infortech:
I needs your advice, please I got married in 2017, before my Marriage everything was going on well, in my business and my Contacts work. but my problems started immediately after my traditional marriage, my car catch fire, I used all the money I got from my traditional marriage to fix the car, dat one was not enough, the day of my white wedding my car spoiled Dat morning of my wedding, is like dat one was not enough again, I was kidnapped 7days after my wedding, all the money I got from my wedding was collected in process of kidnapping me. on the process of this things that happened to me my business went to zero.
My big problem is that is like my wife married me because of what she saw initial time, now things is very difficult for me she talks to me any how, comparing me wit other men out side dia, complain too much, I don't give her upkeep money, she can't allow it to happen, insulting me any how even when she no all the things we passed through. we can't stay up to 4days without having some problems, pls what should I do because am not happy with what is going on in my family.

ifyalways:
Sell the car.

infortech:
I needs your advice, please I got married in 2017, before my Marriage everything was going on well, in my business and my Contacts work. but my problems started immediately after my traditional marriage, my car catch fire, I used all the money I got from my traditional marriage to fix the car, dat one was not enough, the day of my white wedding my car spoiled Dat morning of my wedding, is like dat one was not enough again, I was kidnapped 7days after my wedding, all the money I got from my wedding was collected in process of kidnapping me. on the process of this things that happened to me my business went to zero.
My big problem is that is like my wife married me because of what she saw initial time, now things is very difficult for me she talks to me any how, comparing me wit other men out side dia, complain too much, I don't give her upkeep money, she can't allow it to happen, insulting me any how even when she no all the things we passed through. we can't stay up to 4days without having some problems, pls what should I do because am not happy with what is going on in my family.

nwanneniressure:
Na una know wetin una see for marriage
Baby boy for life!

Zoharariel:
You made a mistake in settling down with your wife.

There are lots of women in Nigeria but I can tell you that 90% of them are walking corpses without them knowing.

I was at Gemade Estate inside Gowon Estate, Egbeda on Tuesday.

A very good friend of mine whom I've known since 2008 was having his birthday. Nothing elaborate, just little chops, beer & smokes.

I looked at the time and it was already 10pm and so my friend convinced me to sleep over at his place but unfortunately his Power Generator was misbehaving, so we decided to go pass the night at the Havannah Hotel & Suites inside Gowon Estate.

We got to Havannah and booked a room with double beds & went to the outdoor bar downstairs to take a bottle of beer (each) for the road to the dreamland.

Unfortunately the outdoor bar was closed since it was already past 12:am but we were told we could use the indoor bar.

We decided to walk across the street to buy some sticks of cigaret since we had exhausted the ones we had.

There must have been more than 20 Oloshos hanging outside the Hotel & waiting for potential clients for the night.

My friend sighted a lady standing among the Oloshos & told me that is Rasheeda.

We bought our cigarettes & were walking back towards the hotel when Rasheeda called out on my friend.

"Bros, how far naa? Long time. Come buy me drink & cigar naaa."

My friend bought her some sticks of cigaret & discharged her.

He said he used to know her way back around Ponle Bus-stop at Egbeda about 3years ago and that she was chubby & all creamy.

Brethren, I swear to Nimrod, if I am offered 1 Billion Euros by "Dietrich Mateschitz" to sleep with her, I will kick him in his scrotum with my Stan Smith Addidas Sneakers because that would amount to suicide.

She was looking all skinny, emaciated & spent - with her collar bones sticking out. To say I was irritated was an understatement.

My friend told me he heard that it was due to her excessive abuse of codeine & tramadol but my Anunnaki Spirit immediately nudged me & showed me her dossier.

She has been used by these Yahoo Boys for their money-making rituals & immediately I told my friend, he agreed.

@OP - I do not mean to offend you but the ugly truth is that the woman you call your wife might have been ritualized by Yahoo Boys or Politicians. This is Nigeria and not Amerika, Europe or Asia.

And once you sleep with any of them, your virtues are automatically transferred to the bastard that ritualized the lady, hence the reason you see kings turning to slaves & millionaires turning to paupers.

The last time I attempted to fvck an Olosho was in 2014 at Igando. I entered the brothel after negotiation & pulled my Jean & boxer short.

The Olosho commot her blouse & pant and I was surprised my preek no stand. It has never happened to me before - because once my koro-koro eyez see any Toto that is covered with black bush, my brain would immediately transmit an emergency encrypted data to my scrotum via my spinal cord to unleash the lamba - and the result would be a hard rigid erection - with my lamba swinging like a pendulum & ready for penetrative intercourse.

But on that particular day, I visualized the n.aked bum-bum of Jennifer Lopez & Christiana Milian simultaneously - yet my preek no stand.

I used my fingers to massage my scrotal sack yet lamba no receive signal.

I come tell the Olosho to allow me rub the tip of my lamba anti-clockwisely over her black tropical forest - still, no show.

Olosho self come vex use her hand to squeeze & massage my lamba - still, network failure.

After about 20 minutes, I tell Olosho say I go come back tomorrow - na so the 4k wey I pay for 2 rounds take enter bush.

I did not know until years later that it was the Anunnaki from Nibiru & my head that saved me from plunging into a pit without bottom.

It's a cold cold world of predators out here in Naija with desperate red-eyed vampires looking for foolish & wayward girls to devour - and there are lots of them here on Nairaland - "The Nigerian Feminists" (Proclaim Feminism on Social Media in the day but turn to Olosho at Night like Toke Makinwa & Linda Ikeji) and we will keep telling them but unfortunately "The dog that will go astray will never listen to the hunter's whistle."

@OP - That woman is an embodiment of badluck & misfortune to you. Only Enki knows how many politicians & yahoo boys must have deposited their "ritualized gametes" into her vulva - which in turn, is working against you.

My sincere advice to you is to divorce her & look for a secondary school pupil - fresh from the oven to impregnate if you do not want your "Evening Newspaper of a wife" to magnetize the Dangote Trailer that will jam you & eventually send you to your early grave.

My 20kobo!

infortech:
thank you all for your good advice, God bless your homessssssssssss

Zoharariel:
You made a mistake in settling down with your wife.

There are lots of women in Nigeria but I can tell you that 90% of them are walking corpses without them knowing.

I was at Gemade Estate inside Gowon Estate, Egbeda on Tuesday.

A very good friend of mine whom I've known since 2008 was having his birthday. Nothing elaborate, just little chops, beer & smokes.

I looked at the time and it was already 10pm and so my friend convinced me to sleep over at his place but unfortunately his Power Generator was misbehaving, so we decided to go pass the night at the Havannah Hotel & Suites inside Gowon Estate.

We got to Havannah and booked a room with double beds & went to the outdoor bar downstairs to take a bottle of beer (each) for the road to the dreamland.

Unfortunately the outdoor bar was closed since it was already past 12:am but we were told we could use the indoor bar.

We decided to walk across the street to buy some sticks of cigaret since we had exhausted the ones we had.

There must have been more than 20 Oloshos hanging outside the Hotel & waiting for potential clients for the night.

My friend sighted a lady standing among the Oloshos & told me that is Rasheeda.

We bought our cigarettes & were walking back towards the hotel when Rasheeda called out on my friend.

"Bros, how far naa? Long time. Come buy me drink & cigar naaa."

My friend bought her some sticks of cigaret & discharged her.

He said he used to know her way back around Ponle Bus-stop at Egbeda about 3years ago and that she was chubby & all creamy.

Brethren, I swear to Nimrod, if I am offered 1 Billion Euros by "Dietrich Mateschitz" to sleep with her, I will kick him in his scrotum with my Stan Smith Addidas Sneakers because that would amount to suicide.

She was looking all skinny, emaciated & spent - with her collar bones sticking out. To say I was irritated was an understatement.

My friend told me he heard that it was due to her excessive abuse of codeine & tramadol but my Anunnaki Spirit immediately nudged me & showed me her dossier.

She has been used by these Yahoo Boys for their money-making rituals & immediately I told my friend, he agreed.

@OP - I do not mean to offend you but the ugly truth is that the woman you call your wife might have been ritualized by Yahoo Boys or Politicians. This is Nigeria and not Amerika, Europe or Asia.

And once you sleep with any of them, your virtues are automatically transferred to the bastard that ritualized the lady, hence the reason you see kings turning to slaves & millionaires turning to paupers.

The last time I attempted to fvck an Olosho was in 2014 at Igando. I entered the brothel after negotiation & pulled my Jean & boxer short.

The Olosho commot her blouse & pant and I was surprised my preek no stand. It has never happened to me before - because once my koro-koro eyez see any Toto that is covered with black bush, my brain would immediately transmit an emergency encrypted data to my scrotum via my spinal cord to unleash the lamba - and the result would be a hard rigid erection - with my lamba swinging like a pendulum & ready for penetrative intercourse.

But on that particular day, I visualized the n.aked bum-bum of Jennifer Lopez & Christiana Milian simultaneously - yet my preek no stand.

I used my fingers to massage my scrotal sack yet lamba no receive signal.

I come tell the Olosho to allow me rub the tip of my lamba anti-clockwisely over her black tropical forest - still, no show.

Olosho self come vex use her hand to squeeze & massage my lamba - still, network failure.

After about 20 minutes, I tell Olosho say I go come back tomorrow - na so the 4k wey I pay for 2 rounds take enter bush.

I did not know until years later that it was the Anunnaki from Nibiru & my head that saved me from plunging into a pit without bottom.

It's a cold cold world of predators out here in Naija with desperate red-eyed vampires looking for foolish & wayward girls to devour - and there are lots of them here on Nairaland - "The Nigerian Feminists" (Proclaim Feminism on Social Media in the day but turn to Olosho at Night like Toke Makinwa & Linda Ikeji) and we will keep telling them but unfortunately "The dog that will go astray will never listen to the hunter's whistle."

@OP - That woman is an embodiment of badluck & misfortune to you. Only Enki knows how many politicians & yahoo boys must have deposited their "ritualized gametes" into her vulva - which in turn, is working against you.

My sincere advice to you is to divorce her & look for a secondary school pupil - fresh from the oven to impregnate if you do not want your "Evening Newspaper of a wife" to magnetize the Dangote Trailer that will jam you & eventually send you to your early grave.

My 20kobo!

Zoharariel:
You made a mistake in settling down with your wife.

There are lots of women in Nigeria but I can tell you that 90% of them are walking corpses without them knowing.

I was at Gemade Estate inside Gowon Estate, Egbeda on Tuesday.

A very good friend of mine whom I've known since 2008 was having his birthday. Nothing elaborate, just little chops, beer & smokes.

I looked at the time and it was already 10pm and so my friend convinced me to sleep over at his place but unfortunately his Power Generator was misbehaving, so we decided to go pass the night at the Havannah Hotel & Suites inside Gowon Estate.

We got to Havannah and booked a room with double beds & went to the outdoor bar downstairs to take a bottle of beer (each) for the road to the dreamland.

Unfortunately the outdoor bar was closed since it was already past 12:am but we were told we could use the indoor bar.

We decided to walk across the street to buy some sticks of cigaret since we had exhausted the ones we had.

There must have been more than 20 Oloshos hanging outside the Hotel & waiting for potential clients for the night.

My friend sighted a lady standing among the Oloshos & told me that is Rasheeda.

We bought our cigarettes & were walking back towards the hotel when Rasheeda called out on my friend.

"Bros, how far naa? Long time. Come buy me drink & cigar naaa."

My friend bought her some sticks of cigaret & discharged her.

He said he used to know her way back around Ponle Bus-stop at Egbeda about 3years ago and that she was chubby & all creamy.

Brethren, I swear to Nimrod, if I am offered 1 Billion Euros by "Dietrich Mateschitz" to sleep with her, I will kick him in his scrotum with my Stan Smith Addidas Sneakers because that would amount to suicide.

She was looking all skinny, emaciated & spent - with her collar bones sticking out. To say I was irritated was an understatement.

My friend told me he heard that it was due to her excessive abuse of codeine & tramadol but my Anunnaki Spirit immediately nudged me & showed me her dossier.

She has been used by these Yahoo Boys for their money-making rituals & immediately I told my friend, he agreed.

@OP - I do not mean to offend you but the ugly truth is that the woman you call your wife might have been ritualized by Yahoo Boys or Politicians. This is Nigeria and not Amerika, Europe or Asia.

And once you sleep with any of them, your virtues are automatically transferred to the bastard that ritualized the lady, hence the reason you see kings turning to slaves & millionaires turning to paupers.

The last time I attempted to fvck an Olosho was in 2014 at Igando. I entered the brothel after negotiation & pulled my Jean & boxer short.

The Olosho commot her blouse & pant and I was surprised my preek no stand. It has never happened to me before - because once my koro-koro eyez see any Toto that is covered with black bush, my brain would immediately transmit an emergency encrypted data to my scrotum via my spinal cord to unleash the lamba - and the result would be a hard rigid erection - with my lamba swinging like a pendulum & ready for penetrative intercourse.

But on that particular day, I visualized the n.aked bum-bum of Jennifer Lopez & Christiana Milian simultaneously - yet my preek no stand.

I used my fingers to massage my scrotal sack yet lamba no receive signal.

I come tell the Olosho to allow me rub the tip of my lamba anti-clockwisely over her black tropical forest - still, no show.

Olosho self come vex use her hand to squeeze & massage my lamba - still, network failure.

After about 20 minutes, I tell Olosho say I go come back tomorrow - na so the 4k wey I pay for 2 rounds take enter bush.

I did not know until years later that it was the Anunnaki from Nibiru & my head that saved me from plunging into a pit without bottom.

It's a cold cold world of predators out here in Naija with desperate red-eyed vampires looking for foolish & wayward girls to devour - and there are lots of them here on Nairaland - "The Nigerian Feminists" (Proclaim Feminism on Social Media in the day but turn to Olosho at Night like Toke Makinwa & Linda Ikeji) and we will keep telling them but unfortunately "The dog that will go astray will never listen to the hunter's whistle."

@OP - That woman is an embodiment of badluck & misfortune to you. Only Enki knows how many politicians & yahoo boys must have deposited their "ritualized gametes" into her vulva - which in turn, is working against you.

My sincere advice to you is to divorce her & look for a secondary school pupil - fresh from the oven to impregnate if you do not want your "Evening Newspaper of a wife" to magnetize the Dangote Trailer that will jam you & eventually send you to your early grave.

My 20kobo!

DeckXavier:
No money no honey, I never really understood these very words till I got to understand the hypergamous nature of women..
The very moment money flies out of the window so does your respect.

I still can't phantom the core idealization of "love" , everything is transactional, and I'm okay with that.

May God shine his light on your path man!

victorian:
Eeyah ,sorry op

That's why most times , I don't advocate on traditional marriage . in some cases , immediately the dowry is paid , problems from all angles starts affecting the man and his business .
Men, if any woman u want to marry is an orphan? Please for peace and prosperity sake don't go to her village and pay dowry . I know some people will say , I must be crazy thinking like that . but I'm saying the truth here .

Just do white wedding or court wedding . and that's all. Forget travelling to village to pay dowry or else OYO ,will be your story . So sorry for the losses , u have to be very prayerful and patient . it's well with u and your family .amen

W3lord:


Why won't u pay for a woman's bride price, it's not proper, you have to see the parents and kin let them know u are taking their daughter, what suppose to be done even self that is the real marriage not church white weeding . Or if someone comes to take your car with out telling u will u be happy?