A woman has taken to Facebook to accuse her husband - a pastor - of domestic violence.

The woman claimed she's been in an abusive marriage for the past 8 years. She claimed her husband beats her all the time and recently stripped her naked in front of their kids and neighbours. This, she says, is what broke the camel's back.

Erdoo Apollos Davis shared her story on Facebook, writing:

Yes I think this is just the right time to say this...I have been married for the past eight now getting to nine years to a very abusive man,I have tried all I could to make my marriage work but it kept getting worse by the day...he beats me in the presence of his mother,brother my sisters and the last that broke the Carmel's back was to beat me and strip me naked before my children and neighbours. I guess you are all asking what would have warranted that right? Well then let me tell you because i bought a sim card without his permission...are you all surprised...he accuses me of infidelity and does not trust me even though me married me as a virgin. Yes am saying this on this platform to let the whole world know that domestic violence is real and could happen to just any body...where the red flags not there they were,but off course who would have thought that a pastor will do such a thing...well I was naive and he took advantage of that...therefore I plead with every lady out there who is thinking do I stay or leave. My advice is this leave so you can live to tell your story. Cheers to all the strong women out there ...#iamasurvivour#

Source: https://www.mediahelm.com.ng/2019/01/a-woman-has-taken-to-facebook-to-accuse.html

Chaiii.....This woman don really hear Nwiii for this pastor hand...

Women and victim mentality.

Women and lies - 5 & 6.

So is facebook their marriage sponsor, family or even his church shld do something about it.. Instead of reporting to get practical solution to her marital issues she's sharing it on Facebook to what end exactly?

O di kwa serious.

Relationship between any two human is scam. It is best described as parasitism.


Whenever you see two humans in a relationship that is smooth, just know that one called the parasite is benefitting while the other called the host is being fleeced.

Be it mother-children, father-children , husband-wife, boyfriend-girfriend relationship, the theory applies.

As for men, why do you need to get scammed in the name of marriage?

If you need sex get a sex doll. If you can't afford one, Vaseline is just 20 naira . Buy one and use.

If you need children, adopt as many as you can

Or you can just buy eggs and fertilize with your sperm, then use a surrogate mother.

Kkk

K

Many over religious folks operate at a level just behind insanity and hate

Nbote:
So is facebook their marriage sponsor, family or even his church shld do something about it.. Instead of reporting to get practical solution to her marital issues she's sharing it on Facebook to what end exactly?

...Facebook...

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So is facebook their marriage sponsor, family or even his church shld do something about it.. Instead of reporting to get practical solution to her marital issues she's sharing it on Facebook to what end exactly?

And who said she's seeking solution on Facebook?... That's the only way she can reach out and advise women suffering from domestic violence. Or you didn't read the post?

So many smiling faces in pictures are facing pains in their marriages

Pastor is a title!

If he beats you, he's a human too which means he's could be controlled by the flesh.

Pray for him

I've always wondered why all it takes to be a pastor in redeem is to attend bible sch and then a branch is assigned to you to head without making any background check on the pastor in question.
Don't ask me where I saw redeem in the topic

To the man if u Find Ur wife in an act of infidelity and not assumptions,its better u let her go instead of beating her. That is wat the bible says

So many fake marriages out there. Still there are many good marriages that are working well.

Any marriage that scatters, the wife is the cause. When they are supposed to be calm and ask for forgiveness from their husband even if they are right, they tell the husband all manner of bad things. When they push the man to the tightest corner, guess what, the man reacts like an insane person. Na katakata be that oh! Some women are even stupid to the point of denying their husband of sex for months all in the name of retaliation. When the man finds his way outside, the same usuless woman who may sometimes be a pastors wife will start shameless shouting to the highest heavens.

xoxocandy:
I've always wondered why all it takes to be a pastor in redeem is to attend bible sch and then a branch is assigned to you to head without making any background check on the pastor in question.
Don't ask me where I saw redeem in the topic

Abeg where you see Redeemed Christian Church of God in the post?

Too bad.pastors are suposed to be well disciplined

Why should you buy a simcard without your husbands knowledge?

Obuugama:
Any marriage that scatters, the wife is the cause. When they are supposed to be calm and ask for forgiveness from their husband even if they are right, they tell the husband all manner of bad things. When they push the man to the tightest corner, guess what, the man reacts like an insane person. Na katakata be that oh! Some women are even stupid to the point of denying their husband of sex for months all in the name of retaliation. When the man finds his way outside, the same usuless woman who may sometimes be a pastors wife will start shameless shouting to the highest heavens.

u are the biggest fool.these is how beasts in form of human form are raised

Dozie32:
Why should you buy a simcard without your husbands knowledge?

So that's enough for a domestic violence?

Is that how you treat your wife too?

Mad men use religion to control naive women. That is why they are fund of twisting the scriptures.

If Christ were to come physically again, they would call him an Antichrist.

I just pity male and females who go to them for advice.

By the way, congrats madam. Your eye don finally clear.

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So is facebook their marriage sponsor, family or even his church shld do something about it.. Instead of reporting to get practical solution to her marital issues she's sharing it on Facebook to what end exactly?

To serve as warning to other women obviously.