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Ladies How Do You Handle The "Direct Approach" By Men by babakb(op): 10:38pm On Oct 03, 2018
A lot of men out there dont care about courtships, relationships, matchmaking etc they approach a lady directly and propose marriage to her, yeah its weird considering we are in an modern era but some men will always be direct approachers.

I want to know how ladies handle such men, i mean how do you accept or turn them down.
Re: Ladies How Do You Handle The "Direct Approach" By Men by Flattino(m): 10:46pm On Oct 03, 2018
What do you wanna do with this?

Islam , for instance...
There is no courtship in Islam ! If you want to have any intimacy with a woman ,then you go and marry .
Even though many Muslims today have deviated . Many Muslims now commit zina in the guise of dating or courtship.
Especially here in the southern part of the country.
Re: Ladies How Do You Handle The "Direct Approach" By Men by Heloct(f): 11:04pm On Oct 03, 2018
It's not hard now.

If interested, you bring him back to the level of courtship.

If not, na to just waka pass.
Re: Ladies How Do You Handle The "Direct Approach" By Men by folake4u: 11:13pm On Oct 03, 2018
Simply and politely tell him 'I'm not interested'.
Them nor tie your mouth undecided
Re: Ladies How Do You Handle The "Direct Approach" By Men by chiommy123(f): 6:40am On Oct 04, 2018
Its the best na abi you want the one that will waste your time and later Come up with a crazy excuse my ground mother cousin aunty said we don't marry from your side
Re: Ladies How Do You Handle The "Direct Approach" By Men by ednut1(m): 6:50am On Oct 04, 2018
folake4u:
Simply and politely tell him 'I'm not interested'.

Them nor tie your mouth undecided
even if na footballer wey hold bar nko grin
Re: Ladies How Do You Handle The "Direct Approach" By Men by Premiumwriter: 6:55am On Oct 04, 2018
ednut1:
even if na footballer wey hold bar nko grin
you wan shake the girl table grin
Re: Ladies How Do You Handle The "Direct Approach" By Men by ednut1(m): 6:58am On Oct 04, 2018
Premiumwriter:
you wan shake the girl table grin
yes o. See kanu e dey uk dem find am 18 year old babe to marry grin
Re: Ladies How Do You Handle The "Direct Approach" By Men by Premiumwriter: 7:07am On Oct 04, 2018
ednut1:
yes o. See kanu e dey uk dem find am 18 year old babe to marry grin
nothing dey confuse naija babes like moni grin
Re: Ladies How Do You Handle The "Direct Approach" By Men by folake4u: 1:28pm On Oct 04, 2018
ednut1:
even if na footballer wey hold bar nko grin
Even if oh cheesy
Re: Ladies How Do You Handle The "Direct Approach" By Men by babakb(op): 5:46pm On Jul 25, 2019
Flattino:
What do you wanna do with this?

Islam , for instance...
There is no courtship in Islam ! If you want to have any intimacy with a woman ,then you go and marry .
Even though many Muslims today have deviated . Many Muslims now commit zina in the guise of dating or courtship.
Especially here in the southern part of the country.
We are saying the same thing, that girl you want to marry must still give her verbal consent, whether yes or no?
Re: Ladies How Do You Handle The "Direct Approach" By Men by Quality20(m): 6:33pm On Jul 25, 2019
Flattino:
What do you wanna do with this?

Islam , for instance...
There is no courtship in Islam ! If you want to have any intimacy with a woman ,then you go and marry .
Even though many Muslims today have deviated . Many Muslims now commit zina in the guise of dating or courtship.
Especially here in the southern part of the country.
u mean muslim guys in d south hide und r courtship to do zina? what? This is grand deception na. No wonder u see many yoba grls from d south telling u things like I'm single but I have two kids
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