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Shugavee:
as in ehn!! That’s why no matter how nice u r to me at first,, dating u hv to be morally right to me first,, not just love,,, so when he fucck up I know it was a logical decision!!! Men hv this bad character,,, they ain’t as good as they were in the beginning

See as the thing dey pain them

Victims of circumstances

I sorry for wuna because if another guy come and be singing I love I love I love into your ears for 21days you will fall again..... Chicken brains

Most ladies have either, goat or fowl brain..... Potopoto sense....

Wetin concern me

pocohantas:
Not just men. It is a general problem ; daily calls, gifts, the sex is mind-blowing, never forgetting birthdays, weekly anniversaries, early morning text messages, voice notes... and then, see finish sets in .

You start reducing it all, you suddenly remember you have a job and you're or should be busy. Now, you both are tolerating each other.
The way the cookie crumbles...

The one that annoys me pass, has to be those ones that say,
"It is not about you, it's me, put the blame on me ."

we are very sorry ..lolz

Shugavee:
as in ehn!! That’s why no matter how nice u r to me at first,, dating u hv to be morally right to me first,, not just love,,, so when he fucck up I know it was a logical decision!!! Men hv this bad character,,, they ain’t as good as they were in the beginning

hmmm I'm learning

go on

QueenSekxy:
true but doesnt apply to all men.

may ur dayz be long n may u never eloped ur future hubby that's if u ain't married yet

lolz

Acidosis:
Put the blame on women. Y'all are so fake, you judge men by those early gifts, those incessant calls, flowers, etc.

Men in their own discretion have mastered the arts, they know what women want so they fake it at the initial stage. You see those dinners, movies, etc? Those are never going to continue forever, so why pick a boyfriend/husband based on those movie scripts (like putting on my best clothes, expensive perfume, etc., lol)?

Same man you'll still visit someday and see the real him - the dirty armpit and boxer, the dirty kitchen that stinks like sh!t.

Any woman that wants me to take her on a fake and expensive date before I hear a YES (like most of you do) is going to wait till the second coming of Jesus Christ.

Biko I don't eat dinner with ten-tasan (ten thousand) in my house, it is not my last supper.

Many people fell in love with makeup, and those irrelevant package. It is just normal to want out when you discover the sh!ty things. While some of these things are not bad, we must constantly remind ourselves that we are faking it, and fakes don't last.

u nailed it...one origin for u

ultimate77:
girlfriend, its a 2way thing. Not just men. As a matter of reality, if this happens, the both were not meant to roll. Its either for the fun or for the lessons.

I don’t agree with the last part cause this happens to married people as well

Shugavee:
I don’t agree with the last part cause this happens to married people as well

maybe we should look at the topic again.

pocohantas:
Not just men. It is a general problem ; daily calls, gifts, the sex is mind-blowing, never forgetting birthdays, weekly anniversaries, early morning text messages, voice notes... and then, see finish sets in .

You start reducing it all, you suddenly remember you have a job and you're or should be busy. Now, you both are tolerating each other.
The way the cookie crumbles...

The one that annoys me pass, has to be those ones that say,
"It is not about you, it's me, put the blame on me ."

Stop watching too much of foreign movies cus no one uses those phrase in 9ja

Acidosis:
Put the blame on women. Y'all are so fake, you judge men by those early gifts, those incessant calls, flowers, etc.

Men in their own discretion have mastered the arts, they know what women want so they fake it at the initial stage. You see those dinners, movies, etc? Those are never going to continue forever, so why pick a boyfriend/husband based on those movie scripts (like putting on my best clothes, expensive perfume, etc., lol)?

Same man you'll still visit someday and see the real him - the dirty armpit and boxer, the dirty kitchen that stinks like sh!t.

Any woman that wants me to take her on a fake and expensive date before I hear a YES (like most of you do) is going to wait till the second coming of Jesus Christ.

Biko I don't eat dinner with ten-tasan (ten thousand) in my house, it is not my last supper.

Many people fell in love with makeup, and those irrelevant package. It is just normal to want out when you discover the sh!ty things. While some of these things are not bad, we must constantly remind ourselves that we are faking it, and fakes don't last.

You made some sense here. Ladies are simply too stubborn to listen to voice of elders - ya mama and aunties will advise una but NO, una no go listen - these are some of the consequences, so live with them.

MufasaRebirth:
Bitter Truth !!

seconded

The Dude Is An Idiot For Revealing Our Secret. Lol

Acidosis:
Put the blame on women. Y'all are so fake, you judge men by those early gifts, those incessant calls, flowers, etc.

Men in their own discretion have mastered the arts, they know what women want so they fake it at the initial stage.

Look at the mental gymnastics you're going through just to put the blame on ladies and call them fake.

You say ladies are fake, can't explain why,. Your only excuse is to call ladies who have standards fake. Just pathetic. If men aren't judged on early gifts. Incessant calls, what will men be judged by before?

Yet your next damn paragraph say men fake it, (basically saying they are fake but without giving them the label, while you give useless excuses for them being fake)

A man who fakes his behavior to get with a woman is a fake ass man and such a fake ass man is who will take the whole blame. Don't put underserved blame on women while labelling them as fake then give excuses for men actually being fake

The man knows what the woman wants, instead of him to check himself and see if he can measure up, and bow out Honorably if he can't, will pretend out of desperation and wickedness to get the girl, yet such a man will still have the guts to call women fake.


Weak ass fake desperate pathetic Misogynistic men.
Mtchewww

This girl's man is a scam artist sha.
She asked him specifically what happened, she told him that he was nice,
Instead of him to respond personally to the question, he deflected and said all men are nice at first. He made it into an all men sturves
When that wasn't what she asked nor was she asking all men that question.

I wonder if he said anything else to explain his behavior

Dear men, is this true?

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ibkkk:
WHY ARE YOU GUYS DECEPTIVE

The first few months,you're so sweet, the latter months,you start changing from sweet to sour to bitter.

I hate you

May be you ladies should take a retrospective journey called self-reflection. Perhaps the guys aren't deceptive but may be the ladies aint what the external packagings portray or they lack the quality the external packaging depict.

BabbanBura:
May be you ladies should take a retrospective journey called self-reflection. Perhaps the guys aren't deceptive but may be the ladies aint what the external packagings portray or they lack the quality the external packaging depict.

I would be prompted to go personal which i wouldn't wanna do on a social media. I rest my case.

ibkkk:
I would be prompted to go personal which i wouldn't wanna do on a social media. I rest my case.

Sorry dear. E be like say i pressed the wrong button this time. Sorry again

pocohantas:
LOL. Men also say the same thing about us. I think we just get too comfortable most times, especially when we've gotten the other party to commit. You see a perfect gentleman would become a stress inducing husband, a figure8-fashion-conscious-partner gets the ring and starts expanding in a geometric progression.

We have a poor maintenance culture, it is evident in the way we treat living and non-living things ..

I love this woman for her intelligence.

A man will see a beautiful girl, with all the physical attributes he wants in a woman. But yet to know her personality. He can only get to know her and who she really is by being closer to her, interact with her, most times it takes a lot longer to know who she really is outside those beautiful physical appearances. Before we know it, one day has turned to one week and then to months. He finally had his final assessments, and boom, she actually is not what I want. Thus breaking off. But then again, breaking up is never easy. So most try this gradual withdrawal process.

Btw, you can’t get to know more about someone you haven’t known before by being rude. You have to be nice, atleast it gives you that chance to get to know her. No woman will give a rude guy the chance to be close to her , let alone getting to know her.