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TruthinAction:
It is wrong. Those acting porn are stimulating people to live in sin and it is therefore wrong to use their content to arouse your sexual pleasure with your partner. Sex outside marriage is fornication. So Christian couples shouldn't use content from those fornication to arouse their sexual pleasure. There are good books written by Christian authors that can guide married couples in their sex life.

Romans 1:32:.. knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are WORTHY of DEATH, not only do the same, BUT HAVE PLEASURE IN THEM THAT DO THEM.

TheBlessedMAN:
Thanks for your contribution.

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dollytino4real:
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TruthinAction:
It is wrong. Those acting porn are stimulating people to live in sin and it is therefore wrong to use their content to arouse your sexual pleasure with your partner. Sex outside marriage is fornication. So Christian couples shouldn't use content from those fornication to arouse their sexual pleasure. There are good books written by Christian authors that can guide married couples in their sex life.

Romans 1:32:.. knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are WORTHY of DEATH, not only do the same, BUT HAVE PLEASURE IN THEM THAT DO THEM.

Gratefulheart01:


Porn can't move a woman the way it does to a man, that's why porn has spoilt the lives of lots of men. It's a pathetic situation. 70% of men today are porn addicts but you wouldn't know. Young boys, clergy men, lonely men, married men, good boys, bad boys, old men are all caught up in the web of porn.

Best thing is to train your kids and loved ones to stay away from porn, never start it, because when you get caught up in it, it's hard to stop.

Bgetto:
Christian ideology is so confusing, they said Jesus peace be upon him crucified for our sin what's the problem of doing sin

TheBlessedMAN:
First of all, let me tell you who I am.

I don't go to church unless its a cross-over night. Thats who I am. You are free to judge me.

Now to the reason behind the questionic title above, (Is it proper for a Christian couple to watch porn together before having sex?), last week sunday, in the morning, I was inside my room having my usual sunday-lic rest in preparation for the new week, when the loud speakers of a C.A.C church adjacent my house started blarring in its typical we-are-doing-sunday-school-service things.

Frustrated and angry at the same time, I grabbed my phone and begin to play game. Suddenly, I heard someone, probably from the congregation, asking the sunday school teacher the question I posted above and that was what caught my interest. I was curious to know what answer the teacher would give.
But unfortunately, I couldn't hear anything again. I guess the teacher had decided to answer the question without using microphone.


So, can someone help me to answer that question? Biblically or Morally. Thanks.

TheBlessedMAN:
First of all, let me tell you who I am.

I don't go to church unless its a cross-over night. Thats who I am. You are free to judge me.

Now to the reason behind the questionic title above, (Is it proper for a Christian couple to watch porn together before having sex?), last week sunday, in the morning, I was inside my room having my usual sunday-lic rest in preparation for the new week, when the loud speakers of a C.A.C church adjacent my house started blarring in its typical we-are-doing-sunday-school-service things.

Frustrated and angry at the same time, I grabbed my phone and begin to play game. Suddenly, I heard someone, probably from the congregation, asking the sunday school teacher the question I posted above and that was what caught my interest. I was curious to know what answer the teacher would give.
But unfortunately, I couldn't hear anything again. I guess the teacher had decided to answer the question without using microphone.


So, can someone help me to answer that question? Biblically or Morally. Thanks.n

is MouthAction Okay?
with John Piper
Founder & Teacher, desiringGod.org

The following is a transcript of the audio.

It’s episode number 400. Such a milestone should be marked with an epic episode. You ask the questions, I offer them to Pastor John, and he answers them. That’s how it works on the Ask Pastor John podcast. We get a lot of questions about relationships, dating, marriage, and of course sex. And that leads to episodes that may not be suitable for all listeners and are really designed to be listened to by married couples. Such is the case today. In the last month ten questions have arrived on the question of MouthAction. The question is always the same: Pastor John, is this practice permissible in a Christian marriage, or is it always sinful?

Questions relating to sexual intimacy should, I think, be handled with what you might call verbal modesty, rather than shocking or crass words. I think dressing and talking in immodest ways are both ways. So that is kind of governing some of my language now. These are real concerns. I am okay with this question. It is a little bit difficult and sensitive, but it is okay. People want biblical guidance, and so here is my effort at biblical wisdom.

First of all, I am assuming the question is only relating to people who are married when I give this counsel. I think it is wrong outside marriage. And we can talk about that another time more extensively. But here is the short answer. Why? MouthAction is even more intimate and delicate, it seems, than copulation. And we know this because even married couples are wondering if they should go there. It is as if it is a stage of intimacy that may not even be proper for married people. And so to think it can be an innocent substitute for copulation so people can obey the letter of the law outside marriage is a mirage. That is the first observation.

In marriage, here is what I would say. If MouthAction is wrong, I can think of four possible reasons it would be wrong. I will name them and then I will ask this question. Do those four things exist?

It would be wrong if it were prohibited in the Bible.
It would be wrong if it were unnatural.
It would be wrong if it were unhealthy or, that is, harmful.
It would be wrong if it were unkind.
So let’s take those one at a time.

1. I don’t think MouthAction is explicitly prohibited in any biblical command. If the Bible proscribes it, it would have to be by principle and not by an explicit command.

2. Is it unnatural? This is a tricky one. The male and female genitals are so clearly made for each other that there is a natural fitness or beauty to it. What about MouthAction? Now you might jump to the conclusion and say: Nope, that is not natural. But I am slow to go there because of what the Proverbs and the Song of Solomon say about a wife’s breasts. This is kind of an analogy. So, consider this: It seems to me nothing is more natural than a baby snuggling in his mother’s arms drinking at her breast. That is what breasts are. They are designed to feed babies.

It is unkind to pressure your spouse for MouthAction when he or she finds it unpleasant. Outdo each other in kindness. Tweet Share on Facebook
So, is there anything physically natural about a husband’s fascination with his wife’s breasts? Well, you might say no. That is not what breasts are for. But Proverbs 5:19 says, “Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love.” And Song of Solomon 7:7–8 are even more explicit, speaking of the woman: “Your stature is like a palm tree and your breasts are like its clusters. I say I will climb the palm tree and lay hold of its fruit. Oh may your breasts be like clusters of the vine.”

Well, even though there is very little anatomical correlation between a man’s hands or his lips and his wife’s breasts, it surely seems to be “natural” in another way; namely, built-in delight and desire that God in his word seems to commend for our marital enjoyment. So, I ask: Well, might there be similar desires for MouthAction or other kinds of sex? So, I doubt that we should put a limit on a married couple based on the claim of it being unnatural. That is risky, but that is where I come down on the naturalness of it.

3. Is it unhealthy or harmful? Well, it certainly might be if there are any sexually transmitted diseases present. And it could be performed in harmful ways. And so, the couple needs to be very honest and caring by not taking risks that would be unloving.

4. Which leads to the last question: Is it unkind? Now I think this one is probably the one that touches the rawest nerve and the one that has the greatest impact. Will you pressure your spouse for MouthAction if he or she finds it unpleasant? If so, then you are unkind. And it is a sin to be unkind. Ephesians 4:32 says, “Be kind to one another.” But the key word here is pressure.

I know that 1 Corinthians 7:4 says, “the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.” And the context there is sex. So, what does that mean practically? Well, it means that both the husband and the wife have the right to say to the other: I would like to [fill in the blank]. And both of them have the right to say: I would rather not [fill in the blank]. And in a good marriage, the biblically beautiful marriage, both of them seek to outdo the other in showing kindness.

So, those are my principles, Tony, that would guide the Christian couple in this matter of MouthAction.

TruthinAction:
It is wrong. Those acting porn are stimulating people to live in sin and it is therefore wrong to use their content to arouse your sexual pleasure with your partner. Sex outside marriage is fornication. So Christian couples shouldn't use content from those fornication to arouse their sexual pleasure. There are good books written by Christian authors that can guide married couples in their sex life.

Romans 1:32:.. knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are WORTHY of DEATH, not only do the same, BUT HAVE PLEASURE IN THEM THAT DO THEM.

dollytino4real:
it add maggi to the forking tinz to spice it up 4 more forking