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Eberechi24:
All I can say is that know what you want in life, so that when it comes knocking you won't be confused. While waiting for Mr/Mrs rise work on self. Don't fold leg and arms waiting for him.
Don't judge one base on other persons preference.
Don't make anyone your role model when it comes to your relationship. They battles we fight we don't share with public.
No, Linda shouldn't be in today's discussion, if she had her ways, she will stick with shola

Victorian, congratulations.

Thanks dear

funmisticqueen2:
See its late, will answer you timorrow

Aiit, take your time

funmisticqueen2:
Amen sister. This thread hurt a lot of men tho.

Tbh, I draw my conclusion from peoples comments, I didn't read the post.

We have to react to things we don't accept.Men reacting to the post give it a balanced review.

victorian:
Thanks dear

Una be born again, make una no go za oza room o lol.

Enjoy youself dear.

solasoulmusic:
When a woman says ride or die she really means against all odds I will stand by you. As simple as vows are they mean a lot to some people it means that when you old and bald and you start to lose the looks you will always look handsome to me. It means that even if you lose love over the years I have more than enough to remind you everyday

It’s not a hopeless situation it’s one that takes faith and preserversance and vision

We don’t say it to die per say but to let the man know we won’t run at the slightest mental breakdown but stick around to breakthrough with you

The thing is finding a worthy man and hope he doesn’t forget halfway or fall for an illusion

u have too much sense

This thread, under the surface, is sexist and man-hating in nature. I suppose the op has been unlucky in her ventures with the opposite sex. That said, clinging to a past of frustration and allowing it to control you is, to say the least, silly. Move on. Get stronger.

One more lesson learnt here is that women need men more than men need women. See how ladies are just so eager and desperate to meet their Prince Charming. Do I need to say that they are looking up to the opposite gender to give them a sense of validation, as well as quench that burning passion that is heating up the hole between their thighs? Men of worth, take note. If things were in a different order in this world, women would chase and woo men, not the other way round. We males can't match them when it comes to the emotions and fulfillment that sexual interaction provides. They crave attention much, and they love sex madly. Don't be fooled by their hypocrisy.

Having exposed the some of the subtle messages in the posts of these daughters of Eve, it's important to note that rather than create standards for others, it's better and more glorious being the standard.

richboy01:
u have too much sense

thanks e no easy but we gats talk

victorian:
I know and I have worked on myself and am still working on myself. But I can say categoritically that have gotten to a level in life and in my character where a good wise successful man will always thank Baba God for having me in his life.

OK its like this: I have always wanted a very goodlooking successful kind guy as a spouse.
But along the line, all I got was drop dead gorgeous guys with terrible behaviors and the relationships always ended even before 3months
I wasn't perfect my self then but after breakups, I will evaluate where we both went wrong. Then advice myself and adjust.

I managed ugly guys, but I couldn't cope staying long in a relationship with an ugly guy. Lemme not deceive myself. Even if he's a saint. I moved on.

Thank God I'm with a God fearing man, a true Christian, he's handsome, very handsome but God has calmed him down. His looks doesn't get into his head, likewise my looks as well. I'm as grounded as I can be. He's humble and very kind then also successful with his career. He's committed to God. I'm committed to God but not as strong as he is.

But I like the fact, I draw strength from my man in keeping my relationship with God grounded and focused.

So I think that was what I didn't have in my previous relationship. None of them were close to God and the battles of life I have around me were too much and powerful , I needed a man who is spiritual and loves everything about God and ready to serve God .

Lol

and when I checked your picture, I was dissapointed at the outright. Your kind are talking aabout standard?

from the look of things, you aare perhaps in your 30s, maybe 34. And you are dreaming of princecharming when your mate are nursing their 5th child

If you are not something ypurself, you dont claim it. I know some guys are still digging you despite your pseudo face full of maake up to cover the dirts you are trying to hide

Jeferious:
This thread, under the surface, is sexist and man-hating in nature. I suppose the op has been unlucky in her ventures with the opposite sex. That said, clinging to a past of frustration and allowing it to control you is, to say the least, silly. Move on. Get stronger.

One more lesson learnt here is that women need men more than men need women. See how ladies are just so eager and desperate to meet their Prince Charming. Do I need to say that they are looking up to the opposite gender to give them a sense of validation, as well as quench that burning passion that is heating up the hole between their thighs? Men of worth, take note. If things were in a different order in this world, women would chase and woo men, not the other way round. We males can't match them when it comes to the emotions and fulfillment that sexual interaction provides. They crave attention much, and they love sex madly. Don't be fooled by their hypocrisy.

Having exposed the some of the subtle messages in the posts of these daughters of Eve, it's important to note that rather than create standards for others, it's better and more glorious being the standard.

This is the best i have read here

some of these pseudo-feminists wanting prince charming are by default ugly

PUSSYHOE:
Nigerian girls a.k.a whores prefer to be Baby mama to a rich guy than a housewife to an ambitious and struggling man.

What you hoes fail to understand is 99.99% of rich men of modern days don't want to get married but want Baby manufacturers,they are always ready to compensate with alimony to avoid living with you considering the zillions troubles ladies are naturally embedded with. If I were rich I wouldn't want to live with a problem. Only broke guys would want to live with that and you despise them.

without mincing words, you are right

HARDDON:
No, I am not a quality man, no not in her fairy tale pseudo-world.

But then, with you by my side, I am a completely happy man.
Even though I live in a thatched red mud hut,
Even though I only have one pair of boxers now, a noisy rechargeable standing fan that does not rotate, no tv, though I'm a dedicated smart worker.
Even though the only expensive thing I got is my laptop handed down to me from grandpa.
even though all i got now is nothing but ideas and promises and a burning desire to succeed,
With you, I am a completely happy man.

What I'm I even doing? I'm taken. Sorry.

DOuble DoN

Wow, seriously your making a lot of sense in all your post, hope other girls will listen to you.

Mizk:
Lowering your so called standards doesn't mean you should look down on a guy and call him weak because he doesnt meet your expectation, there's someone out there for the weak man, if marriage is important to you, just pray there's someone willing to overlook your high standards and marry you, i highly doubt there's such a man,That is how linda started yapping until she became a baby mama kwantinue.

would like to know your definition for a quality man. are there universal standards against which d quality of a man can be measured ? would need answers to these

Standards? Do standard exist in this part of the world.
True love breaks standard......Women who have had standard ends up being used and broken.
To those thinking you dont need a man in your life or otherwise...a man completes a woman and a woman completes a man.
Do not let people claiming feminism online mislead you....in the cold and lonlely nights, most of them cry to bed cos they have no man to call their own yet hide those pains under the heavy makeup and fake smile.
When you meet the one that compliments you....mehn...you will lose standards...
You dont necessarily have to lose yourself in the process of loving someone....infact, when you meet the right person for you, you tend to improve and be better not the other way round
The prayer is for us to meet our main man/woman.
Who feminism help.....Research indicates women tend to enjoy sex more than men

So, how do you think all those feminists dey oil their toto....or u think they are celibate...SMH...go ask LINDA

Na lie, dem dey do am and with random guys.....so, ask yourself, is that what you wanna settle for at the end.

I just hope i make small sense...as for me , my standard be say let there be a spark, we ignite then FIRE... Wey nothing fit quench.

funmisticqueen2:
i am like the sweetest fruit at the top of the tree, everyone wants me, and everyone will try to have a go at me, so i am approached by both high and low quality men andi owe it to myself and future generations to sift out the wheat from the chaff.

And right there my friend, is where most missed it.

sammirano:
And right there my friend, is where most missed it.

yea she missed it . she failed to realise that ; she may be the sweetest apple but not everyone likes apple some just prefer oranges

irumole1975:
Lol

and when I checked your picture, I was dissapointed at the outright. Your kind are talking aabout standard?

from the look of things, you aare perhaps in your 30s, maybe 34. And you are dreaming of princecharming when your mate are nursing their 5th child

If you are not something ypurself, you dont claim it. I know some guys are still digging you despite your pseudo face full of maake up to cover the dirts you are trying to hide

So it's paining you at age 35 , I have standards, abi?


Lol


I'm not surprised at your response. Hatred and jealousy is allowed.

But the good news is this : I'm less concerned of your opinion and I'm loving my life the way it is.

No way will I have 5 children. Im no rabbit. Lol

5 children indeed. You make me laugh!
Your poverty stricken mindset is incredible. Lol.
5 children! You are sick!

hmmmm

Tosyno4tt:
Standards? Do standard exist in this part of the world.
True love breaks standard......Women who have had standard ends up being used and broken.
To those thinking you dont need a man in your life or otherwise...a man completes a woman and a woman completes a man.
Do not let people claiming feminism online mislead you....in the cold and lonlely nights, most of them cry to bed cos they have no man to call their own yet hide those pains under the heavy makeup and fake smile.
When you meet the one that compliments you....mehn...you will lose standards...
You dont necessarily have to lose yourself in the process of loving someone....infact, when you meet the right person for you, you tend to improve and be better not the other way round
The prayer is for us to meet our main man/woman.
Who feminism help.....Research indicates women tend to enjoy sex more than men

So, how do you think all those feminists dey oil their toto....or u think they are celibate...SMH...go ask LINDA

Na lie, dem dey do am and with random guys.....so, ask yourself, is that what you wanna settle for at the end.

I just hope i make small sense...as for me , my standard be say let there be a spark, we ignite then FIRE... Wey nothing fit quench.

Standards are important. But it is also important to know when to stretch to accommodate.