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Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by IbrahimDamola: 9:55am On Nov 29, 2018
Are we yorubas related to the Itshekiris?
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by eDeity: 9:57am On Nov 29, 2018
Topmaike007:
that's Igbo culture for you ooo
Is your culture?
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by Alexgeneration(m): 9:58am On Nov 29, 2018
I hope when his daughters are treated like this, he will not start making noise?
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by martineverest(m): 10:04am On Nov 29, 2018
it's very common in my part of Edo state, especially when u impregnated a lady without marrying her traditionally.... and then she died in your home
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by Yankiss(m): 10:09am On Nov 29, 2018
There are always two sides to a story. I do not like the idea of posthumous bride price by the said Chief Ereyitomi. He ought to have done so while she was alive. I do not know his reasons, however. But I take exception to the narrator. Calling on a man's children to deal with their father over their mum seems an invitation to chaos. The language should be more re-conciliatory.
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by efeteb: 10:14am On Nov 29, 2018
What I only observed from this write up is the bitterness of the writer to the Urhobo wife he married.
Why so much hate?
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by hinograce:
Born2Breed:
Are the two women you mentioned Itsekiris? Daisy and Remix?
I think Daisy is an Edo woman
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by jolomiurenyi(m): 10:40am On Nov 29, 2018
NaijaRoyelty:
So Tinubu wife , Remi, is from Itsekiri Warri
Yeah
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by jolomiurenyi(m): 10:42am On Nov 29, 2018
hinograce:
I thing Daisy is an Edo woman
Both mothers are ITSEKIRI, they were both brought up by their mother and were also brought up in Warri.
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by NaijaRoyelty: 10:43am On Nov 29, 2018
jolomiurenyi:
Yeah
I used to think she's Yoruba

Good to know
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by jolomiurenyi(m): 10:44am On Nov 29, 2018
IbrahimDamola:
Are we yorubas related to the Itshekiris?
Ask your dad.
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by Gordonz07(m): 10:44am On Nov 29, 2018
Tradition is Tradition. Respect it. Who has thought of why the white folks who fly from their country to come marry Nigerian ladies legitimately always respect Tradition? They know the importance.
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by Kyrestas: 10:48am On Nov 29, 2018
[color=#006600][/color] Ritual Action Hmmm Naija Papa God Help Us
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by Afonja007: 10:54am On Nov 29, 2018
Black people and and their selfish interest Is like 5&6
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by Boyooosa(m): 10:59am On Nov 29, 2018
Because of another man matter, somebody wrote another encyclopedia like this shocked nawao!
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by hinograce: 11:13am On Nov 29, 2018
Ok Noted however in Nigeria it is the Father's side a child claims
jolomiurenyi:
Both mothers are ITSEKIRI, they were both brought up by their mother and were also brought up in Warri.
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by Topmaike007(m): 11:20am On Nov 29, 2018
NIGHTMARE0O7:
They send u to school to go acquire knowledge you went to acquire stupidity grin.

Where did u see igbo in the topic? undecided
see painment

Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by Topmaike007(m): 11:21am On Nov 29, 2018
eDeity:
Is your culture?
at least you see O in my Monicker to tell you that I am onyingbo
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by mansoura(f): 11:52am On Nov 29, 2018
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by mansoura(f): 11:53am On Nov 29, 2018
Culture!
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by eDeity: 11:58am On Nov 29, 2018
[quote author=Topmaike007 post=73403519]at least you see O in my Monicker to tell you that I am onyingbo[/quote
Onye Igbo
Thanks
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by NIGHTMARE0O7: 12:07pm On Nov 29, 2018
Topmaike007:
see painment
No be only Painment na painting.
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by bullion001: 12:23pm On Nov 29, 2018
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Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by crafteck(m): 12:37pm On Nov 29, 2018
All this writeup to say nonsense, enough men have paid bride price and treated wife's bad, the greatest bride price u can give a wife's family is to treat her well
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by BlackyOne:
Born2Breed:
Are the two women you mentioned Itsekiris? Daisy and Remix?
Remi is an itsekiri, Daisy is a chief in the warri kingdom
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by Born2Breed(f): 12:54pm On Nov 29, 2018
BlackyOne:
Yes, they are itsekiri.
Lolz!!! When did the Ehanire's Family become Itsekiri?
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by BlackyOne: 12:57pm On Nov 29, 2018
crafteck:
All this writeup to say nonsense, enough men have paid bride price and treated wife's bad, the greatest bride price u can give a wife's family is to treat her well
The point the poster is making is that it is not in the tradition of the Itsekiri race to wait for the death of your wife before paying the bride price, and if that happens then it is a disgrace to the man and he his alienated from the woman's family, but in this case it is been done by a highly placed chief in the warri(iwerre) kingdom... Which is not a custom, also given the fact that the late woman was his backbone when he was poor, and he forgot about her, neglected her now that he is a multi-billionaire, as a result of looting developmental funds and contracts from multinational oil corporations operating in the oil rich Warri kingdom.
He his also the PDP flag bearer for the warri federal house of representative position...... A very wicked man with loyal thugs.
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by kinguwem: 1:06pm On Nov 29, 2018
Receiving bride price on a death lady reveals the level of uncivility of that family. It's not compulsory that a man must marry a lady before they can stay together. They can operate as in-live lovers.
I respect the man for opting to bury the deceased because of his children. This will relieve her family of a lot of expenses. They should be grateful for that. Requesting for a bride price reveals the greed associated with our culture.
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by OduduaDefender(m): 1:50pm On Nov 29, 2018
[quote author=NIGHTMARE0O7 post=73401390]They send u to school to go acquire knowledge you went to acquire stupidity grin.

Where did u see igbo in the topic?



I'm telling you.
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by ImaIma1(f): 2:06pm On Nov 29, 2018
Pavore9:
To serve as a deterrent. Why should a man feel comfortable living with a woman and having children with her while ignoring her family of origin and preferring the ‘come we stay’ arrangements?
It's not even peculiar to igbos. It cuts across a lot of cultures. Since she dies while living with man and having children for him. What more is left? They should make him consummate the marriage too abeg
Re: Thomas Ereyitomi Pays Bride Price On Corpse Of Caroline Okorodudu His Dead Wife by Casemiro(m): 3:57pm On Nov 29, 2018
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