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| How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by nickxtra(op): 7:06pm On Feb 12, 2019*. Modified: 10:28am On Feb 13, 2019 |
I don't really understand this, anytime I know that today is the day beans would be my dinner at home, I feel sad. Honestly, I don't like beans, right from my teen age. But I always find a way to eat beans whenever unavoidable occasion presents it self. In my home, in conjunction with my wife, we prepared a timetable for weekly food menu and it happens that every Tuesday, beans must be cooked. I agreed to this because of my children and my wife, but I don't like beans. Any time I leave office and think of going home to eat beans, I always feel bad. But am always happy with Monday- swallow, Tuesday- Beans ??; Wednesday- Jollof/fried rice with salad, Thursday- vegetable onto with swallow; Friday-- yam/plantain with egg/vegetable sauce; Saturday morning- Tea/bread, evening- moi-moi/akara; Sunday- white rice/stew or banga soup. Infact, on Tuesday, I detest going home to eat beans, instead of my favourite swallow or Jollof/white rice, but I can't help it because of what my wife will feel if I fail or refuse to eat. How do I overcome my phobia for beans? |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by Baddiezz(f): 7:08pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
It's the weevils in beans I don't like |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by davidflipcy5856(m): 8:53pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
some people can't eat some certain foods me inclusive. I can't bring myself to eat ogbono or okro soup. So for Tuesday evenings, just find a place to eat before coming home . Let your wife know of your new decision so the food she cooks won't get wasted. |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by Nobody: 8:55pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
I think you hate beans/detest eating it. It's alright and okay by me because I dont care. We all humans and we hate or refrain from eating certain foods. I hate okro soup with passion. Hate and phobia are two different things. You need to check the dictionary for the meaning of phobia. When you do, please replace the "phobia" with some other word. Thank you ![]() |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
This is so trivial an issue to worry about... hatred for beans?? Of all the pressing family ish??. Congrats OP � |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by Ranchhoddas: 9:57pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
laraoge:Fear no catch you? I think he's a troll though. |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by Nobody: 10:09pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
Beans phobia? abi you meant to say you are allergic to beans |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by Nobody: 10:12pm On Feb 12, 2019*. Modified: 3:34am On Feb 13, 2019 |
How can anyone hate beans? I love beans! |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by Rosarie(f): 10:13pm On Feb 12, 2019 |
Why In this world will u force urself to eat beans.then u are not free in ur home.u don't like it.my hubby eats beans just morning.if we eat beans in d evening I give him something else.this is so petty.na this age u wan like am.u dont like it.u don't like it.tell wifey simple! |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by chii8(f): 6:04am On Feb 13, 2019 |
Stop telling us,go and talk to your wife.... |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by nickxtra(op): 10:19am On Feb 13, 2019 |
Baddiezz:So, you don't eat beans as a result of the weevils? |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by nickxtra(op): 10:20am On Feb 13, 2019 |
chii8:Stop washing your dirty linen in public. Who called you here? |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by nickxtra(op): 10:22am On Feb 13, 2019 |
Rosarie:I just wouldn't want her to stress herself by cooking a different meal for me |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by nickxtra(op): 10:23am On Feb 13, 2019 |
davidflipcy5856:Contemplating this, but you know women na... |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by nickxtra(op): 10:26am On Feb 13, 2019 |
iyke926:Mr. Teacher, don't teach me nonsense. I know what I wrote. You should rather check the dictionary and correct your statement |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by Nobody: 10:29am On Feb 13, 2019 |
nickxtra:k. |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by tee59(f): 11:10am On Feb 13, 2019 |
I think your woman needs to change her cooking skill in beans. She can use the beans to make other foods such as moinmoin, akara, beans with plantain, ekuru, etc since she knows, you hate eating beans raw. Having timetable for food is good but you will only be eating same food repeatedly. |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by Baddiezz(f): 11:19am On Feb 13, 2019 |
nickxtra:Yeah |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by Nobody: 2:56pm On Feb 13, 2019 |
virgoquin:The dude is beansphobic ![]() |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by nickxtra(op): 3:58pm On Feb 13, 2019 |
tee59:Moi-moi and akara are already captured in the menu. Meanwhile, the timetable is flexible and amenable to change, as we in some occasions go for meals not captured in it. |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by Rosarie(f): 4:01pm On Feb 13, 2019*. Modified: 5:25pm On Feb 13, 2019 |
nickxtra:marriage is made of sacrifices.if she sees u don't like it how many mins to cook something different.? |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by nickxtra(op): 4:46pm On Feb 13, 2019 |
Rosarie:I got you, thanks very much |
| Re: How Do I Overcome My Phobia For Beans? by Brazzaville(m): 12:20pm On Feb 14, 2019 |
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??; Wednesday- Jollof/fried rice with salad, Thursday- vegetable onto with swallow; Friday-- yam/plantain with egg/vegetable sauce; Saturday morning- Tea/bread, evening- moi-moi/akara; Sunday- white rice/stew or banga soup. 
