to agree for an open marriage. That's shortsighted of you.

Just as marriages are closed here, there are also open marriages.

Imagine a marriage that was setup by the parent of both spouse and these couples do not like themselves one bit. So they agree within themselves to see other people but never get anyone pregnant or get pregnant.

Or a scenario where two party knowing their sexual orientation as Gay anf Lesbian agrees to get married to avoid the prying eyes of extremely concerned Nigerians. Now these two persons will never find themselves interested in each other so why is it impossible to see others?

Think beyond your horizon!
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i wanted to slap u b4 i remember dat i'm typing thru phone but how can i meet u in person, so i can reset ur brain.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by hopefulLandlord: 12:12pm On Aug 23, 2018
KevinMATTHEW346:
We (most nigerians will never understand what were meaning to say) but i do...
I clicked on this thread unknowingly and started reading on and i never knew "open marriage" was a thing till now and we don't practice such in nigeria, the reason why bobrisky is not locked in prison or getting beaten is because he's rich, there's no way a poor guy will do stuff the way bobrisky does his stuff... He'll get bullied, beaten, shunned, he'll be stripped off of his rights... Why? Because he's poor, plus in nigeria nobody listens to a poor sensible guy but a rich foolish person... Seeing our comments on this thread just made me shake my head till it nearly fell off my neck...
I have alot to say but i'll stop here and thanks for this question though, it helped me learn something new today, and do have a nice day
What does Bobrisky do that's illegal? as far as evidence go he's simply a cross-dresser which isn't illegal
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by daveP(m): 12:17pm On Aug 23, 2018
Yeah. they do. I've heard about a couple in far east married for 20yrs. They did it and none cared what the other did inasmuch they took care of their kids well and catered for them, their well being. The kids had Lil knowledge of such ongoing till yawa gas.
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