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Originalsly:
Hmmm.... I wonder.....didn't the woman see these tendencies in the man before marriage?...quick to anger?...quick to hit?...some women seee signs of violence, disregard them...and go into marriage hoping they will go away when infact it gets worse...and often ends up as this. Men are no different...too many see a woman...great body/colour/whatever...will go for that ...never mind she sleeps around....will go ahead and marry her hoping she will stop. Something had to seriously go wrong in this marriage for a man to go to this extent....looks pregnant....did she confess to him that the baby is not his? Happens all the time...some men can deal with it...some can't. Is it she was abused all along and this was the final straw? Whatever the case...it's not an excuse for murder. We should really look into the mindset of a person before marrying instead of looking into the savings account/how sexy the person be.

seunmohmoh:
Please friends, what's the worst punishment on earth.

Crushing of the testicles for men, more painful than fire

Grab ur guys two testicles and squeeze it with all your might and see his reaction

Do ensure you press the testis very hard.

Caution: If he survives make sure you run for your dear life because he will kill you!

chiommy123:
What kind of men do we have nowadays? Beast? monsters? Some are more evil than devil

May 3 2018(nairaland) registration date ....Am not surprise...

If you have nothing to say u just keep mute...

Attacking one side makes no meaning (ARE U TELLING ME FEMALE CAN'T DO DIZ? AM NOT HERE 4 ARGUMENT BUT TO CORRECT UR MENTALITY... Always put at the back of ur mind whatever u type or say is always in an archive so think deep b4 doing anything....people like u that love putting ur picture ought to be the one careful with comments at time)



Our planet earth z full of wickedness we just need to pray so we will not be part of evil victim......whatever happens to her can happen to any Sex be it male or female...



WHAT A SAF EVENT

MAY HER SOUL REST IN PEACE AND MAY THE MAN RECEIVE THE RIGHT JUDMENT...WHO AM I TO JUDGE?

The only truth here is that a woman was killed and stuffed in a box.

You’re blaming the behavior of women as leading to this. But you have not one clue what happened. You decided to blame anyway. Because you can’t stand not blaming a woman for whatever a monster does to her.

You’re the one who’s mentally sick. Mongrel

It doesn’t matter what the beginning of your statement said if you end up nullify it with stupid excuses and victim blaming. Just as you’ve just done.

tamethem:
You are mentally sick. I think you didn't use your drug this morning.

The beginning of my comment says it is even wrong to raise your hand at a woman. go back and read.

Beating a woman is a wrong thing.

Bu the story being so pathetic should not stop one from blaming the behavior of some women that leads to cases like this. or should we keep quiet because someone just died and not say the truth.

Did I support beating a woman? No not to talk of injuring or killing someone.

But to avoid ugly cases of this Nature, let all women learn to avoid problems in the matrimonial homes because they are the weaker sex.

I know you have not married when you do, you will understand.

It is sad. Violence against women is wrong.

franchasng:
Ladies don't marry:

1.) A man that smokes Indian hemp, takes hard drugs or even cigar

2.) A man that drinks a lot! Run!! Great men don't take alcohol! American President Donald Trump don't take alcohol, he doesn't smoke!

Barack Obama is a tout! Don't let such men be your crush! Flee from them, alcohol and hard drugs motivate men to act like animals without any feelings!

3.) A man that keep bad company of friends, who enjoy staying out late night and club around town! These type of life makes a man lose his human conscience and see other humans as animals!

Great men don't live reckless life!

4.) A man that raises his hands on you is a mad man, flee during dating, don't wait for him to change, let him change for another woman he will meet!

5.) A man that lacks respect for other people and treat and beat other people is a beast, he will beat u or treat u like those other people someday, run sis!!

No man can kill a fellow human with an ordinary eye, even hired killers, armed robbers, kidnappers, ritual killers and all manner of killers commit those crimes under the influence of hard drugs and heavy alcohol!

That's is why thugs, armed robbers, cultists, kidnappers, assassins are known for smoking, taking hard drugs and consuming heavy alcohol, it helps to kill their human emotions so that they can kill and destroy without remorse or pity!

Watch the kind of man u date, he is lively, he is fun, hmmm be careful, there are millions of good guys but when ladies meet them they ignorantly miss them out of ignorance, pride, foolishness, shakara and what have u.

RIP Lady, it hurts mhen

Oya clap for itself, Advisor... OBAMA is a tout! But trust me every reasonable gal will choose an obama over any of your hopeless generation put together.

Seahawk:
Yea blame her

Where did I blame her?

missCAPS:
This has no information at all, just a message "walk out of abusive relationships" okay, we get that but, there is no information as to where, how and when it happened. It's just like downloading a picture of broccoli and bringing it to class to show a bunch of agric students in a class.

My thoughts exactly, I have realized that people are quick to respond without actual fact find of the message. This woman might have been killed by a kidnapper or robber even the way she was cellotaped it even looks professional , and I wonder why it didn’t trend with actual story (these days of bloggers and technology and neighbors) but since the op says it’s domestic violence everybody is quick to insult men and relationships. I just wish Nigerians will always try and fact find before jumping into conclusions

tamethem:
You are mentally sick. I think you didn't use your drug this morning.

The beginning of my comment says it is even wrong to raise your hand at a woman. go back and read.

Beating a woman is a wrong thing.

Bu the story being so pathetic should not stop one from blaming the behavior of some women that leads to cases like this. or should we keep quiet because someone just died and not say the truth.

Did I support beating a woman? No not to talk of injuring or killing someone.

But to avoid ugly cases of this Nature, let all women learn to avoid problems in the matrimonial homes because they are the weaker sex.

I know you have not married when you do, you will understand.

It is sad. Violence against women is wrong.

DUDE YOU ARE JUSTIFYING THE MAN ACTION!

WHAT OS WRONG IS WRONG WITHOUT EXCEPTION!

you can't say hitting a person is wrong and then go back and blame the victim due to conduct!

THERE IS NO LAW ON EARTH THAT JUSTIFIES AN ILLEGAL ACT IT HAS PRONOUNCED AS ILLEGAL.

franchasng:
Ladies don't marry:

1.) A man that smokes Indian hemp, takes hard drugs or even cigar

2.) A man that drinks a lot! Run!! Great men don't take alcohol! American President Donald Trump don't take alcohol, he doesn't smoke!

Barack Obama is a tout! Don't let such men be your crush! Flee from them, alcohol and hard drugs motivate men to act like animals without any feelings!

3.) A man that keep bad company of friends, who enjoy staying out late night and club around town! These type of life makes a man lose his human conscience and see other humans as animals!

Great men don't live reckless life!

4.) A man that raises his hands on you is a mad man, flee during dating, don't wait for him to change, let him change for another woman he will meet!

5.) A man that lacks respect for other people and treat and beat other people is a beast, he will beat u or treat u like those other people someday, run sis!!

No man can kill a fellow human with an ordinary eye, even hired killers, armed robbers, kidnappers, ritual killers and all manner of killers commit those crimes under the influence of hard drugs and heavy alcohol!

That's is why thugs, armed robbers, cultists, kidnappers, assassins are known for smoking, taking hard drugs and consuming heavy alcohol, it helps to kill their human emotions so that they can kill and destroy without remorse or pity!

Watch the kind of man u date, he is lively, he is fun, hmmm be careful, there are millions of good guys but when ladies meet them they ignorantly miss them out of ignorance, pride, foolishness, shakara and what have u.

RIP Lady, it hurts mhen

they'll never listen to this, they prefer the tough guys even if they sense danger in him they'll still force themselves on him, them no dey hear word

lielbree:
Yes. The op story is relevant and necessary! If that woman was divorced she won't be dead in that box!

how do we know the woman in the box was killed by her husband. Did it ever occur to you maybe she might be killed for ritual purpose?

Labuddy1000:
PLEASE NOTE: PICTURES ARE DISTURBING

Is marriage worth life?

By Ada Nma


This is not a film tricks, not one of the scenes acted in Nollywood movies. In a real-life situation, she was beaten to death by her husband, who stuffed her body in this box and was caught on his way to depose her.

Now listen, I have been married before. Blessed with two adorable children, something that was supposed to be a very happy marriage, going by the way it started. Got so soured to even bear with. That’s by the way.

One thing I realised in those times was that your family will never ask you to leave, though you decide to leave, they will not support you in your decision. And when you summon the courage to even finally leave, don’t expect to count on their support. Only a few kind-hearted and understanding ones would extend a helping hand towards you and your children. Others would claim, “were you not the one who decided to leave? Carry your responsibility naw”.

The truth is, these things shouldn’t bother you. Don’t even give thoughts to such, think beyond every form of human help. Perceive yourself as a Conqueror, and visualise yourself being alive in the future with your children. It is more important than answering a WIFE whose life could predictably end up in this way. Thereby forcefully abandoning your children for another wife that will replace you within 1yr or in the hands of well-wishers.

This gory images are that of a woman who refused to walk away when she had the chance to. Apparently she doesn’t want to be called a single mom, a divorcee or a woman who can not stay under a man. So, ya na nwoke ahu ga n’emeju ihe afo, so that she will continue to answer his wife.

Does it really worth it?

I mean looking at these pictures, would you still encourage couples who have fallen out of love to continue managing? Love spells everything in a relationship, but the absence of love breeds things like this. Either the woman stabs/poison the man or the man beats her to death.

Just hold it there, don’t preach to me couples have issues, it’s normal. I know very well they sometimes do, and I also know that if it’s an act done mistakenly, no man who truly still love his wife, would squeeze her in this manner with her pregnancy, and try to throw her away with his own baby. This is wickedness, this is an act borne out of prolonged HATRED.

Take a walk out of that abusive relationship, give yourselves time to breathe, heal and see if planning a comeback will make things right again.

What you don’t know is that, If you keep forcefully get stock there, your kids get spoilt. You spend your whole time quarrelling, fighting, depressed, planning a counter-attack and you’ll never have the time to teach your children right from wrong, no time to show them love or tell them how much you love them. Nor teach them how to love. I mean, can you give what you don’t have?

https://www.9jareporters.com.ng/2018/10/28/is-marriage-worth-life/

Nigerian bloggers and lies....it is out of this world

Oh my......

This woman is gone.


(tears)

Hmnnnn when women marry their enemies.if only women could see the kinds of men they sleep with. Smh

Nigerian men are evil.

fake news chop am!!

what kind of life is this,if na me be dis woman,my sprit must hurt him ooo

Seahawk:
The only truth here is that a woman was killed and stuffed in a box.

You’re blaming the behavior of women as leading to this. But you have not one clue what happened. You decided to blame anyway. Because you can’t stand not blaming a woman for whatever a monster does to her.

You’re the one who’s mentally sick. Mongrel

It doesn’t matter what the beginning of your statement said if you end up nullify it with stupid excuses and victim blaming. Just as you’ve just done.

This is why most times I don't answer lunatics like you because no matter how you train a mad man he keeps singing same song.

The lady I replied didn't even reply back because , she easily grabbed my point. Since you are about to dance unclad into the market make I kuku leave you to satisfy the voices in your head.

She was blaming all men and generalising it as if all men are wicked and I helped her to see that ladies too are most times at fault. If an issue is going towards violence keep shut and let peace reign. The same man that was arguing with you will come back to see the point you are making. That is if handled wisely.

Since you are so pissed off because of the woman's death. make sure you don't start looking for rope upandan to do justice to your neck oo. Biko

say No! to those voices.

tamethem:
No matter what, a man should not raise his hands on a woman.

....and what will you do if your woman raises her hand on you?
Bro...it goes both ways. Keep it one way ...no good will come out of it.... the reason some women don't think twice about hitting a man because they don't expect the man to retaliate. Again...it goes both ways.

BigBros147:
how do we know the woman in the box was killed by her husband. Did it ever occur to you maybe she might be killed for ritual purpose?

Nigerian men will NEVER seize to amaze me.

Guy ask google of the likelihood of woman been killed by her husband.

There is a reason why all over the world (Maybe with exception to Nigeria) when a woman is killed her husband is the first suspect.

Lol

CuTTiieAngeL:
Instead of giving us details of the incident, you are telling us a fairytale abi?

Seahawk:
Just like it’s obvious you will side with the person who killed that woman in the box.

Birds of a feather. People around you should be careful.

don't worry about people around me, worry about your uncontrollable penis.

lielbree:
DUDE YOU ARE JUSTIFYING THE MAN ACTION!

WHAT OS WRONG IS WRONG WITHOUT EXCEPTION!

you can't say hitting a person is wrong and then go back and blame the victim due to conduct!

THERE IS NO LAW ON EARTH THAT JUSTIFIES AN ILLEGAL ACT IT HAS PRONOUNCED AS ILLEGAL.

I understand your point but the lady I quoted was Saying Men are Beasts , Men are Devil.
But is all men like that? No

Despite all what I typed , I still maintain that violence against women is wrong.

It is something I will never ever do. Beating a woman is out of it.

There are times you even beg despite that you are not the one at fault.

But it takes two to tango. It is just an advice yo our ladies to learn to forget issues once you see that it is turning to something funny. They are the weaker sex.

If my point is being misquoted , I guess I might need to edit.
thanks

You have not told us anything about the picture... Just ramblings about your personal problem using the gory image to justify it.
You desever to be..... In fact take this

Labuddy1000:
PLEASE NOTE: PICTURES ARE DISTURBING

Is marriage worth life?

By Ada Nma


This is not a film tricks, not one of the scenes acted in Nollywood movies. In a real-life situation, she was beaten to death by her husband, who stuffed her body in this box and was caught on his way to depose her.

Now listen, I have been married before. Blessed with two adorable children, something that was supposed to be a very happy marriage, going by the way it started. Got so soured to even bear with. That’s by the way.

One thing I realised in those times was that your family will never ask you to leave, though you decide to leave, they will not support you in your decision. And when you summon the courage to even finally leave, don’t expect to count on their support. Only a few kind-hearted and understanding ones would extend a helping hand towards you and your children. Others would claim, “were you not the one who decided to leave? Carry your responsibility naw”.

The truth is, these things shouldn’t bother you. Don’t even give thoughts to such, think beyond every form of human help. Perceive yourself as a Conqueror, and visualise yourself being alive in the future with your children. It is more important than answering a WIFE whose life could predictably end up in this way. Thereby forcefully abandoning your children for another wife that will replace you within 1yr or in the hands of well-wishers.

This gory images are that of a woman who refused to walk away when she had the chance to. Apparently she doesn’t want to be called a single mom, a divorcee or a woman who can not stay under a man. So, ya na nwoke ahu ga n’emeju ihe afo, so that she will continue to answer his wife.

Does it really worth it?

I mean looking at these pictures, would you still encourage couples who have fallen out of love to continue managing? Love spells everything in a relationship, but the absence of love breeds things like this. Either the woman stabs/poison the man or the man beats her to death.

Just hold it there, don’t preach to me couples have issues, it’s normal. I know very well they sometimes do, and I also know that if it’s an act done mistakenly, no man who truly still love his wife, would squeeze her in this manner with her pregnancy, and try to throw her away with his own baby. This is wickedness, this is an act borne out of prolonged HATRED.

Take a walk out of that abusive relationship, give yourselves time to breathe, heal and see if planning a comeback will make things right again.

What you don’t know is that, If you keep forcefully get stock there, your kids get spoilt. You spend your whole time quarrelling, fighting, depressed, planning a counter-attack and you’ll never have the time to teach your children right from wrong, no time to show them love or tell them how much you love them. Nor teach them how to love. I mean, can you give what you don’t have?

https://www.9jareporters.com.ng/2018/10/28/is-marriage-worth-life/

tunary:
Crushing of the testicles for men, more painful than fire

Grab ur guys two testicles and squeeze it with all your might and see his reaction

Do ensure you press the testis very hard.

Caution: If he survives make sure you run for your dear life because he will kill you!

The punishment befits the man.

You are only trying to stir up emotions.
What happened you did not mention.
Only men do marry out of love. Women are something else.
No wonder the Bible says your father can leave houses and riches for you to inherit but Only God can bless you with a good wife.
Good woman (not man) the Bible says is a blessing from God.

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CuTTiieAngeL:
Instead of giving us details of the incident, you are telling us a fairytale abi?

I just wonder what kind of rubbish this narrator just did. Even if she wanted to say things common sense should have told her to give details of the incidence.

Am not in support of Marital or abusive relationship, am married, sometimes it takes the grace of God and self control for me not to beat my wife. Due to that, have taken a lot things out of sight, I don't have friends I discuss my marital issues with. Most times I go to work wearing fake smile but within me am sad and bitter cos my wife dosent give me rest of mind and nags over minor things. If you're not mature please don't marry.

Originalsly:
....and what will you do if your woman raises her hand on you?
Bro...it goes both ways. Keep it one way ...no good will come out of it.... the reason some women don't think twice about hitting a man because they don't expect the man to retaliate. Again...it goes both ways.

This is what I.was.trying to say at the end of my comment and some guys think I supported what the man did. No sane man will support violence on a woman. But our women should learn to be peaceful too.

Some women too are extremely wicked. In contrary to what the lady quoted was saying "Men are beasts, men are devils etc" out of her compassion for the woman killed. No man is happy with what happened.

Let me tell you a real life story. A friend of mine Gbenga (real name) died about Four months back. He was based in the UK. he traveled first and after two years or so he brought the wife and child over. Now one day Gbenga left home late for work and he missed the train or something, he decided to go back home, called work place to do night shift. He entered his apartment met a man on top of wife. The woman didn't expect him to be back at that hour. He was so emotional that he pounced on the wife and started beating her and the boyfriend on his way down the staircase called the police. To cut the story shot Gbenga was deported. He struggled and struggled to go back to no avail. When my guy heard from friends that the wife got pregnant and even did naming ceremony of the child of the same boyfriend, Gbenga started talking to himself , Cloth rough, No more barbing of beard, etc . Gbenga ran mad. He started roaming the streets of Ibadan half nakedd. Four months ago he died at the UCH.

My point I am trying to make here is that the Gbenga that I used to know was a very very quiet guy. But he lost control of his temper and ruined his own life by his action. If he had walked away at that point in time, he could have jejely divorce the woman in peace.

There are some men who are animals though but there are some so quiet that it is the wickedness of troublesome women that changed them to be violent.

God help us.

Hand the man over for a similar treatment.

franchasng:
Ladies don't marry:

1.) A man that smokes Indian hemp, takes hard drugs or even cigar

2.) A man that drinks a lot! Run!! Great men don't take alcohol! American President Donald Trump don't take alcohol, he doesn't smoke!

Barack Obama is a tout! Don't let such men be your crush! Flee from them, alcohol and hard drugs motivate men to act like animals without any feelings!

3.) A man that keep bad company of friends, who enjoy staying out late night and club around town! These type of life makes a man lose his human conscience and see other humans as animals!

Great men don't live reckless life!

4.) A man that raises his hands on you is a mad man, flee during dating, don't wait for him to change, let him change for another woman he will meet!

5.) A man that lacks respect for other people and treat and beat other people is a beast, he will beat u or treat u like those other people someday, run sis!!

No man can kill a fellow human with an ordinary eye, even hired killers, armed robbers, kidnappers, ritual killers and all manner of killers commit those crimes under the influence of hard drugs and heavy alcohol!

That's is why thugs, armed robbers, cultists, kidnappers, assassins are known for smoking, taking hard drugs and consuming heavy alcohol, it helps to kill their human emotions so that they can kill and destroy without remorse or pity!

Watch the kind of man u date, he is lively, he is fun, hmmm be careful, there are millions of good guys but when ladies meet them they ignorantly miss them out of ignorance, pride, foolishness, shakara and what have u.

RIP Lady, it hurts mhen

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