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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Herrmes: 1:05pm On Sep 13, 2018

TroubleMaker47:
Rubbish talk!
I have said it severally that ALL feminists have mental problem!

To all the feminists out there!!!

Why are you bothered about it?

Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by blackgold2018(m): 1:06pm On Sep 13, 2018

Next four generations b bearing names like Amaka Ogbonnaya Kayode Okoye Musa-Fredrick

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by dazzlingd(m): 1:06pm On Sep 13, 2018

The word "feminism" alone stand against itself, of course, it stands to mean a group of people who feel they have been considered weaker fighting for equality. And of course, any word like "menism" will only stand for a joke. The strong don't need to fight for relevance

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Respect55(m): 1:07pm On Sep 13, 2018

The problem is that some of them won't even see anybody to marry.

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by fr3do(m): 1:08pm On Sep 13, 2018

You can decide to keep your name, no wahala
But to say that the kids will bear your name merged with your husband's is rubbish.

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Boss13: 1:09pm On Sep 13, 2018

Ytea:
The last two women looks scary
If that's their choice, they'll def get men who would be cool with it. I hope they find what they're looking for.

Only a sucker would be cool with that. If they want to be with suckers, cool. The poster is ridiculous because her last name is that of her fathers. She could start her ridiculousness by adopting her mother’s maiden name, which is also her mother’s father name.

I live in the western world and I can confirm that feminism is ridiculous and has destroyed the social behavior in the West. It’s ridiculous if women want to adopt male philosophy. In the West, women continue to challenge men for more right and guess what, they don’t even know what to do with these rights.

Equality is good as we are all humans. However, we are different gender and by nature have different roles to play in human civilization. It would be best if we can all acknowledge our roles and try to be the best in it.

My advise to Nigerian men - do not tolerate these confused women who call themselves feminist. Do not allow their tales get louder before they destroy society. Don’t marry or date them because they will make your life miserable.

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by farem: 1:10pm On Sep 13, 2018

correctbae:
Feminist Nkechi Bianze wrote a post on the women body changes during pregnancy.

-Pregnancy and body changes.
-Labour and/or CS.
-Having strangers check your vagina for contractions.“
-Episiotomy
-Membrane Sweep
-Breastfeeding

I’m NOT sorry to say.
But….
People should stop mourning and complaining about how there are several Mother’s Days and just one Father’s Day.

You can’t compare having sex and ejaculating to doing or going through at least three of those things listed.

For every one Father’s Day, it’s very fair and ok for us to have 100 Mother’s Days. It’s perfect like that.

I definitely want at least two biological children, and I’m dreading going through these twice.
I covertly and overtly pray for twins, so I can use a stone to kill two birds, and avoid going through these things twice.

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How did the world come to agree that a child should bear the father’s surname? Women clearly do more than 90% of the job of bringing a child to the world. So, how did the early humans make such decision?

I’m thinking something.

Me and the father of my children will have to discuss about surname. I’m gong to go through a whole lot bringing these babies to the world, and I deserve a little more.

However, in the comment section, Amaka White Ojinnaka said she won’t change her surname to her husband’s name. She also made mention that her children’s name will also be the combination of her name hyphen her husband’s name

She said “I was discussing this with a guy who was asking me out .. If I have our baby, we must name the child both our surnames hyphenated. No way I’m going through this shit and my baby wont take part of my name. He isn’t OK with it… I have asked him to walk.I am Not shifting grounds on that one. I ain’t even changing my name. Not even one name. I do not believe my name should be thrown away for any reason. He says it’s for easy identification… � I said fine… Why not change your name to mine so we can easily be identified… �Guess who thinks it’s ridiculous? � Same dude. I just told him to carry himself away from me. It obviously can never work.”

Replying to her comment, other ladies like Efe Osato Ehi and Nneka Angel also said that’s exactly what they will do.

Readmore: Ladies Agrees They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husbands’ When They Get Married https://correctbae.ng/2018/09/09/ladies-agrees-they-wont-change-their-surname-to-their-husbands-when-they-get-married/

Can someone help me ask these mumu what surnames are they bearing. Combination of their mother's and father's?
Strange things about this group is that, when a members brain is reset and contemplating leaving, she always will not tell her fellows until it would be too late for them

Shior!

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Amberon: 1:10pm On Sep 13, 2018

Chimamanda and Genevieve Nnaji who are 200 times more successful than you have mental problems too? Okay.

TroubleMaker47:
Rubbish talk!
I have said it severally that ALL feminists have mental problem!

To all the feminists out there!!!

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Dotng: 1:10pm On Sep 13, 2018

That is the way the world is.

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Acidosis(m): 1:13pm On Sep 13, 2018

Lol, fighting over a name you didn't even give yourself.

Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by alezzy13: 1:13pm On Sep 13, 2018

correctbae:
[s]Feminist Nkechi Bianze wrote a post on the women body changes during pregnancy.

-Pregnancy and body changes.
-Labour and/or CS.
-Having strangers check your vagina for contractions.“
-Episiotomy
-Membrane Sweep
-Breastfeeding

I’m NOT sorry to say.
But….
People should stop mourning and complaining about how there are several Mother’s Days and just one Father’s Day.

You can’t compare having sex and ejaculating to doing or going through at least three of those things listed.

For every one Father’s Day, it’s very fair and ok for us to have 100 Mother’s Days. It’s perfect like that.

I definitely want at least two biological children, and I’m dreading going through these twice.
I covertly and overtly pray for twins, so I can use a stone to kill two birds, and avoid going through these things twice.

*-*

How did the world come to agree that a child should bear the father’s surname? Women clearly do more than 90% of the job of bringing a child to the world. So, how did the early humans make such decision?

I’m thinking something.

Me and the father of my children will have to discuss about surname. I’m gong to go through a whole lot bringing these babies to the world, and I deserve a little more.

However, in the comment section, Amaka White Ojinnaka said she won’t change her surname to her husband’s name. She also made mention that her children’s name will also be the combination of her name hyphen her husband’s name

She said “I was discussing this with a guy who was asking me out .. If I have our baby, we must name the child both our surnames hyphenated. No way I’m going through this shit and my baby wont take part of my name. He isn’t OK with it… I have asked him to walk.I am Not shifting grounds on that one. I ain’t even changing my name. Not even one name. I do not believe my name should be thrown away for any reason. He says it’s for easy identification… � I said fine… Why not change your name to mine so we can easily be identified… �Guess who thinks it’s ridiculous? � Same dude. I just told him to carry himself away from me. It obviously can never work.”

Replying to her comment, other ladies like Efe Osato Ehi and Nneka Angel also said that’s exactly what they will do.

Readmore: Ladies Agrees They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husbands’ When They Get Married https://correctbae.ng/2018/09/09/ladies-agrees-they-wont-change-their-surname-to-their-husbands-when-they-get-married[/s]

Trash. end of

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by jeff1607(m): 1:14pm On Sep 13, 2018*

ct2:
men don't disturb your self , make lots of money then you will be influential in the society like the dangotes, otedolas , then she will willing change her name to your name completely.

the issue is by then it would be impossible for you to trust anyone ,cos you would think they are all after one thing "your money" The wealthy ones already have peace of mind cos of the women they already have. A new lady can't cement her hold in an already made family no matter how educated or no how beautiful she is.

It's when men get old that they value women who stood by them from the very beginning. Take a look at our grannies especially the wealthy or well to do ones and see how easy they take life.

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Ugosample(m): 1:16pm On Sep 13, 2018

To me I don't see it as a big deal tho

You can keep your fathers babe if you like

but what is NON NEGOTIABLE is that my kids bear my own name cool

Changing of surname is a Norman French culture infused into British culture in the 11rh century then the British spread it everywhere

I even hear that Muslims don't change tgeur surname upon marriage

So this issue should not generate wahala at all.

Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by kokomilala(m): 1:16pm On Sep 13, 2018*

The insufferable arrogance and unbending pride of the women of this generation is hideous.
What we're witnessing is an arrogant manifestation of what was in Eve's mind over 6000 yrs ago- the arrogance of a creature who wanted to be like God.
In the final analysis, it all ends in tears. From Eve to Jezebel, the trail of tears stretched. And is still stretching to our generation.

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Ugosample(m): 1:17pm On Sep 13, 2018

fr3do:
You can decide to keep your name, no wahala
But to say that the kids will bear your name merged with your husband's is rubbish.

exactly my point....

I have no problems with women keeping there names

eg Joke Silva

but the kids have to bear their fathers name

Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by asawanathegreat(m): 1:19pm On Sep 13, 2018

Educated mumu

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by wristbangle: 1:19pm On Sep 13, 2018

Uniquetani1:
I can if I want to but that's not the point here

Okay. What's the point?

I understand your point but no matter how ladies try to fight it, God has given the mandate that men are the head.

Good luck as you maintain your last name when you married.

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by pocohantas(f): 1:20pm On Sep 13, 2018

Ugosample:
exactly my point....

I have no problems with women keeping there names

eg Joke Silva

but the kids have to bear their fathers name

Exactly!!! Then saying the guy should adopt her own. Then one foolish one said their kids will bear both names.

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Ugosample(m): 1:21pm On Sep 13, 2018

Bizibi:
Let us be honest here,will they merge their name if their man is wealthy and successful and also a billionaire,especially when such a name can open doors for the woman!

I'm a man I'm not bothered about the woman changing names,as long as my name can open doors for my children in the future I'm okay with it.

You have a good point there too.

In Nigeria, if they marry a big man, they will want to change their name sharp sharp. undecided

But then, this thing is a simple thing

do as you like

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Herrmes: 1:23pm On Sep 13, 2018

Debra911:
In the beginning God created Adam b4 eve, I think feminist needs to accept this natural phenomenon. No matter how we ladies wail, it can't change 'the beginning' I'm still wondering why God never created Eve first if actually he knows women will be the one to carry 90% of Child upbringing?

In the bible beginning...

Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Ugosample(m): 1:25pm On Sep 13, 2018

pocohantas:
Exactly!!! Then saying the guy should adopt her own. Then one foolish one said their kids will bear both names.

well I have seen where a man gave all his children the wife's surname as middle name and his surname last.

but when they fill forms, it's the man"a surname that is filled alone

So their mothers name just stand as middle/other names

It was his choice so no wahala.

but all these confusion some women want to bring undecided

They better be careful

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by mankand(m): 1:25pm On Sep 13, 2018

Coming from someone who isn't in a relationship before we even talk about her preparing to be married. One thing all these feminists have in common is that they are disgruntled set of ladies whom have used their future husbands as boyfriend and ended up with another dude who left them for someone more promising.

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Nobody: 1:26pm On Sep 13, 2018

Amberon:
Lmao..I don't subscribe to that school of thought but I just remembered now that my sister's friend and her siblings all bear a collaboration of their mom and dad's name.

Modified: why are you men taking this ~~personal~~ personally. It's not that deep

Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Ugosample(m): 1:27pm On Sep 13, 2018

wristbangle:
Okay. What's the point?

I understand your point but no matter how ladies try to fight it, God has given the mandate that men are the head.

Good luck as you maintain your last name when you married.

a woman keeping her surname has nothing to do with the man being the head of the family

They are not correlated

A man who is a man and not a wimp will always be the head of his family and defend care and provide for his family

Dasall

Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Nobody: 1:27pm On Sep 13, 2018

sexymoma:
i want to believe these feminist know that they will give birth to a male child one day, i pray their daughter-in-law should have same mentality and let see how it goes....You see why divorce will not end in this country, one foolish woman now will now follow suit, dey follow dem shout say na true.
God go punish feminism, fine i can't stand women been cheated buh fighting for equal rights, i wonder when your brains will open to understand it not possible..buh when you get belle, u hubby nor get belle, when u dey labor pain, your hubby nor even get small stomach pain, some of them sef na beer palor dem go tell am say wife don born....

I'm sure your DM is on fire.

Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by kgr8mike(m): 1:27pm On Sep 13, 2018

Wouldn't you rather sue God?

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by tiredoflife(m): 1:27pm On Sep 13, 2018

Uniquetani1:
Nice idea
Good it was brought up
Y should I forgo my Dad's name bcoz of marriage?
My title changing from Miss to Mrs is enough.
God doesn't support oversabi

Ur title changes to Mrs who?
U see how dumb u lots are
OK u change title
Don't u know the Mrs comes with the new name u must change to undecided

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by TroubleMaker47(m): 1:28pm On Sep 13, 2018

Amberon:
Chimamanda and Genevieve Nnaji who are 200 times more successful than you have mental problems too? Okay.

So anybody that is successful in his/her career is mentally ok? undecided

I guess the ~~famous~~ notorious pastor Jim Jones is mentally ok.

Just in case u don't know him, he is the "successful" pastor who killed 2000 of his members!

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by openmine(m): 1:29pm On Sep 13, 2018

Uniquetani1:
Nice idea
Good it was brought up
Y should I forgo my Dad's name bcoz of marriage?
My title changing from Miss to Mrs is enough.
God doesn't support oversabi

Your mummy adopted your daddy's name whether by choice or law is not important!

Please discus such with your "fiance" before you get married to him!

Don't stay and make assumptions only to quietly bear your future Hubby's name after all the online rants!

And besides,does a change of name take away your abilities or rights as a human being?

Would you say such if you were going to get married to dangote's son or otedola's son?

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by PVC2019(f): 1:29pm On Sep 13, 2018

Uniquetani1:
Nice idea
Good it was brought up
Y should I forgo my Dad's name bcoz of marriage?
My title changing from Miss to Mrs is enough.
God doesn't support oversabi

I think the best thing for you is to get married to your dad or better still have him get you pregnant, then you will be justified

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Bizibi(m): 1:32pm On Sep 13, 2018

Ugosample:
You have a good point there too.

In Nigeria, if they marry a big man, they will want to change their name sharp sharp.
But then, this thing is a simple thing

do as you like

exactly, do as you like in the end s the children that will adjust the name that will make things easy for them,that is why every man must work hard in life.

You can take a look at Caroline danjuma,she is divorced but kept the surname because she knows the bread it brings everyday.

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Re: Feminists Agree They Won’t Change Their Surname To Their Husband's Name by Amberon: 1:32pm On Sep 13, 2018

Nope, my comment was based on your premise which inferred that every feminist is mentally unstable. That notion is very very wrong. Those two I mentioned have no known history of mental illnesses as well as many other notable feminists.

TroubleMaker47:
So anybody that is successful in his/her career is mentally ok?
I guess the ~~famous~~ notorious pastor Jim Jones is mentally ok.

Just in case u don't know him, he is the "successful" pastor who killed 2000 of his members!

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