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agbonkamen:
Awon useless men

Shugavee:
very true

pocohantas:
Not just men. It is a general problem ; daily calls, gifts, the sex is mind-blowing, never forgetting birthdays, weekly anniversaries, early morning text messages, voice notes... and then, see finish sets in .

You start reducing it all, you suddenly remember you have a job and you're or should be busy. Now, you both are tolerating each other.
The way the cookie crumbles...

The one that annoys me pass, has to be those ones that say,
"It is not about you, it's me, put the blame on me ."

agbonkamen:
Awon useless men

Hanseel1:
Sometimes, deciding whether or not to end a relationship can be incredibly hard; there is a lot of bad, but there is also still a lot of good there. But sometimes, the way a man acts after you break up with him makes it so obvious that you made the right decision. In fact, often a man has personality traits and bad habits that we think we’re just misinterpreting, but once we call it quits, we realize, “Oh. Nevermind. I totally called it.” That’s because people show their true colors when they’re under stress, in pain, or put through a sudden and difficult change. A breakup certainly fits all of that criteria, doesn’t it? Some women dangerously think, “I can judge the way he’s acting—everybody acts crazy after a breakup.” No. They don’t. And this is a very important time to pay attention to how he’s acting because if it’s ugly, don’t consider taking that man back.

—Hanseel

wristbangle:
You are quite vast in love affair. The pendulum swings on both parties of which after swiftly seen it all, nothing moves them again.

The fact remains from the onset that no priorities and goals were set to understand why they go into relationship or perhaps along the process, either the guy or lady got distracted.

agbonkamen:
Awon useless men

agbonkamen:
Awon useless men

Shugavee:
as in ehn!! That’s why no matter how nice u r to me at first,, dating u hv to be morally right to me first,, not just love,,, so when he fucck up I know it was a logical decision!!! Men hv this bad character,,, they ain’t as good as they were in the beginning

majekdom2:
It takes emotional intelligence to remain in love. This is what many lack.

omooba969:
For the sake of education, can you kindly shed light on what you mean by 'emotional intelligence'?

Shugavee:
yes most times,, if guys don’t change,, they wont

majekdom2:
emotional intelligence is the capacity to be aware of, control, and express one's emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically. In a romantic relationship this means you put the other person in your shoes to guide your actions. You are totally selfless. However, it could be frustrating when the other person isn’t as emotionally intelligent as you are. The person won’t have the wisdom to discern this quality in you. This is why it is advisable to date someone who matches your personality closely. It’s easier to stay in love with emotional intelligence with this kind of person.

Shugavee:
as in ehn!! That’s why no matter how nice u r to me at first,, dating u hv to be morally right to me first,, not just love,,, so when he fucck up I know it was a logical decision!!! Men hv this bad character,,, they ain’t as good as they were in the beginning

agbonkamen:
Awon useless men

Takeit2017:
Dear men, is this true?

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Lalasticlala, Mynd44

pocohantas:
LOL. Men also say the same thing about us. I think we just get too comfortable most times, especially when we've gotten the other party to commit. You see a perfect gentleman would become a stress inducing husband, a figure8-fashion-conscious-partner gets the ring and starts expanding in a geometric progression.

We have a poor maintenance culture, it is evident in the way we treat living and non-living things ..

Shugavee:
as in ehn!! That’s why no matter how nice u r to me at first,, dating u hv to be morally right to me first,, not just love,,, so when he fucck up I know it was a logical decision!!! Men hv this bad character,,, they ain’t as good as they were in the beginning

omooba969:
Nice 1.

cc ibkkk

majekdom2:
emotional intelligence is the capacity to be aware of, control, and express one's emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically. In a romantic relationship this means you put the other person in your shoes to guide your actions. You are totally selfless. However, it could be frustrating when the other person isn’t as emotionally intelligent as you are. The person won’t have the wisdom to discern this quality in you. This is why it is advisable to date someone who matches your personality closely. It’s easier to stay in love with emotional intelligence with this kind of person.

pocohantas:
LOL. Men also say the same thing about us. I think we just get too comfortable most times, especially when we've gotten the other party to commit. You see a perfect gentleman would become a stress inducing husband, a figure8-fashion-conscious-partner gets the ring and starts expanding in a geometric progression.

We have a poor maintenance culture, it is evident in the way we treat living and non-living things ..

Ire2:
All men are nice at first and will remain nice as long the lady doesn't take him for granted later on and turn him to her personal bank.

pocohantas:
Not just men. It is a general problem ; daily calls, gifts, the sex is mind-blowing, never forgetting birthdays, weekly anniversaries, early morning text messages, voice notes... and then, see finish sets in .

You start reducing it all, you suddenly remember you have a job and you're or should be busy. Now, you both are tolerating each other.
The way the cookie crumbles...

The one that annoys me pass, has to be those ones that say,
"It is not about you, it's me, put the blame on me ."

Xmen149:
lol,.sense will no kee you

omooba969:
Nice 1.

cc ibkkk

majekdom2:
It takes emotional intelligence to remain in love. This is what many lack.

ibkkk:
Must you guys be deceptive
Honestly, i just don't get it.

omooba969:
What part of it don't you understand ?

ibkkk:
WHY ARE YOU GUYS DECEPTIVE

The first few months,you're so sweet, the latter months,you start changing from sweet to sour to bitter.

I hate you