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Re: My Sexual Experience by benabbey(m): 10:26am On Oct 03, 2018
DaGeneral:

If I say I feel you pain that would be a lie as I can only imagine what you are going through and I can say it's terrible. I have two very close friends that are in you exact same shoes both over ten years in marriage. Both very nice and intelligent guys. One couldn't take it anymore and he went outside he totally enjoyed himself and felt like a man once again but I tell you the pain that accompanied that pleasure his marriage is yet to recover from it in the last 5years (the 'kaya' that comes with adultery is heavy ooo but society makes it look like normal yet in their sober times they wish they never started). It's frustrating and heartbreaking but keep putting effort day by day physically,emotional,mentally and spiritually. Thank God you are Christian. 1Cor10:13.There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it. The ball my brother is in your court but I plead with you don't expose yourself.

I don't think marrying another wife is adultery. I will only prevent contact between the two and I will sexually abandon the one who does not want me but my children bill will be paid. I will also choose probably a widow or a single mum with girl child. So that procreation will not be her problem. I will think through it and solve my problem enough is enough.
Re: My Sexual Experience by DaGeneral(m): 12:02pm On Oct 03, 2018
benabbey:


I don't think marrying another wife is adultery. I will only prevent contact between the two and I will sexually abandon the one who does not want me but my children bill will be paid. I will also choose probably a widow or a single mum with girl child. So that procreation will not be her problem. I will think through it and solve my problem enough is enough.
What if this new woman is thesame since we can't judge a book by its cover (cos you can't taste the puddy until you marry her in order not to commit adultery) or probably she is sexually on overdrive that you can't cope.like I said I can only imagine you pain but brotherly think it thoroughly through
Re: My Sexual Experience by JoannaSedley(f): 1:57pm On Oct 03, 2018
benabbey:


I don't think marrying another wife is adultery. I will only prevent contact between the two and I will sexually abandon the one who does not want me but my children bill will be paid. I will also choose probably a widow or a single mum with girl child. So that procreation will not be her problem. I will think through it and solve my problem enough is enough.
She didn't except sex na polygamy she will accept.. Ha.
She will just divorce you and carry her bag to live in the church.
Re: My Sexual Experience by JoannaSedley(f): 2:00pm On Oct 03, 2018
DaGeneral:

What if this new woman is thesame since we can't judge a book by its cover (cos you can't taste the puddy until you marry her in order not to commit adultery) or probably she is sexually on overdrive that you can't cope.like I said I can only imagine you pain but brotherly think it thoroughly through
the second will probably break his d!ck with fvck and he will be screaming to mama.
Just get a intimacy gadget...the lesser of the two devils...you won't make heaven and you won't make hell either. .you will be floating in limbo like the rest of us sinners.
Re: My Sexual Experience by benabbey(m): 4:37pm On Oct 03, 2018
JoannaSedley:
She didn't except sex na polygamy she will accept.. Ha.
She will just divorce you and carry her bag to live in the church.

That is even better for me

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Re: My Sexual Experience by benabbey(m): 4:40pm On Oct 03, 2018
JoannaSedley:
the second will probably break his d!ck with fvck and he will be screaming to mama.
Just get a intimacy gadget...the lesser of the two devils...you won't make heaven and you won't make hell either. .you will be floating in limbo like the rest of us sinners.

Don't condemned anybody even yourself.
Re: My Sexual Experience by JoannaSedley(f): 4:47pm On Oct 03, 2018
benabbey:


Don't condemned anybody even yourself.
oh please..... I am not a Christian fanatic like almost everyone here. Divorce her on the ground of irreconcilable differences and move on. As naive as you are...you can never cope with polygamy. You will be dead before you know it

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Re: My Sexual Experience by Nobody: 6:55pm On Oct 03, 2018
Watch pornography and jerk off.
Re: My Sexual Experience by shobam1410(m): 8:11am On Oct 05, 2018
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Re: My Sexual Experience by PSTEMMA1960(m): 10:16pm On Oct 05, 2018
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sisisioge:
Hian! It's all about getting the right shoe fit. Some people don't like sex, some do and distaste pre-intimacy, some don't like kisses, some are just alright with all the plays minus the do...whew! I just can't deal getting that aspect wrong...hian!

No vex Oga, please beg her to listen to the voice of reasoning. How could she not want to be kissed? Chai! I swearit, most no sex before marriage doers always get that aspect wrong. If you won't have the sex, at least play the play. That would have given you some insight on your sexual compatibility. Biko, let there be plenty sex bikonu ...let there be abeg. It's one of the things we singles are so jealous of your married for grin grin grin
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sisisioge:
Hian! It's all about getting the right shoe fit. Some people don't like sex, some do and distaste pre-intimacy, some don't like kisses, some are just alright with all the plays minus the do...whew! I just can't deal getting that aspect wrong...hian!

No vex Oga, please beg her to listen to the voice of reasoning. How could she not want to be kissed? Chai! I swearit, most no sex before marriage doers always get that aspect wrong. If you won't have the sex, at least play the play. That would have given you some insight on your sexual compatibility. Biko, let there be plenty sex bikonu ...let there be abeg. It's one of the things we singles are so jealous of your married for grin grin grin

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