Kinggnicole:


So?

Last I checked, I wasn't talking to you.

Feminist using King rather than Queennicole.

MENTORCH:
The problem this days is that women cheat as much as men but they are hardly caught. It seems they know the consequences, but men aren’t scared of the consequences.

women have always been cheating as much

(remember Potiphar's wife and Joseph, assuming Joseph got her pregnant, Potiphar would have trained Joseph child and think say na im product )

It's not new

imitateMe:
The truth is that women are just selfish and stingy.

Elaborate

We will forgive because we know we are not perfect and God forgives us however it’s like a yellow card it doesn’t mean take advantage of the situation

toyetade:


In the environment where I live and even in developing and developed countries, most never do well children are brought up by single parent whether men or women. Most women cannot hold themselve without seeing men later in their life. My opinion is that instead of rushing to park out of your husband house in the name of cheating, all avenues should be explored to settle things amicably, forgive him if he is ready to commit to the marriage than living a lonely life afterwards and children always need their dad. My own opinion

Will you shut the f*ck up already?

Lonely life indeed.
Cheating is disrespect, disloyalty and betrayal.
Boys who grow up in homes where their mothers always forgave their fathers for cheating on them sometimes turn out to expect the same level of tolerance from their partners in the future and the damn cycle continues.

Don't come here talking trash about how single parents raise bad children because that's a lie.
Wtf?!
Look around you and be honest even if it's just this one time.

What do you even mean by women cannot hold themselves without seeing men? What has that got to do with anything?
Who says women who are divorcees should have nothing to do with men because she's divorced?
She can f*ck as many dicks as she likes got that?

And please stop playing the children card when telling women to stick with randy cheats. Direct that to the men who can't keep it in their f*cking pants. If you had done that there wouldn't be any need for this conversation don't you think?

Earthbound:

Last I checked, I wasn't talking to you.

Feminist using King rather than Queennicole.

I was talking to you Ok??
And yes I'm a FEMINIST. Suck on it

I don't see how using Kinng in my monicker affects you. Did I tell you not to use queen?

Yeye.

Kinggnicole:


I was talking to you Ok??
And yes I'm a FEMINIST. Suck on it

I don't see how using Kinng in my monicker affects you. Did I tell you not to use queen?

Yeye.

Smh for you. Please carry your wahala and go unless you have big ikebe, then you can stay.

Kinggnicole:



Will you shut the f*ck up already?

Lonely life indeed.
Cheating is disrespect, disloyalty and betrayal.
Boys who grow up in homes where their mothers always forgave their fathers for cheating on them sometimes turn out to expect the same level of tolerance from their partners in the future and the damn cycle continues.

Don't come here talking trash about how single parents raise bad children because that's a lie.
Wtf?!
Look around you and be honest even if it's just this one time.

What do you even mean by women cannot hold themselves without seeing men? What has that got to do with anything?
[b]Who says women who are divorcees should have nothing to do with men because she's divorced?
She can f*ck as many dicks as she likes got that?[/b]

And please stop playing the children card when telling women to stick with randy cheats. Direct that to the men who can't keep it in their f*cking pants. If you had done that there wouldn't be any need for this conversation don't you think?

Whose dicks will she turn to then ?. Snatch somebody else husband or share with someone else and breaking other peoples home. Is that better than reconciling with your own husband and look away.Cheating husband have their punishment too and no free lunch anywhere.

Amberon1:
My friend left her bf when he not only cheated but started dating another girl publicly. I was in the house when he came to beg her to take his back. Girl stood her ground. She rejected him.

You want to tell me she didn't know when he was cheating privately? For him to take it public means she must have stomached it numerous times in the past. Only that this time the shame of it being public made her reject him, not necessarily because he cheated.

BlaqCoffee109:
Bruh any woman that stays with a man mistreating and cheating on her, has no option in her life or just some person with low self esteem or just some other person cumbered with "what will people say"...in reality some of us treasure having a good and peaceful life over pleasing folks we care nothing about.

Lol. Online mentality. Anyone can have these types of principles online. It's not limited to female folks. I know guys who would be macho online but are pussies in real life. Cheaters of both genders have it far more easy in real life than what is portrayed online. Love is a weird stuff. Y'all should say something else abeg

toyetade:


Whose dicks will she turn to then ?. Snatch somebody else husband or share with someone else and breaking other peoples home. Is that better than reconciling with your own husband and look away.Cheating husband have their punishment too and no free lunch anywhere.

I don't want to believe this. You're just trolling right?

It's raining men dude! Lol


Also stop with that snatching men bs. Men are not handbags that can be snatched inugo?

narrowpathy:

Lol. Online mentality. Anyone can have these types of principles online. It's not limited to female folks. I know guys who would be macho online but are pussies in real life. Cheaters of both genders have it far more easy in real life than what is portrayed online. Love is a weird stuff. Y'all should say something else abeg

Narrowpathy so you have an online mentality? I couldn't keep up with having dual mentality. That said, it's about personal worth and what you think and make of yourself...so if you think differently and less of yourself don't assume everyone does. Now for some of us, love is not enough and we know and understand who we are and where we are going and there are somethings indeed that are non-negotiable...I couldn't look at a man who'd disrespect me the same way I looked at him before...no Sir, why live in perpetual torment when you can do better? Love is important, but what happens when there's no trust, respect? Especially if the person involved is in the habit of cheating? How are you gon'deal with that Narrowpathy? You enjoy being second fiddle? You tolerate being lied to? You take it in good faith to be disrespected over and over again because you can't get someone worthy of you?

BlaqCoffee109:
Narrowpathy so you have an online mentality? I couldn't keep up with having dual mentality. That said, it's about personal worth and what you think and make of yourself...so if you think differently and less of yourself don't assume everyone does. Now for some of us, love is not enough and we know and understand who we are and where we are going and there are somethings indeed that are non-negotiable...I couldn't look at a man who'd disrespect me the same way I looked at him before...no Sir, why live in perpetual torment when you can do better? Love is important, but what happens when there's no trust, respect? Especially if the person involved is in the habit of cheating? How are you gon'deal with that Narrowpathy? You enjoy being second fiddle? You tolerate being lied to? You take it in good faith to be disrespected over and over again because you can't get someone worthy of you?

Well, good for you. But real life experiences have made me take everything people say online with a pinch of salt. I have seen divorces and not one was because of infidelity. I have seen both men and women cheat.... especially men and their partners almost always look the other way, or pretend they don't know. That's the reality of life

Nope, it was something that happened suddenly. There was never a time she had to stomach it. She broke up with him immediately she found out.

narrowpathy:

You want to tell me she didn't know when he was cheating privately? For him to take it public means she must have stomached it numerous times in the past. Only that this time the shame of it being public made her reject him, not necessarily because he cheated.

milemimi93:
I've forgiven you

What is this one saying Go and make peace with God by asking Him to forgive you not that nonsense up there.

MhisTahrah:
What is this one saying Go and make peace with God by asking Him to forgive you not that nonsense up there.

I said I've forgiven you.. You know your sins..

You mentioned me in your dairy for no fvcken reason..

Cheating partners... There must be a lot of unvoiced intrigues behind every victim's experience

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toyetade:

A woman need to forgive the cheating husband if he is truly sorry. Life outside marriage for so many woman is nothing to write home about especially where children are involved. Just forgive and continue with your marriage to give your children and yourself the best possible chance in life

Should a man also forgive his wife if she cheats and she shows remorse?

TheNaijanBlog:


Should a man also forgive his wife if she cheats and she shows remorse?

No

toyetade:


No

So why should a woman be required to forgive her husband and work on the marriage and the man should not. Is that not a double standard? Or is the woman not as human as the man that feels hurt from betrayal?

Who is dis one again?

Amberon1:
Nope, it was something that happened suddenly. There was never a time she had to stomach it. She broke up with him immediately she found out.

Haha. Are you her shadow? How come you know everything that happens in her life. Most people will only tell you when the going is good and if by chance you discover any bad happening in their lives they will find a way to look perfect in that situation. Not all that glitters is gold.

TheNaijanBlog:


So why should a woman be required to forgive her husband and work on the marriage and the man should not. Is that not a double standard? Or is the woman not as human as the man that feels hurt from betrayal?

I know you will say that. It is just based on my own opinion. Women are able to hold their body more than men.

I never say what I don't know. The girl was my best friend and I knew the guy too. I and the girl were basically called twins because we were always together.
The new girl he started dating also later became friends with my friend after their romance fizzled away. My friend had access to the guy's phone and private messages too so when I comment on this issue, then I actually know what I'm saying. We lived in the same house then too.

You're being defensive because you subscribe to the school of thought that women should stay with cheating partners. This is the 21st century and women are less tolerant for bullshit.

narrowpathy:


Haha. Are you her shadow? How come you know everything that happens in her life. Most people will only tell you when the going is good and if by chance you discover any bad happening in their lives they will find a way to look perfect in that situation. Not all that glitters is gold.

That's the same lame excuse men use to justify cheating. I thought y'all said women were weaker vessels. So we're not weaker vessels when it comes to fighting temptations? Lmao!

toyetade:

I know you will say that. It is just based on my own opinion. Women are able to hold their body more than men.

Amberon1:
That's the same lame excuse men use to justify cheating. I thought y'all said women were weaker vessels. So we're not weaker vessels when it comes to fighting temptations? Lmao!

But that is the reality, you can't fight that. That is why you see men rape, sometimes having many wifes. The urge is always there.

Amberon1:
I never say what I don't know. The girl was my best friend and I knew the guy too. I and the girl were basically called twins because we were always together.
The new girl he started dating also later became friends with my friend after their romance fizzled away. My friend had access to the guy's phone and private messages too so when I comment on this issue, then I actually know what I'm saying. We lived in the same house then too.

You're being defensive because you subscribe to the school of thought that women should stay with cheating partners. This is the 21st century and women are less tolerant for bullshit.

Well, fine. I only get to see these kinds of stories online and in romance movies. I personally haven't seen a divorce based on infidelity. Heck I rarely even get to see people who divorce in this part of the world.... and the people around me aren't saints. I've seen all manner of cheating from the secretive to the fairly open to the arrogantly open kinds both on the male and female sides but curiously extremely few divorce cases and none of them for infidelity reasons. People must be lying online

It happens everyday. We just don't hear about them. Most people, especially guys misbehave in relationships because they believe their partner will always accept them back.

Now there's a twist to the story I gave earlier. After that incident, the girl in question began dating someone else who she didn't really like. She cheated on him and the guy knew but he always begged her to stay. The girl kept misbehaving cuz she knew the guy would always beg for her attention because he couldn't do without her.

What someone can tolerate is the deal breaker for the next person. That's just how relationships are.

narrowpathy:


Well, fine. I only get to see these kinds of stories online and in romance movies. I personally haven't seen a divorce based on infidelity. Heck I rarely even get to see people who divorce in this part of the world.... and the people around me aren't saints. I've seen all manner of cheating from the secretive to the fairly open to the arrogantly open kinds both on the male and female sides but curiously extremely few divorce cases and none of them for infidelity reasons. People must be lying online

That is not the reality. That is fiction.
I can also use prostitution to justify the high libido of women too you know.

toyetade:


But that is the reality, you can't fight that. That is why you see men rape, sometimes having many wifes. The urge is always there.