victorian:









Yes I have.

And do you know I had to change my church, lol

The church I was attending before, the spirituality there is not strong. Even my Pastor then resigned from his post from the Church. I was already fed-up with it and the church was filled only with married people and jambites
I was like is this where I will get to see my Prince? I said to myself Victorian u are wasting your time here o.
I seek my friends opinion, they all laughed at me and Vicky stay in that church, your man will come from anywhere. But deep in my heart I knew that's not true.
The only places I go to in this life Is my office, market and church. I'm not a party or club person. I don't really socialize, so for Christ sakes! Where will this Prince Charming come from?

And don't tell me online, pleasseee! Have been burnt several times doing online date Biko.

So I saw another church on my way home on Sunday. It's was full to the brim. I saw ladies of my age and guys.. Youths everywhere! I was like wow! This is where am suppose to be lol
My dear, I changed church o!
The pastor noticed me on my first service, welcome me and all.

Then a Junior Pastor, Was sent to my house very early in the morning ,the next day on a Monday to give me another welcome letter and package from the overseer Pastor. This is the junior Pastor am with, and i made up my mind to spend the rest of my life with. He was all smiles as I ushered him in, after giving me the welcome letter again from pastor, we held hands and prayed. Then he left with his colleague. I was like this junior Pastor is handsome o! Lol
One mind ehhshhh! Vicky be focused on God! Forget handsome pastor lol. I laughed at myself. Lol

We always see in church and the rest was history

I still attend the church with him till date. Best decision ever made

Everyone deserves to be happy, so when are you guys getting married?

lefulefu:
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he must ride a Venza or nothing ;

Nah he doesn't have a Venza.

He drives a Muscle and I drive Honda element.


But seriously its not about his ride. He didn't even show me his car the first day, he came to my house and he didn't see mine either.

One can fall inlove without those material things.

Kidaholic:


Classic!
I hope all feminists are reading

Yes, how victorian did not sit idly waiting for prince charming to come but put herself out there. Mr right will not break into your house to propose. Getting high quality men means being a go getter and sadly only 1% of the female population do that.

Valerie47:
Everyone deserves to be happy, so when are you guys getting married?

True although me i dont need an invitation.

funmisticqueen2:
True although me i dont need an invitation.

Why?

funmisticqueen2:
Yes, how victorian did not sit idly waiting for prince charming to come but put herself out there. Mr right will not break into your house to propose. Getting high quality men means being a go getter and sadly only 1% of the female population do that.

*rolling eyes* what did you say is the subject of this thread again?
I think you're confused!

Valerie47:
I can't go as low as marrying an illiterate, I can't marry from another tribe, I'm sorry, but I can't compromise these standards.

So u can't marry any foreigner like American?

Valerie47:
Everyone deserves to be happy, so when are you guys getting married?

Shhhhhh! Am big saying a word on that question.

But in due time , I will post babies pics, wedding pics and anniversary pics soon..

Am compiling them.

My dear, my enemies too much, it's crazy! I don't want to reveal dates and all. Let's leave it as it is.

I use to talk about dates and all, and whenever I make it public. All my dreams will just collapse in front of my eyes, without any reason. I will b back to square one. Have learnt my lesson the hard way.

So plz no comment dear.

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victorian:









Nah he doesn't have a Venza.

He drives a Muscle and I drive Honda element.


But seriously its not about his ride. He didn't even show me his car the first day, he came to my house and he didn't see mine either.

One can fall inlove without those material things.

i was listening today on the radio about a lady who refused to go ahead in marrying her boo cos he didnt buy her iphone x.boo had to dip his hands in the funds he saved for the wedding to buy his fiancee a brand new iphone x cos of his desperation to marry her

Valerie47:
Why?

Funmistiqueen knows why already


Biko Funmi, no tell them o!

Kidaholic:


*rolling eyes* what did you say is the subject of this thread again?
I think you're confused!

i think you are confused. the point of this thread was having standards, nothing was said about not putting yourself out there where quality men abound.

lefulefu:
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i was listening today on the radio about a lady who refused to go ahead in marrying her boo cos he didnt buy her iphone x.boo had to dip his hands in the funds he saved for the wedding to buy his fiancee a brand new iphone x cos of his desperation to marry her

She no well!

Whats the craze about iPhone anyways?

They both deserve each other.

victorian:









Funmistiqueen knows why already


Biko Funmi, no tell them o!

my lips r sealed

lefulefu:
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i was listening today on the radio about a lady who refused to go ahead in marrying her boo cos he didnt buy her iphone x.boo had to dip his hands in the funds he saved for the wedding to buy his fiancee a brand new iphone x cos of his desperation to marry her

penny wise pound foolish

victorian:











She no well!

Whats the craze about iPhone anyways?

They both deserve each other.

u dey ask me wats the craze for iphones ..its a lady"s precious toy nau

funmisticqueen2:
penny wise pound foolish

exactly

ranmoor:
So u can't marry any foreigner like American?

Nope.

lefulefu:

u dey ask me wats the craze for iphones ..its a lady"s precious toy nau

that phone can be used to set up a business. O ga o.

funmisticqueen2:
my lips r sealed

Thanks dear


You are the best!

lefulefu:

u dey ask me wats the craze for iphones ..its a lady"s precious toy nau

Toy ke!

250k and above!

U call toy?!!

funmisticqueen2:
That is all propaganda, where are these ride or die chicks today. Dont fall for it. Riding and dying for a person that isnt worth it is a sign of low self esteem. A lot of ride or die chicks have done degrading things just to stay by a man's side. One. whiff of crap and i call you out, if you don't act accordingly, then i am done.

Well may experience show you the truth every one has theirs trust me or did you open a thread to just counter opinions. I am talking from experience we learn from each other what I’m telling you 6 years ago I had no idea find the man who’s worth and you will never have to keep saying thank you next

victorian:







Toy ke!

250k and above!

U call toy?!!

not children toys
i mean a lady"s toy
anything u love playing with and flaunting is a toy nau

All I can say is that know what you want in life, so that when it comes knocking you won't be confused. While waiting for Mr/Mrs rise work on self. Don't fold leg and arms waiting for him.
Don't judge one base on other persons preference.
Don't make anyone your role model when it comes to your relationship. They battles we fight we don't share with public.
No, Linda shouldn't be in today's discussion, if she had her ways, she will stick with shola

Victorian, congratulations.

lefulefu:

not children toys
i mean a lady"s toy
anything u love playing with and flaunting is a toy nau

You no serious

With such money, I can use it to invest in my business and have great returns.

I don't need it.

funmisticqueen2:
i think you are confused. the point of this thread was having standards, nothing was said about not putting yourself out there where quality men abound.

...That is why women who just allow everyman in are called women of easy virtue.

Maybe you have forgotten, its there in your own writing!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vNnczx3-qSk

Kidaholic:

...That is why women who just allow everyman in are called women of easy virtue.

Maybe you have forgotten, its there in your own writing!

they are still 2 different things after all women of easy virtue go out there, you see them at allen avenue and other brothrels.

Eberechi24:
All I can say is that know what you want in life, so that when it comes knocking you won't be confused. While waiting for Mr/Mrs rise work on self. Don't fold leg and arms waiting for him.
Don't judge one base on other persons preference.
Don't make anyone your role model when it comes to your relationship. They battles we fight we don't share with public.
No, Linda shouldn't be in today's discussion, if she had her ways, she will stick with shola

Victorian, congratulations.

Amen sister. This thread hurt a lot of men tho.

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victorian:







You no serious

With such money, I can use it to invest in my business and have great returns.

I don't need it.

so true its better usin the money to invest but a number of ladies need that iphone to flaunt and show their friends dem don belong to a higher clique.before iphones it was blackberry
remember?

funmisticqueen2:
they are still 2 different things after all women of easy virtue go out there, you see them at allen avenue and other brothrels.

Like prostitutes?
Babe, most women of easy virtue ends up being baby mama ... How is that raising standards?

Kidaholic:


Like prostitutes?
Babe, most women of easy virtue ends up being baby mama ... How is that raising standards?

See its late, will answer you timorrow

funmisticqueen2:
Amen sister. This thread hurt a lot of men tho.

Lol, you can say that again.

The guys are not smiling

Amen double