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donbachi:
They dont come by easly...because it takes a sarah,naomi,ruth and esther kind of woman to find one...you must have passed him years ago,looking for a man that is rich,tall,dark and handsome.

donbachi:
They dont come by easly...because it takes a sarah,naomi,ruth and esther kind of woman to find one...you must have passed him years ago,looking for a man that is rich,tall,dark and handsome.

chiommy123:
They are very much around you but may not be as flashy as you want and may not have all these qualities we are so much attracted to

EmekaMD:
So I saw this post that reads "why is it hard to find a good man".

I wanna reply my sister and the OP.
It's not hard to find a good man. It's only hard to identify and go for him (or rather accept him when he comes knocking)

Good men are everywhere just as the bad men.
The difference is that good men are often seen as boring by many girls.

Bad men are weird and mysterious- a trait that attracts women and at the same time ruin them.
They spend the rest of their years believing they could change him..

chiommy123:
They are very much around you but may not be as flashy as you want and may not have all these qualities we are so much attracted to

Magnoliaa:
exactly... it takes you being the kind you're looking for to find the kind you're looking for

Empiree:
WORDWORLD

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m6Hea0NK3_E

jeff1607:
How can he still hug a woman who deeply wants the unborn child not to be his

zomoears:
Thats brave of you.

Most women are too caught up in their pride to admit that they missed a good man.
Most ladies want a ready made man, and dont want to groom their own man to success. Food-is-ready mentality.
Other times, they want a flashy guy, a bad guy, etc

chiommy123:
They are very much around you but may not be as flashy as you want and may not have all these qualities we are so much attracted to

Empiree:
WORDWORLD


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m6Hea0NK3_E

WORDWORLD:
Can you see the PRIMORDIAL WISDOM of the days of old?! There are a THOUSAND AND ONE reasons why the concept of VIRGINITY is designed to play a core role in saving the society from such NONSENSE as this.

THESE WOMAN CAN'T EVEN TELL WHO THE FATHER OF HER CHILD IS. YET THE FOOL OF THE HUSBAND IS FIGHTING TO SAVE HIS MARRIAGE UPON WHAT FOUNDATION REALLY?

Bro, there are worse stories than this that are disturbingly true.

It's not an ABSOLUTE that a VIRGIN will remain CHASTE through out marriage. But the PROBABILITY that most would is very much on the highest of percentage.

Imagine an unborn innocent child's life already subjected to such a drama courtesy of a choice of IRRESPONSIBILITY.

Hmmmm I can understand why the husband sees no big deal as to his wife's sexual affair with her ex. ITS A WAY OF LIFE! ITS CALLED CARNAL CULTURE.

I hope that in the nearest future. DNA test would be made compulsory during pregnancy as to ascertain the real father of a child. This measure will at least put caution and narrow down such PESTILENCE NONSENSE.

Imagine she had sex with her Ex on 7th and 9th. She couldn't even call to mind her intimacy with her husband on the 8th.

But then, to have come out to tell her husband about such a possibility that the baby might not be his, is truely a brave thing at such an early stage.

Empiree check this out

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hlM0mE01p5M

xendra:
groom their own man? You people just like to ask for things you cannot give, who grooms anyone this days? Men&women alike.