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Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by macho44(m): 10:50am On Jan 18, 2019
oochi123:
..I think I need a shoulder to cry on.. Lol
My shoulders are big and broad enough, let em tears flow freely, if care is not taken I will join you in Crying �
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by husbandsnatcha(f): 11:10am On Jan 18, 2019
Rubbiish:
There is more to it than inheritence...a female child can never take the place of a male child in a family...dey have different role to play.
U be igbo ba, We dnt pratice dat here in nigerdelta

I av a young bro who is stil below 20 so he has a land which i help him keep, because of his feeble age.

I wl build a mini construction firm in it, frm next year!
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by Rubbiish(m): 11:31am On Jan 18, 2019
husbandsnatcha:
U be igbo ba, We dnt pratice dat here in nigerdelta

I av a young bro who is stil below 20 so he has a land which i help him keep, because of his feeble age.

I wl build a mini construction firm in it, frm next year!
@bold are u an architect or civil engineer?
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by husbandsnatcha(f): 12:43pm On Jan 18, 2019
Rubbiish:
@bold are u an architect or civil engineer?
dats wat i studied in unizik ,but i av been dreaming of opening my firm one day,

But is no longer a dream but reality
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by chris31(m): 12:47pm On Jan 18, 2019
jesmond3945:
yes my mum is fully aware and very much engaged in her father's family maybe when your daugther grows up and get married she would abandon you to die and rot away. If you want a daughter like that then say amen to my prayer.
Its not about financial aspect of it
In a family the presence of a man scare away many things go & ask questions before arguing with me
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by chris31(m): 12:52pm On Jan 18, 2019
Rozaytee:
how has ur lineage.. Helped ur ministry Berra have sense... Mtcheeew
Lol wetin u no kwanu
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by Rubbiish(m): 1:04pm On Jan 18, 2019
husbandsnatcha:
dats wat i studied in unizik ,but i av been dreaming of opening my firm one day,

But is no longer a dream but reality
Wow!
Impressive!
Civil engr or architect?
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by husbandsnatcha(f): 1:26pm On Jan 18, 2019
Rubbiish:
Wow!
Impressive!
Civil engr or architect?
Civil engr n i did maths in poly b4 dat
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by jesmond3945: 2:07pm On Jan 18, 2019
chris31:
Its not about financial aspect of it
In a family the presence of a man scare away many things go & ask questions before arguing with me
lol how many people have you scared away. I am still sorry but you are still stuck in archaic beliefs that doesnt hold water in a developed world. Dont let people outside see us as zoo animals. I bet you that okonjo, dora and even aisha have scared more people than your whole village combined.
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by Nobody: 2:14pm On Jan 18, 2019
flejnr2:
I have 4 girls and am proud of them all
May God bless them for you in Jesus' name.
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by princfred(m): 2:43pm On Jan 18, 2019
Westaslave2:
long time
Yes. Free play time is becoming harder to find this days..where have you been?
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by Rubbiish(m): 3:10pm On Jan 18, 2019
husbandsnatcha:
Civil engr n i did maths in poly b4 dat
That's nice....& u fine too...wink
I'm an architect
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by husbandsnatcha(f): 3:16pm On Jan 18, 2019
Rubbiish:
That's nice....& u fine too...wink
I'm an architect
oh arch rubbiish lolz

Dnt mind me cheesy
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by Rubbiish(m): 3:31pm On Jan 18, 2019
husbandsnatcha:
oh arch rubbiish lolz
Dnt mind me cheesy
cheesy
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by Westaslave2(f): 4:57pm On Jan 18, 2019
princfred:
Yes. Free play time is becoming harder to find this days..where have you been?
am in my house ,enjoying my family .

D lord is so sweet on me!
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by Nobody: 12:20am On Jan 19, 2019
africans can behave as if they arent africans!! Na lie him talk?
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by Ugosample(m): 1:15am On Jan 19, 2019
obingo25:
africans can behave as if they arent africans!! Na lie him talk?
big lie.

he has the right to his preference tho

And it's not all parts of Africa that believe in this

A good number of ethnic groups don't
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by Mizwisdom(f): 9:33am On Jan 19, 2019
chris31:
Its not about financial aspect of it
In a family the presence of a man scare away many things go & ask questions before arguing with me
Your mind and your culture. Try to understand that other people perceive things differently due to their own cultures that give bigger roles to women than yours. For example in my own village women own lands and build houses, it's accepted, do you see that our cultures are different and so people accustomed to it will think differently?
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by princfred(m): 3:46pm On Jan 19, 2019
Westaslave2:
am in my house ,enjoying my family .

D lord is so sweet on me!
Thats sweet. Keep it up.
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by NoToPile: 4:31pm On Jan 19, 2019
Its a cultural thing, where I come from everyone is equal,male or female can represent the family, Nobody will persecute you for having females only, no wicked elder can come and chase the wife away after the death of the spouse simply because she has no male child, first born is first born theres really nothing like first son brouhaha where the son will claim all ahead of his elder sisters simply because he's male.

As a female you can inherit from your father, your mother and your husband in my place even build your own personal house its allowed.

Until this ' IF you never born boy you never start' mentality is wiped off, statements like this would spring up every now and then
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by GoodFaith: 9:06pm On Jan 23, 2019
Love my girls
The best in the world,
I will not change any thing for my three girls
Re: 'I Will Rather Be Without A Child Than Have Only Girl Kids' - Nigerian Man by Nobody: 8:58am On Feb 02, 2019
chenzen:
u spend million raising a girl child and when she s old enuf to think straight... she ll ignorantly elope with one indian hemp smoking and gun carrying loafing street rat into the jungle... just like that*


father are trying*


No be mehuh lol
lol
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