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Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by KingThreatzz: 4:39pm On Jan 11, 2019
In the gangster world, being gay is being less manly. Being weak. He must have messed up and being an easy target
Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by messi042: 4:43pm On Jan 11, 2019
see kelvin fret see bobrisky, see bobrisky see afonja, yoruba people self!

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Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by Nobody: 5:06pm On Jan 11, 2019
Madcow:
Everyone celebrating this savage killing is propably gay and in denial

When people are faced with situations in life that cause anxiety, they often react to them with certain subconscious defense mechanisms. These psychoanalytical mechanisms include familiar tactics such as memory repression, denial and regression. But the one I find most intriguing in this case is called reaction formation.

Reaction formation is defined as a psychological defense mechanism by which a repressed impulse is expressed in an opposite or contrasting behavior. In other words, if something in your life is making you feel anxious, you may react to that thing excessively harshly in order to deal with that internal anxiety.

In terms of the anti-gay movement, this means that if a person has homosexual feelings within his or her self, which they haven’t accepted, he or she will cope with the anxiety by excessively acting out against homosexuality. This mechanism has made itself known time and time again within the anti-gay realm. Several outspoken anti-gay politicians, religious figures and counselors have either been found to exhibit homosexual tendencies or have actually come out themselves.

One prominent example is of U.S. Sen. Larry Craig. Craig’s a vehemently anti-gay politician who voted in favor of many discriminatory laws, which actually made society more dangerous for LGBT individuals, such as laws that disallow penalties for hate crimes against them. In 2007, Craig was arrested for engaging in inappropriate conduct and attempting to initiate sex with a policeman in a bathroom stall. Craig denies being gay to this day and although he pleaded guilty in court he continues to say that he regrets pleading guilty in the case.


Some more optimistic examples of former anti-gay leaders coming out include Kathryn Lehman and Ken Mehlman. Lehman, a Republican staffer who worked against legalization of same-sex marriage and actually helped to write the Defense of Marriage Act, has since come out as a lesbian and is currently a GOP lobbyist attempting to repeal that same law.

Mehlman once held the position of an operative under George W. Bush, and helped orchestrate a platform, which included strong opposition to same-sex marriage. Since then, he has come out as gay and worked to repeal the military’s Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy He also lobbied to legalize same-sex marriage in a number of states. In an interview, Mehlman commented on coming out publicly, “A big part of one’s brain that used to worry about this issue has now been freed to worry about things that are much more productive.”

Reaction formation is a common defense mechanism within the anti-gay population and is likely to be a huge cause for the continuation of conflict regarding gay prejudice and discrimination. The reasoning behind gay prejudice is still a mystery to me, but as we progress toward a more egalitarian and just society, I will continue to attempt to shed light on the dark places that spawn the hate we see today.

Jessie Gray is a senior Advertising and Public Relations major. Reach her at opinion@dailynebraskan.com or follow her on Twitter @itsjessie.


[b]It's gay people that make straight people discriminate against them.. do u know how many sexuality exist in the world.??
There are people fvcking animals, trees, inanimate objects, heck,!! People even fvck themselves. Nobody cares what u do in ur room
But the sexual revolution that started in the 90s all of a sudden made people feel it's okay not to keep sexual matters private..... Nobody cares what u are fvcking or what u allow fvck you...
but they started to disturb the rest of the other sexuality by making their sexual preference a "thing"....they called for rights to marry, rights to adopt children that they can't even have based in their sexual preference.....if that isn't annoying, I don't know what is....
The truth is sex has always been private..the reason straight people sex became formal and legal was becos of relegion, babies and a so called "weaker " sex was involved....women were being cheated regularly In marriage.
so that men would be accountable for bigamy and pay for treating women rashly in marriages and also for the children that is produced to be formally registered under those that biologically made them, marriage became institutionalized.
The bad part is, they can't even be gay in peace without looking stupid about it....u see most of them behaving like women making straight peoole's notion that they a confused people correct....
It's one thing to want a man to stick his rod in ur assss, it's another thing to be behaving like a woman to get the rod....ain't u just confirming that sex originally should be btw men and women.... enlighten me cos I don't get why gay people cant just keep their shiiit private like everyone else and stop playing victim[/b]

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Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by Karleb(m): 5:08pm On Jan 11, 2019
Gay or no gay, murder is bad!
Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by hysteriabox(m): 5:22pm On Jan 11, 2019
Rextizzle:
Disgusting pictures! Let him rot in hell

Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by 0nyedikachukwu: 5:25pm On Jan 11, 2019
This one is Bobrisky's friend.
Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by Ayoslimzy(m): 5:41pm On Jan 11, 2019
Lol naija pple
What if his gay lifestyle has no relation with is murder
You guys are making it seems like he was killed for being gay

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Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by Tejiriseth(m): 6:08pm On Jan 11, 2019
the world should be weary of people like you. . . .
Ivimilly:
Whoever shot him did the world a favor Spits.
Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by Tejiriseth(m): 6:10pm On Jan 11, 2019
What do You expect from Shallow Minded Religious Bigots.
.
Somebody came out and Peeps reaction was to kill him..
Wow..
So anybody that doesnt Live by the same Rules and principles Isnt worth Living abi.?
.
And I thought Africans Were Bad

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Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by IprintMONEY: 6:24pm On Jan 11, 2019
bonrisky u are next o

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Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by allthingsgood: 6:24pm On Jan 11, 2019
Rextizzle:
Disgusting pictures! Let him rot in hell

U are not making heaven either. So he's waiting for u there
Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by Omudia11: 6:29pm On Jan 11, 2019
All you lgbt sympathizers should stop misusing the word "phobia". A phobia is an irrational fear. We do not fear homosexuals. We simply hate their acts.
The difference is like night and day.
Buffalowings3:
NairaLand, a Mass gathering of never do well homophobes.
Let me go see him on YouTube.

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Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by Judybash93(m): 6:31pm On Jan 11, 2019
Albert0011:
Mumu guy...God created Adam and Eve to live together not Adam and Johnson,rest in pieces and Hades will welcome u with open hands and send u to tartarus.

Well, this is only just one version of the creation story. Have you heard the one from the Hindus?
Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by Judybash93(m): 6:32pm On Jan 11, 2019
allthingsgood:


U are not making heaven either. So he's waiting for u there
.

I know right
Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by Omudia11: 6:33pm On Jan 11, 2019
Or simply just wanted to kill his spirit too.
Randy100:
He was shot 8 times . The guy that shot him didn't want to hear that he later survived.

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Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by fowlyansh181(m): 6:40pm On Jan 11, 2019
I am not gay and I hate gays with a passion but allow people do whatever they wanna do as long as they don’t force it down our throat ..
Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by Albert0011(m): 6:50pm On Jan 11, 2019
Judybash93:


Well, this is only just one version of the creation story. Have you heard the one from the Hindus?
Nope..i would like to hear it.
Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by mechanics(m): 7:01pm On Jan 11, 2019
hmmmmm.
Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by Footstradamus(m): 7:07pm On Jan 11, 2019
You don't simply shoot someone because he elected to have things up his ass

His ass His life...Move on with yours and let him be
Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by Bestboy11513(m): 7:17pm On Jan 11, 2019
DefSimple:
Hate the act not the person.



The person caused the act.
Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by Charlieluvboy(m): 8:10pm On Jan 11, 2019
Rextizzle:
Disgusting pictures! Let him rot in hell
you wicked oh
Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by omoiyalayi(m): 8:17pm On Jan 11, 2019
Albert0011:
Mumu guy...God created Adam and Eve to live together not Adam and Johnson,rest in pieces and Hades will welcome u with open hands and send u to tartarus.

U tink because u sin differently u re beta dan him

#Repent
Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by FAMILYTIES2018: 8:21pm On Jan 11, 2019
He forgot the rule : RATHER SAFE THAN SORRY
By the way
Are you a fan of Dwayne Johnson?
.
.
.
.
.
50 Solid Facts Every Fan Should Know About Dwayne Johnson
https://bezvibes.win/2019/01/11/50-solid-facts-every-fan-should-know-about-dwayne-johnson/
Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by abbeyty(m): 8:28pm On Jan 11, 2019
Amakababe:
shutup bastard homo

I am sure that is Alimi the president of Nigeria gay association
Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by sayisayi(m): 8:51pm On Jan 11, 2019
There are some naija homophobes who go chop wipe mouth finish if he was alive
Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by Amakababe(f): 9:13pm On Jan 11, 2019
sayisayi:
There are some naija homophobes who go chop wipe mouth finish if he was alive
chop what? A fellow guys butt?

You need help guy

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Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by chinedumoooo: 10:32pm On Jan 11, 2019
He deserves to die.

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Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by HallaDaTruth: 10:46pm On Jan 11, 2019
Madcow:
Everyone celebrating this savage killing is propably gay and in denial

When people are faced with situations in life that cause anxiety, they often react to them with certain subconscious defense mechanisms. These psychoanalytical mechanisms include familiar tactics such as memory repression, denial and regression. But the one I find most intriguing in this case is called reaction formation.

Reaction formation is defined as a psychological defense mechanism by which a repressed impulse is expressed in an opposite or contrasting behavior. In other words, if something in your life is making you feel anxious, you may react to that thing excessively harshly in order to deal with that internal anxiety.

In terms of the anti-gay movement, this means that if a person has homosexual feelings within his or her self, which they haven’t accepted, he or she will cope with the anxiety by excessively acting out against homosexuality. This mechanism has made itself known time and time again within the anti-gay realm. Several outspoken anti-gay politicians, religious figures and counselors have either been found to exhibit homosexual tendencies or have actually come out themselves.

One prominent example is of U.S. Sen. Larry Craig. Craig’s a vehemently anti-gay politician who voted in favor of many discriminatory laws, which actually made society more dangerous for LGBT individuals, such as laws that disallow penalties for hate crimes against them. In 2007, Craig was arrested for engaging in inappropriate conduct and attempting to initiate sex with a policeman in a bathroom stall. Craig denies being gay to this day and although he pleaded guilty in court he continues to say that he regrets pleading guilty in the case.


Some more optimistic examples of former anti-gay leaders coming out include Kathryn Lehman and Ken Mehlman. Lehman, a Republican staffer who worked against legalization of same-sex marriage and actually helped to write the Defense of Marriage Act, has since come out as a lesbian and is currently a GOP lobbyist attempting to repeal that same law.

Mehlman once held the position of an operative under George W. Bush, and helped orchestrate a platform, which included strong opposition to same-sex marriage. Since then, he has come out as gay and worked to repeal the military’s Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy He also lobbied to legalize same-sex marriage in a number of states. In an interview, Mehlman commented on coming out publicly, “A big part of one’s brain that used to worry about this issue has now been freed to worry about things that are much more productive.”

Reaction formation is a common defense mechanism within the anti-gay population and is likely to be a huge cause for the continuation of conflict regarding gay prejudice and discrimination. The reasoning behind gay prejudice is still a mystery to me, but as we progress toward a more egalitarian and just society, I will continue to attempt to shed light on the dark places that spawn the hate we see today.

Jessie Gray is a senior Advertising and Public Relations major. Reach her at opinion@dailynebraskan.com or follow her on Twitter @itsjessie.

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Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by HallaDaTruth: 10:48pm On Jan 11, 2019
IprintMONEY:
bonrisky u are next o
Yes yes yes yes
Re: Kevin Fret, Gay Shot Dead In Puerto Rico by kponkedenge(m): 12:04am On Jan 12, 2019
Is strange that a man's deek won't stand for a woman, but it will stand for a man pretending to be a woman.

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