simple one.
do this in church/mosque/shrine.
ask an unkbnown brother out.
take him to lunch after the service.
max 1k food budget for him, so plan well.
the food is secondary. it's about interactions.
he pays for transportation.
post details of the experience.
thank me later.

Are you an American or what? Don't you know where you are?

Uglymugg:
Are you an American or what? Don't you know where you are?

lol

this is a simple form of thinking outside the box.

you'll be shocked at how many ladies are looking for a little encouragement to do this.

debaj10:
lol

this is a simple form of thinking outside the box.

you'll be shocked at how many ladies are looking for a little encouragement to do this.

Unfortunately, spontaneity isn't their forte.

Unknown brother?

Uglymugg:


Unfortunately, spontaneity isn't their forte.

that's why we need to ginger them up!

chiommy123:
Unknown brother?

yep.
it's a one-time-only sharing with a fellow believer.
you might get a real, lifelong friend...
or a better half, who knows!

debaj10:
yep.
it's a one-time-only sharing with a fellow believer.
you might get a real, lifelong friend...
or a better half, who knows!

true but what about the risk? He's unknown

Uglymugg:


Unfortunately, spontaneity isn't their forte.

Spending on an unknown brother isn't their forte too. You missed that.

You mean all dis set of our slay queens?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Spending on an unknown brother isn't their forte too. You missed that.

Nah I didn't miss that, I just didn't want to break her heart with that info.

chiommy123:
true but what about the risk? He's unknown

there are strangers in your office.
there are strangers on your street.
there are strangers in the market, bus, mall, gym, club, etc.
and these are where you meet guys who ask you out!

point is, between your prayers, good sense and the relative safety of your place of worship-
the risks are low!

and as added security:
cari d guy go meet ur pastor before una comot for shursh!
Haba!!

lol.. I am a stranger o