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I knw age is nothing but a numb bt not for those eggs....I personally lowkey admire Mercy Aigbe, Omotola, Iyabo Ojo & others who just turned 40 but already blessed wit teen seeds....I know they had their own trials too by starting so early, bt dear lil ones, you can meet us halfway"

frenzyduchess:
And that is where you people miss it, who said it was a supremacy tussle?.May I ask who and who set those cultural patterns ,what gender makeup ?,maybe then we can begin to know the root of the issue.

I can't help what you perceive.You cited some tribes and assumed I had no idea of what I was talking about and was plucking ideas from the Internet,so now who has the misguided assumption?. The gender equality bill is for Nigerian women not certain tribes ,so I dont even see the need why because certain tribes are not gender biased others don't get the right to be liberated.

And by the way you sound educated,don't you think its rather stereotyped to call me a feminist?why does a person have to be tagged a name just because the choose to have a conversation on a topic?.

Honestly,you really didnt have to start shaking your head,what For?Its a conversation,is this how you go around shaking your head when having conversations? Weird shalom to you too bro.

Joromi12:
Shallow backward woman

frenzyduchess:
And that is where you people miss it, who said it was a supremacy tussle?.May I ask who and who set those cultural patterns ,what gender makeup ?,maybe then we can begin to know the root of the issue.

I can't help what you perceive.You cited some tribes and assumed I had no idea of what I was talking about and was plucking ideas from the Internet,so now who has the misguided assumption?. The gender equality bill is for Nigerian women not certain tribes ,so I dont even see the need why because certain tribes are not gender biased others don't get the right to be liberated.

And by the way you sound educated,don't you think its rather stereotyped to call me a feminist?why does a person have to be tagged a name just because the choose to have a conversation on a topic?.

Honestly,you really didnt have to start shaking your head,what For?Its a conversation,is this how you go around shaking your head when having conversations? Weird shalom to you too bro.

Heartbender:
You feminists live by misguided assumptions. I listed a lot of things to show you that how people are treated depended largely on cultural patterns and not necessarily a gender supremacy tussle, you picked the one you thought best for your argument, presumed what that choice should be and lashed out. Then confirmed that your environment is what influences your approach to life. Smh. When you are willing to learn or come up with better cosmology about life, I'm always data-ready. Shalom

frenzyduchess:
y'all have it wrong about what feminism stands for or maybe the people that interpreted it did a terrible job .

Grupo:
Brother, find better thing to do with your time and leave those ones.

Heartbender:
First, how can a gender equality bill be for (Nigerian) women? Is gender equality not supposed to be for all gender (male and female)?
Second, you called yourself a feminist by collusion. That is the crux of the matter.
Third, why can't feminism frown at favourable matriarchal bestowments on women? Why are they all out to squeeze men of their testicle and make it a tug of war?

ebukaka12:
Please, give me a brief of what "Feminism" stands for, I kinda not understand it fully myself, thanks.

flyca:
And I thought education and exposure saves from this depth

Some things should just be left in the head. SMH

If her husband reads this (and he will), she has given him the key to her entire existence. From now until eternity. I hope and hope the man is a very good person to handle such glorification, and not turn back to hurt her with it.

All is well.

KevMitnick:
Your ideology is seriously flawed. She is a fulfilled woman, her life didn't revolve around her husband and still doesn't, she still has career goals, she is just happy to be married. Do you have to bring your negativity to this again? Smh

pyyxxaro:
Sai PDP

Sai APC


Let the best rigger win

flyca:
And I thought education and exposure saves from this depth

Some things should just be left in the head. SMH

If her husband reads this (and he will), she has given him the key to her entire existence. From now until eternity. I hope and hope the man is a very good person to handle such glorification, and not turn back to hurt her with it.

All is well.

Priscy01:
Nigerian filmmaker, Ada Slim has described marriage as an 'achievement' as she got married to the most 'perfect man on earth'.


According to the US based actress who will clock 34 later this year, 'as Alexx Ekubo say make we dey talk our truth in 2019, oya here is my most profound and vulnerable public post ever. 2018 I got married in full to the most perfect man on earth'.


See her full post below;

I officially welcome you to 2019! Year of fulfillment for us all. I thank God for the gift of life & health in 2018, my BEST yr so far. As Alexx Ekubo say make we dey talk our truth in 2019, oya here is my most profound & vulnerable public post ever. 2018 I got married in full to the most perfect man on earth! Wow that’s a great “ACHIEVEMENT”


YES marriage is an achievement for me!


I set my alarm clock for yr 28th bt God’s time is the best, desperately waiting for extra 5yrs was somewhat overwhelming. Not 100% fulfilled but I still feel lucky & blessed; Better half-caste like me ....Born American citizen & raised full Naija style; built my own house in my 20’s; still hussling hard for greater career goals in my 30’s; yet to buy my dream car before 40; taking care of a couple of orphans & less privileged kids; made blockbuster movies with the topmost A-Lists in Nollywoood; bagged my Masters degree from the best University in Newyork; was abt to grab my PHD in same Uni but the “Perfect Husband Degree” found me instead. I was tired of being single.


Nevertheless, a private jet & a home in Ikoyi won’t hurt, bt 1st, the kids to rock them with & a father figure for them, as an authentic traditional, conservative,religious, native Nwafo Igbo...ohh my ovaries...can’t wait to have my 1st biological child with my 1st Love in my 1st marriage.


For all my mature single Divas praying God for same “Achievement” 2019 is your year!.


For my under 20s who set their alarm clock for 28/29, pls move it backwards oh....don’t repeat my mistake cos....husband is not like money in the bank that you withdraw at Will, once you clock 30+ odikwa very very risky ooh, those eggs don’t wait for no slayer; consider dating time, wedding planning time, pregnancy time....you might be fast approaching 35 b4 having ur 1st child....May 2019 I will be 34, U see...hopefully, my 1st child b4 I’m 35


I knw age is nothing but a numb bt not for those eggs....I personally lowkey admire Mercy Aigbe, Omotola, Iyabo Ojo & others who just turned 40 but already blessed wit teen seeds....I know they had their own trials too by starting so early, bt dear lil ones, you can meet us halfway"

http://igberetvnews.com/515143/marriage-achievement-nigerian-filmmaker-ada-slim/

Xisnin:
It is deliberate propaganda to malign all feminist and fool the uninformed.
It has gotten so bad that some will condemn the entire police for a male colleague collecting
bribe, but when it is a female, they blame feminist.

When two women quarrel, they also blame "feminists".

frenzyduchess:
we can't afford to ignore, people are being mislead to think feminism is a terrible thing without even knowing what it stands for.Alot of people take what they read here with seriousness, we can't afford to pass out misguided info out there.

Davesaves:
may be u should also educate some of ur fellow ladies.. they don't seem to understand what it really is. some homes has broken cos of this issue of feminism

Seahawk:
It’s her life. It doesn’t apply to everyone. Nor should it.

Congratulations to her.

She should focus on celebrating and enjoying her achievement rather than give unsolicited advice to others.

And for the mor0ns (you already know yourselves) that will try to use her words to shame other women, you already know you’re sstupid.
Don’t make us have to tell you again what you already know.

frenzyduchess:
True, some women think its a means to "squeeze their husbands by the testicles". It has turned into a men bashing movement trying to berate the importance and relevance of one gender to the other when it should be a means to encourage healthy dialogue and reaching compromise to foster better relationship between both gender. Hopefully this will change when we pass the authentic information instead of misguided information.

Davesaves:
ur head get better oil my sister.. am really impressed..

Daeylar:
Should I say Evil feminist?


Lool, that's how some women behave when they get married. I came here ready to applaud her that she has the right to see marriage as an achievement if she so pleases, but no,
She had to come and spoil it with her advice no one asked for.

frenzyduchess:
thanks ,enjoy the rest of your day.

weyreypey:
Waiting for the feminist crew...

frenzyduchess:
thanks ,enjoy the rest of your day.