candygosh: I feel for her men...evvvvery night! U gotta be kidding

toofine765: Hi nairalanders, my bis sis who has been married for eight years that confided in me that the husband usually makes love to her every night, that he never beleives that she can be tired. She works and has little kids she is taking care of. She say when ever she compains of tiredness, he gets very angry and leaves the house only to come back after midnight. I could not bring myself to tell her he definatly goes out to sleep with other ladies. My only advice to her was for her to give it to him any time he likes it but I have been veryu unhappy since then. Why will he not understand with her when she is tired? Why does it only have to be about him only? He is just selfish and it makes me sad. She does not want a divorce either because of her children. But I still feel this action of his can still lead to her death one day. Please house members, what do you think is the best advice for her because she is so dear to my heart.

honey86: so the woman should die because she wants to please the husband Abi.@op, I think your sister should have a conversation with her husband, let him see things from her perspective.

honey86: so the woman should die because she wants to please the husband Abi.@op, I think your sister should have a conversation with her husband, let him see things from her perspective.

MrBible: If this story is true, then my advice is that the man should sleep in a separate room whenever the wife is tired, being on the same bed every night with his wife looks too irresistible for this man.

coogar: if the same room is irresistible then sleeping under the same roof would be irresistible.

MrBible: If this story is true, then my advice is that the man should sleep in a separate room whenever the wife is tired, being on the same bed every night with his wife looks too irresistible for this man.

jidegirl12:

Mr Bible , this your advice, e get as e be oh, drift them apart when you can easily cut the man some chores and tucker him out?

toofine765: Hi nairalanders, my bis sis who has been married for eight years that confided in me that the husband usually makes love to her every night, that he never beleives that she can be tired. She works and has little kids she is taking care of. She say when ever she compains of tiredness, he gets very angry and leaves the house only to come back after midnight. I could not bring myself to tell her he definatly goes out to sleep with other ladies. My only advice to her was for her to give it to him any time he likes it but I have been veryu unhappy since then. Why will he not understand with her when she is tired? Why does it only have to be about him only? He is just selfish and it makes me sad. She does not want a divorce either because of her children. But I still feel this action of his can still lead to her death one day. Please house members, what do you think is the best advice for her because she is so dear to my heart.

All the bolded parts in ur post proves u are more bothered than this your sister .

I'm still trying hard to understand why this is so, or is it u that is being drilled every night

Pls take a chill pill and stop being ridiculous, your sister has been taking this thing(daily) in that last 8years(2920 days) and she never complained, why then do u think this is a genuine complain

I strongly feel ur sis is indirectly trying to tell u how interesting marriage is, but u are just too naïve to understand.

Please hurry up and get married, else u'll never understand the message ur sis is passing .

*ONUKU*

MrBible:

We have not yet heard this man's side of the story. If the man does not help with the kids and some chores then he needs to change, but if the man is already doing this then sleeping in separate rooms might do the trick when the woman is tired.

coogar:

your sister should lie she's got a self-infected venereal disease. that should buy her some 2-3 weeks of needed rest.

jidegirl12:

A genuinely tired man will not do IT everyday, he's too free =Bottom line.

Michaeljones36:


Nope...sorry. If we were married, you would never sleep with undergarments cuz it would be unnecessary.

This man has three options:

1. Marry anoda wife, or two, or three, to satisfy his urges.
2. His wife should agree to quiet his urges in *other ways*. Like with her mouth, or hands.
3. She can chop off his manhood and feed it to him while he is sleeping for revenge.

Obvious question: Does he still want to bed her when it is that time of the month?

nacaz4real: Lmao, that's not wrong sha, especially for very young couples. Maybe he has a very high sex drive. That she should have noticed during their courtship and probably loved him for it: except she got married for other reasons. But I have good new and bad news. The bad news is- You should have to give it to him anyway( or else you have to deal with STDs he contracts outside) . The good news is- A man's sexual drive decreases naturally as he gets older as a result of a drop in the male hormone called testoserone; so he wouldn't be bugging you when he is over 50 L L