revontuli:
I couldn't tell any of this to my close friends and family cause of shame.
Easier to tell complete strangers you know. I felt ashamed for allowing this to happen.
I got the divorce in 2017 but didn't have the mental energy to kick him out and dealing with the lawyers and such, until this past summer.
I shouldn't be ashamed, the shame isn't mine but it's quite embarrassing to tell family and most friends about such a thing.

He got committed into mental hospital against his will for violent and suicidal behavior before, I found that out much much later.

revontuli

revontuli:



He refused to get help. He started to have paranoid delusions and started making threats to my life. Was quite normal in the beginning, known as a good person who helped the weak and poor.
He got real nasty and aggressive if anyone suggested he should get mental help. I left when I felt unsafe and he threatened me with a gun.

SweetBuns:
wait, what?
A guy rapes a guy like himself? Not even a mature one, a 9 year old boy? Why are the authorities throwing a blind eye to all of this?
I wonder how the nigerian police would've reacted to this. I'm short of words.
How can he do such a thing? Green snake in a green grass.
I'm watching CBS Reality right now. They're investigating a murder. A real one.
He gone too far to be saved. You guys have a potential serial killer in your midst.

revontuli:
I have been away for a while cause I have been fighting legal battles to evict my ex who has been illegally squatting at my house months after divorce. It took forever to kick him out of there cause I'm overseas and it's The house is in Texas. I'm in Europe. The monster wasn't there when they evicted him.

wiseone28:
I'm here to read comments see how guys will behave cool and girls supporting her 100% cos she's a white woman...













If Only We Stood Up For Each Other In This Country,
Things Definetely Would've Been Better.








God punish poverty

Newboss:
That moment you realized that the cute babe you've been chatting with is a bored young man hiding behind a smartphone

murphyrichy:
@ op, is your Ex a Nigerian?

andrew444:


And we think our country Nigeria is the worst country just because of our mentality

I have always tell people American is worst than Nigeria because the crime rate over there is much the killings and so on ,Nigerians mentality that all country apart from Nigeria are better country because of light and good roads ,anyway what do I know .

revontuli:


At least Nigerian police arrests rapists and violent criminals. American police shoots unarmed black people and arrests innocent black people cause they are black. It's completely messed up in many places.

revontuli:


I try my best, I always have the fear in the back of my head he may try to stalk me, even with the ocean in-between. I feel nervous when I see any car following me, if they follow long enough I get spooked and make a diversion to lose them. It's always coincidence just people going the same direction, but if it's small rods and they take all the same turns, I get really spooked and divert to a well-lit crowded place or main road where I can shake them off in traffic.

Mcslize:


You can tell by her written English. She is a confirmed Yankee lady. Haba you no see the way she dey type? Isn't way different from how we type here?

SweetBuns:
Let's just hope he doesn't come back to trash it again

Vimcash:
Hmm... So, some men are wicked up to this level

But, @op, you must have done something wrong to him before he could come back with this rekless act.

revontuli:


That is a stupid and ignorant thing to say. He is a sick, evil monster.
Did that 9 year old kid he raped do something wrong then?
Did the woman he kidnapped, brutally tortured and raped also do something wrong?
Don't assume such stupid things about stuff you have no idea about.
He has been LIVING IN THAT TRASH for 2 years. Neighbors said he stopped taking trash out and was actually living in it.
He got into drugs and became a terrible monster.