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Case closed!!!!!!!!

RUN

Samiat22:
Please guys I need you to read and understand the story well! No unnecessary insults please


I'm 27 and my boyfriend is 26, we've been going together for 7 years, but quite honestly the last few years have not been good and this summer I really started distancing myself from him.
I have my own apartment, job and car, pay all my own bills, etc. he on the other hand still lives at home with his mom!! He is very irresponsible and I am just getting turned off by the whole situation. He barely works maybe only about 20 hours a week and that's being generous, he usually only works 10 or 15 hours a week. He doesn't give his mom any money to help out with bills, and whenever he needs money his mom gives it to him.
In the past he would ask me for money and I would give it to him, but over the last year when he asks I tell him I don't have it. I feel that if I can go to work everyday and support myself then so can he. He is very irresponsible and unorganized you have to constantly remind him to do things like he's a child and it's really starting to take its toll on me. The past few months have been pretty bad, we constantly argue (mostly about his work ethics and being irresponsible and lazy) and lately I just don't even like being around him.
He always makes excuses as to why he can't find a job. One excuse was because he didn't have a car. So I purchased a new car and instead of trading in my old car I told him he could drive it all he had to do was get his own insurance and keep the oil changed. He couldn't even do that.
At one point we were talking about moving in together. At the time my lease was up and we still were trying to decide what we were going to do, so I didn't renew my lease and went on a month to month lease. Since I wasn't under a contract I had to pay an additional $50.00 dollars per month and he said he would pay it. Needless to say I never received one payment.
We have talked about getting married but I don't want to marry him because he really doesn't have anything to offer. I give him leads on jobs and he never follows up I give him applications and he never fills them out.
Every time I make comments about him finding a job or his finances he says I think I'm better so now I don't even say anything.
I really don't know what else to do and I'm starting to feel like dating other people because I'm tired of having to pay for everything when we go out or not even going out at all because he never has any money.
Please Help!!!!

I'm tired of this your stories.

"He is very irresponsible and I am just getting turned off by the whole situation" seems like you already know what to do..

Another fabricated story.Mcheeew

RUN

I didnt even read your write up till the end.

I stopped at the part where you said his mom still gives him money...Like seriously.....At 26...Wat da heck!!.


Run for your life dear!!!!That guy is very lazyyyyyyyy.

Jesus christ!...I pity ladies that still give their boyfriends money unnecessarily in this generation.
He's a loser indeed. Just allow him to run his race alone biko...He doesnt deserve you

You and your never ending stories. In one thread you are 24 and in this one your are 27. Do they pay you for opening threads with fake stories? I am sure the picture on your profile is fake as well. You are one of those polluting this forum with your innate stùpidity.

Grow up!

ogasharpsharp:
You and your never ending stories. In one thread you are 24 and in this one your are 27. Do they pay you for opening threads with fake stories? I am sure the picture on your profile is fake as well. You are one of those polluting this forum with your innate stùpidity.

Grow up!

I'm sorry do you really think its about me, I find post worth being up here to get everyones view about so please if you don't like a place where there's communication or where there's life please do what your mates do (Bleep off!!!!!)

Samiat22:
I'm sorry do you really think its about me, I find post worth being up here to get everyones view about so please if you don't like a place where there's communication or where there's life please do what your mates do (Bleep off!!!!!)

Why did your age do throwback ?

Samiat22:
I'm sorry do you really think its about me, I find post worth being up here to get everyones view about so please if you don't like a place where there's communication or where there's life please do what your mates do (Bleep off!!!!!)

So you have to fabricate stories just to get people's opinions on rubbish? How about you get a job instead of dreaming of catching a foòl who will be dashing you money in your jobless state? Grow up!

ogasharpsharp:
So you have to fabricate stories just to get people's opinions on rubbish? How about you get a job instead of dreaming of catching a foòl who will be dashing you money in your jobless state? Grow up!

Only if you grow up in intellectuals

JjBankys:
I'm tired of this your stories.

Same way I'm tired of seeing you on earth
Lol

Oluwasaeon:
Why did your age do throwback ?

Why did your life remain stagnant

Samiat22:
Why did your life remain stagnant

Lol.

Samiat22:
Only if you grow up in intellectuals

Grow up in intellectuals kwa? Madam speak pidgin if English is too hard for you. Jobless nonentity.

ogasharpsharp:
Grow up in intellectuals kwa? Madam speak pidgin if English is too hard for you. Jobless nonentity.

You need to know how much I love making friends with people like you, because our friendship will last, exchanging words here isn't appropriate for grown up like us
Should I email you?

ogasharpsharp:
Grow up in intellectuals kwa? Madam speak pidgin if English is too hard for you. Jobless nonentity.

Shey na dat one u wan dey follow drag ni ?

All ur threads is about ur boyfriend. See just break up with him and save urself a lot of grief.

Oluwasaeon:
Shey na dat one u wan dey follow drag ni ?

And you too
Should I email you, we would be great friends I'm so sure

lefulefu:
All ur threads is about ur boyfriend. See just break up with him and save urself a lot of grief.

If I break his head would you fill up the space?

Samiat22:
And you too
Should I email you, we would be great friends I'm so sure

No please

Samiat22:
You need to know how much I love making friends with people like you, because our friendship will last, exchanging words here isn't appropriate for grown up like us
Should I email you?

I don't want to be friends with you. People like you annoy me, especially with the way you're spreading your special brand of stùpidity everywhere.

copy and paste story lol. this cant happen btw a nigerian guy and lady....not even in movies

Samiat22:
You need to know how much I love making friends with people like you, because our friendship will last, exchanging words here isn't appropriate for grown up like us
Should I email you?

Tell me you don't have a job


Like seriously are you trying to be stupid or just wanna do some antidepressants syndrome

Samiat22:
Same way I'm tired of seeing you on earth
Lol

you mean you want to send me to the great beyond?

OP why do you choose to be a jobless Fella. In a previous thread you were 24 now you're 27. If you're seeking attention why don't u drop at yabaleft.

Chai op don go