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People who know her....know her husband, so this is not nice

Social media makes some people forget that there are some things that you can never take back....and once it spreads, you can't control it

Any money belonging to my wife was giving to her by me but when I'm broke and ask for money, she usually borrow me and remind's me when ever she noticed I have money and I pay back some times... even the money wey she borrow me, na still all of us go spend am. #man'slife

Women sha.

Na wife dey disgrace husband like this o.

And inside the money wey the husband borrow from her, 80% of am Na her body he go still pend am.

Chai. Mrs.BellØ

Women can never do anything for you for free but they all want freebies from men.

Almost everyone that made comments on the first page don’t know what Sarcasm is.. spits*

I saw that post on Twitter about 2 weeks ago. Its just something to laugh over. I think the lady is even trying to be funny with her husband. “Is borrow oh, its borrow am borrowing”

Y’all misogynist should chill Abeg, see as una carry people play play matter for head.


The misleading headline + the bunch of stone heads keyboard warriors made it look this way. Free your minds.

Don't start what you can't finish.

Be a mrs independent only for yourself.

It is a man's duty to provide.
Shame will drive a real man to pay back.

Go against it and the genesis of your marital woes will begin.

A simple 'I am broke' from the very beginning does the trick.

LuciferCatholic:
But if it was the other way around, it would be free.

The money will suddenly become "our money" & even if the man insists she will ask him "are you not a man?"


Feminists and entitlement mentality is 5 & 6.
Marry them and die a quick death.

Talking to them has been scientifically proven to actually reduce lifespan.

Useless creatures.



*spits

Chauvinistic preek!!!

IamD18:
Selfish and self-centered creatures.

Why should he pay you back when he'll end up using the money for the betterment of the family.

For a man to earn his respect money borrowed must be paid back!

flyca:
Then he shouldn't ask for a loan! He should ask for money that he will use for the “betterment of the family”, so that the wife knows it's family money that she is not getting it back.

That said, why do you assume that the man will use it for betterment of the family? Haven't you seen men who borrow from their wives to make their sidechicks happy? Or man who borrow from their wiges to buy drinks for the boys?

You are always very shallow!

Please post more comments on nairaland , you took the words off my fingers .

What kind of crap is this? Can't people just keep things confidential?
It doesn't seem like they're having bad issues. So why on earth would she post this for the knowledge of the public? What she has done is actually more serious than it looks. I hope it doesn't go a long way to jeopardizing their Union. People just want to trend for nonsense. Smh!

funny.

So it's 10k she is using to shine on her husband.
May God not let me make noise over something as negligible as even 100k.

IamD18:
Selfish and self-centered creatures.

Why should he pay you back when he'll end up using the money for the betterment of the family.

Dats how Nigeria ladies are trained. De learnt it from there mum. So it's not sumting one can really put a total stop to. #ur re naturally self centered. # my money is my money, ur money is our money

Diso60090:
Na herself she dey disgrace not me not her husband and finally you are telling the truth she is disgracing buhari and he boys

Lol.. She's a confused woman

CAPSLOCKED:
MEN THAT PERMIT WOMEN TO LIVE WITH THEM WITH THIS NONSENSE MENTALITY IRRITATES ME.

Some guys put themselves in these ridiculous situations by insisting on bearing all the financial responsibilities even when dating this carries on into marriage so when he is struggling and requires help of course it is going to be blown out of proportion and plastered all over social media. He allowed this to happen.

Jayhazard:
What kind of crap is this? Can't people just keep things confidential?
It doesn't seem like they're having bad issues. So why on earth would she post this for the knowledge of the public? What she has done is actually more serious than it looks. I hope it doesn't go a long way to jeopardizing their Union. People just want to trend for nonsense. Smh!

Of course it is going to have implications on their relationship someone will show this to him. This is what happens when you marry grown women who still behave like children.

flyca:
Then he shouldn't ask for a loan! He should ask for money that he will use for the “betterment of the family”, so that the wife knows it's family money that she is not getting it back.

That said, why do you assume that the man will use it for betterment of the family? Haven't you seen men who borrow from their wives to make their sidechicks happy? Or man who borrow from their wives to buy drinks for the boys?

You are always very shallow!

This post is sentimental and stupid honestly. Why will he pay back though?

If it was the other way round, I'm sure you will spew trash on the man for not giving his wife a common 10k for free. After all he is the man.

On the bolded, Why must it be to make a side chick happy? Haven't you seen women that collects from their husbands/ boyfriends to feed their secret lovers? It's everywhere you go.

You women should learn how to condemn evil when it comes from your gender. Not always making excuses Upandan. This is why it's easy to generalize everything about women.. Because y'all act alike

LuciferCatholic:
But if it was the other way around, it would be free.

The money will suddenly become "our money" & even if the man insists she will ask him "are you not a man?"


Feminists and entitlement mentality is 5 & 6.
Marry them and die a quick death.

Talking to them has been scientifically proven to actually reduce lifespan.

Useless creatures.



*spits

lol I like feminists there's nothing sweeter than f*cking a feminists you let her rant all she likes on social media then she kneels down to collect the pr*ck

Emaprince:
This post is sentimental and stupid honestly. Why will he pay back though?

If it was the other way round, I'm sure you will spew trash on the man for not giving his wife a common 10k for free. After all he is the man.

On the bolder, Why must it be to make a side chick happy? Haven't you seen women that collects from their husbands/ boyfriends to feed their secret lovers? It's everywhere you go.

You women should know condemn evil when it comes from your gender. Not always making excuses Upandan. This is why it's easy to generalize everything about women.. Because y'all act alike

You write so well but you lack content a.k.a sense!

Why must everything done by a woman be condemed? Can't you see from her post that she is just a woman that has a good relationship with her hubby. Look at her smilies. She is just having fun!

My father documented every penny he gave us while in the university. So? Did anybody hang him? My mum on the other hand gives you her last kobo and forgets about it the next minute.
I'm sure you will still find a way to blame her.

Judge women all you want, you and your kind never end up with a good one by anyways.

flyca:
You write so well but you lack content a.k.a sense!

Why must everything done by a woman be condemed? Can't you see from her post that she is just a woman that has a good relationship with her hubby. Look at her smilies. She is just having fun!

My father documented every penny he gave us while in the university. So? Did anybody hang him? My mum on the other hand gives you her last kobo and forgets about it the next minute.
I'm sure you will still find a way to blame her.

Judge women all you want, you and your kind never end up with a good one by anyways.

Your father might have documented whatever, but he never told the whole world just like you women does.

As for ending with a better woman, LMAO. Is there even a better one at all? Women changes a lot because they are easily influenced by friends and the environment they find themselves in at any given time.

We don give up on women already. LMAO. Na by grace of God one can see a good one today.

Emaprince:
Your father might have documented whatever, but he never told the whole world just like you women does.

As for ending with a better woman, LMAO. Is there even a better one at all? Women changes a lot because they are easily influenced by friends and the environment they find themselves in at any given time.

We don give up on women already. LMAO. Na by grace of God one can see a good one today.

Do you know my father? No.
Okay let me tell you, he was....

Now lemme ask you - do you know this woman? How did she broadcast to the whole world? Can you point her out in the community?

You just like to make noise!
Again, it is evident from your attitude that you likely will not end up with a good woman.
So it's good you have given up on time.

I know uncountable number of men who still acknowledge that they would not have made it thus far without their women. Strong men still have women as their bedrock! Good marriage relationships are not scarce, but only men who know how to get around their women earn it.

The others with egos are as high as the heavens will not smell it. So they can only sit around and whine!

Cheers!

Emaprince:
Your father might have documented whatever, but he never told the whole world just like you women does.

As for ending with a better woman, LMAO. Is there even a better one at all? Women changes a lot because they are easily influenced by friends and the environment they find themselves in at any given time.

We don give up on women already. LMAO. Na by grace of God one can see a good one today.

Before I forget. There is this my classmate from secondary school. Her name is Obiamaka. She is my friend on Facebook, but she is not the type that posts a lot.

Her husband will always post and tag her, that's how I see it. The man is always gushing about her. Today vacation, tomorrow Dubai and all that. Always telling the world that he is lucky to have meet and married Obiamaka. They've been married for about 6 years now. Lol

His birthday post to her was: No wonder I knelt down to beg you for your number!

Now do you think Obiamaka is not a woman? Or she is the only good woman in the world? Or she doesn't have her flaws?

The difference is that they have both learned how to get around each other! That's the reason for the excess love flowing in their relationship.

You know why I have said that you and people like you will likely not end up with a good woman? Because you have seen all women as the same (which maybe true), but you will not bend down and work for and with your own woman.

Congratulations on your choice!

I bought the house we live in, i bought the car you are driving, pay our kids school fees, pay for the cable tv,give u money for personal shopping regularly give you enough money to stock the kitchen monthly, ur friend wants to wed you come and meet me for aso ebi, pay for our vacation at least 2wice in a year you borrow me 50k you not only remind me but also put up an attitude now wat do you call that

He won't pay back because you are borrowing (taking) from him, not lending (giving) him.

Madnesd

Nice though but coming to the social media is totally wrong

yeye woman.u for marry urself or be a single mother. why is it that women have such mentality my husband money is our money why my money is not my husband money. They are so stingy. if u borrow from them u must pay back even if na 10naira u collect from them but if they borrow from you forget.Either they say are you not a man or just 50k na u they ask.me about.they will never Changed let just take it like that as their behavior. some wife ho even tell you are u not fucking my pussy why will I pay back.na wa for women.truth been told.kpam.no long thing.

IamD18:
Selfish and self-centered creatures.

Why should he pay you back when he'll end up using the money for the betterment of the family.

You see your mentality

IamD18:
Selfish and self-centered creatures.

Why should he pay you back when he'll end up using the money for the betterment of the family.

Have you not heard "what's yours is theirs and what's theirs is theirs"?.

IamD18:
Selfish and self-centered creatures.

Why should he pay you back when he'll end up using the money for the betterment of the family.

I consider this statement myopic. If the husband indeed collected funds on borrowing terms, he should just pay back. It is part of financial discipline or earning trust.

IamD18:
Selfish and self-centered creatures.

Why should he pay you back when he'll end up using the money for the betterment of the family.

I consider this statement myopic. If the husband indeed collected funds on borrowing terms, he should just pay back. It is part of financial discipline or earning trust.

Some Good women actually have good thoughts or projects to execute in the interest of the family. Persistent borrowing like this without paying is discouraging. Such women will tend to keep their progress to themselves due to the knowledge of their husband's behaviour so as to keep things going.

Some succeed in growing big bussiness or build houses without the husband's knowledge.

To think that some men will spend such borrowed fund on women or alcohol makes it more sickening.