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delpee:
Interesting! So he should hire someone to look after the baby so madam can go clubbing. Then madam will cry foul when something goes wrong with the child and probably blame him for hiring the wrong person.

Gbenro is wrong for bringing his problems to social media but his wife needs to understand the role of a mother in the home. Most of us hail our mothers for all they sacrificed to make us what we are today. That is what motherhood is all about.

Or he could just as simply stay home with the baby himself.

darlenese:
he might have said that out of depression.


BTW, what kind of woman leaves her baby and goes out at night? this stupid woman is even suggesting he employs a help, na wa o

this celebrity husbands them dey really try , this is outright nonsense

Why doesn’t he stay with the baby himself, if it is so important to him that a parent stay with the baby?

The underlying sexism and even misogyny on this thread (even from some women) is shocking beyond words (but not altogether at variance with most of our crudely backward paternal culture). When he met and married her, and even went on to have a kid with her, he knew fully well that she is a “celebrity” (whatever that means) whose career (presumably “celebrity” is some sort of career) partly depends on going out and being seen about town and in the right social circles. After all, many of these “celebrities” are paid appearance fees, given free gifts and products, and are even appointed brand ambassadors for little or nothing more than simply their social currency and profile. Meanwhile, the dumb goat has used her to get a green card to travel abroad to advance his own career - perhaps in his puny mind (as with many Nigerian men and in most Nigerian cultures), the career and advancement of the man is of paramount (if not singular) importance.

As a female yourself, what would you say if the dude walks out on her while she is busy babysitting? In Nigeria, where’s there’s no compelled Child Support obligations, she would simply become another single mother depending on her ex-husband for the basics. God forbid! SMH

9jaRealist:
Did she bleep you?

Even her husband never accused her of bleeping anybody, but it says a lot about the primordial and backward mentality of many crude Nigerian men that women should not be seen in public (or go out) without their husbands/male relatives. Why not put her in Purdah?! SMH

Shut up there. A married nigerian woman that constantly sleeps out side is sucking preek. Argue with ur mother

9jaRealist:
Why doesn’t he stay with the baby himself, if it is so important to him that a parent stay with the baby?

The underlying sexism and even misogyny on this thread (even from some women) is shocking beyond words (but not altogether at variance with most of our crudely backward paternal culture). When he met and married her, and even went on to have a kid with her, he knew fully well that she is a “celebrity” (whatever that means) whose career (presumably “celebrity” is some sort of career) partly depends on going out and being seen about town and in the right social circles. After all, many of these “celebrities” are paid appearance fees, given free gifts and products, and are even appointed brand ambassadors for little or nothing more than simply their social currency and profile. Meanwhile, the dumb goat has used her to get a green card to travel abroad to advance his own career - perhaps in his puny mind (as with many Nigerian men and in most Nigerian cultures), the career and advancement of the man is of paramount (if not singular) importance.

As a female yourself, what would you say if the dude walks out on her while she is busy babysitting? In Nigeria, where’s there’s no compelled Child Support obligations, she would simply become another single mother depending on her ex-husband for the basics. God forbid! SMH

I am not a sexist, as a married woman I can't leave my kids and party all night in the name of celebrity Lifestyle and I am sure no responsible woman will do that.

4ckTOTO:
Shut up there. A married nigerian woman that constantly sleeps out side is sucking preek. Argue with ur mother

I refuse to climb into the gutter with folks who were conceived and raised in the gutter.

darlenese:
I am not a sexist, as a married woman I can't leave my kids and party all night in the name of celebrity Lifestyle and I am sure no responsible woman will do that.

Do you boo, just don't pontificate that your LIMITED reality should be everyone else's.

When he met, dated and ultimately married her (and apparently got that Green Card that is now aiding his own personal progress), was she not living the same "celebrity lifestyle"? And yet again, what if her job, career, profession, etc., requires such a "lifestyle" (or she can best advance her career through same)? What if she was not a "celebrity" (again, not quite sure what the designation actually means), but a night doctor or night cleaner or cook or desk clerk (in, for example, a hotel), who still has be away from home all night? Even furthermore, what's the substantive difference between a mother staying out supposedly all night, and a banker or lawyer working all day until 9 or 10 pm when their kids have gone to bed? The REALITY is that NO working woman (whatever her profession) enjoys the luxury of staying home all day and all night with their kids - and that does NOT make them any less "responsible" than someone like you.

9jaRealist:
I refuse to climb into the gutter with folks who were conceived and raised in the gutter.

argue that with ur mother