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It hurts me a lot whenever I see a good
relationship tearing apart, but then it comes
into my mind that most people don't know
how to maintain a relationship. So I have to
say this.


FOR GUYS.
Guys if you love a girl and you're sure you
love her, there are things you have to do to
prove it:

1. Never push her to do the things, she
doesn't want to do.

2. Always try to listen carefully to her, and
understand her.

3. Try to give her space to develop, herself as
a person.

4. Take very good care of her, in every
possible way.

5.Try to call or text her, it goes a long way to
remind her, that you are thinking about her.

6. Try to help her in every way you can.

7. Always worry about how she feels about
things, worry about how she sees the world,
try to get to know about her goals, and
understand why she lives her life the way she
does.

8. Try to trust her, now I know this may be
hard especially if you have trust issues, but if
you love a girl you should be able to trust her.

9. Try complimenting her, believe me it hurts
a girl when the guy that claims he loves her,
but can't tell her she is beautiful. I mean you
see her in a new dress and you just walk
away, that's really bad.

10. If you love a girl you'd accept her the way
she is, you won't try to change her. You
would love her for who she is today and not
for what will be tomorrow, and you would
feel blessed to have her by your side.


FOR LADIES.
LADIES, you also have a great part to play in a
relationship, if you love that guy then:

1. You respect him, guys love girls who
respect them a lot, you don't try to bruise his
ego by being disobedient and disrespectful.

2. Listen to him whenever he is talking, never
talk back at a guy or walk away from him.

3. If you notice your guy is angry, don't be in
a hurry to find out what his problem is, give
it time, especially if he is hot tempered, allow
his temper to cool before taking to him.

4. Try to get close to his family members. A
guy would love love you more, if he sees you
are in good terms with his family.
5. Do not nag at him, guys hate it when girls
nags at them.

6. Girls you just can't wake up one morning
and say you want to change your guy, that's
impossible. If you want him to change, then
give him reasons to change.

7. Try to show him how much you love and
care about him, by being faithful. If you love
your guy so much, I see no reason why your
eyes should be on other guys.

8. Be independent, don't just sit around there
and wait for him to do all things. Try to help
out, guys value girls who can contribute
positively to their lives.

9. Be neat, a guy would love his girl to be
neat and presentable, don't be a talkative,
guys hate that a lot. Try to give yourself some
pride and dignity, as a girl you deserve to
have that. Don't make the mistake of throwing
yourself at a guy, that's really bad.

10. You don't fight a guy, just because you're
having a misunderstanding, doesn't give you
the right to fight with him. If you are arguing
with him and can't seem to sort it out, then
do your fightings in prayers. It's not your job
to fight and argue with your guy, it is your
job to pray for him, pray for his heart and
every aspect of his life. Above all put God/
in the center of your relationship, and
there is no way you can loose. true or false

Source:http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2019/02/how-to-avoid-unnecessary-breakup-in.html?m=1

Luvebird:
It hurts me a lot whenever I see a good
relationship tearing apart, but then it comes
into my mind that most people don't know
how to maintain a relationship. So I have to
say this.


FOR GUYS.
Guys if you love a girl and you're sure you
love her, there are things you have to do to
prove it:

1. Never push her to do the things, she
doesn't want to do.

2. Always try to listen carefully to her, and
understand her.

3. Try to give her space to develop, herself as
a person.

4. Take very good care of her, in every
possible way.

5.Try to call or text her, it goes a long way to
remind her, that you are thinking about her.

6. Try to help her in every way you can.

7. Always worry about how she feels about
things, worry about how she sees the world,
try to get to know about her goals, and
understand why she lives her life the way she
does.

8. Try to trust her, now I know this may be
hard especially if you have trust issues, but if
you love a girl you should be able to trust her.

9. Try complimenting her, believe me it hurts
a girl when the guy that claims he loves her,
but can't tell her she is beautiful. I mean you
see her in a new dress and you just walk
away, that's really bad.

10. If you love a girl you'd accept her the way
she is, you won't try to change her. You
would love her for who she is today and not
for what will be tomorrow, and you would
feel blessed to have her by your side.


FOR LADIES.
LADIES, you also have a great part to play in a
relationship, if you love that guy then:

1. You respect him, guys love girls who
respect them a lot, you don't try to bruise his
ego by being disobedient and disrespectful.

2. Listen to him whenever he is talking, never
talk back at a guy or walk away from him.

3. If you notice your guy is angry, don't be in
a hurry to find out what his problem is, give
it time, especially if he is hot tempered, allow
his temper to cool before taking to him.

4. Try to get close to his family members. A
guy would love love you more, if he sees you
are in good terms with his family.
5. Do not nag at him, guys hate it when girls
nags at them.

6. Girls you just can't wake up one morning
and say you want to change your guy, that's
impossible. If you want him to change, then
give him reasons to change.

7. Try to show him how much you love and
care about him, by being faithful. If you love
your guy so much, I see no reason why your
eyes should be on other guys.

8. Be independent, don't just sit around there
and wait for him to do all things. Try to help
out, guys value girls who can contribute
positively to their lives.

9. Be neat, a guy would love his girl to be
neat and presentable, don't be a talkative,
guys hate that a lot. Try to give yourself some
pride and dignity, as a girl you deserve to
have that. Don't make the mistake of throwing
yourself at a guy, that's really bad.

10. You don't fight a guy, just because you're
having a misunderstanding, doesn't give you
the right to fight with him. If you are arguing
with him and can't seem to sort it out, then
do your fightings in prayers. It's not your job
to fight and argue with your guy, it is your
job to pray for him, pray for his heart and
every aspect of his life. Above all put God/
in the center of your relationship, and
there is no way you can loose. true or false

Source:http://www.lovebird.com.ng/2019/02/how-to-avoid-unnecessary-breakup-in.html?m=1

For Guys let me tell you a secret!

It doesn't work, it doesn't guarantee anything. You can never understand a woman, trust me dat lady you are dedicating your time and losing focus will leave you if she wants too and there is nothing you can do about it.

Nonsense it is appointed to a Relationship,time to live and time to die.