She f@cked up by this last statement

“I have always been a good manager. Even when I was working in the bakery, I knew how to manage the resources available to me. Can you imagine a man not working for two years and being fed by a woman?”

Kingpee2:
You’ve seen the other side of life and your hubby knows you’ve gone ahead of him with your pussy,we know how the entertainment runs these days,it’s tic for tac as usual...

To the pure in mind, everything is pure. How you jumped the conclusion that she is sleeping around beats me. It is only a poverty mindset that attributes the success of others to something so degrading.

prewtyjulie:
this is just a case of insecurity in the part of the guy, maybe he is afraid she will leave him, and a case of getting tired of a dead beat guy in her case.

Can you allow the man you are living with to move in and out of the house anytime with different ladies without proper explanation. The whole situation is affecting the guy. Jumoke of a lady should remember that they were once had a happy home when they had nothing. She shouldn't allow fame to destroy her home. If the guy is the one famous he is expected to take his family along, same should be applied to the woman.

Tinalex:

The same way men feel they don't need a woman but many women as play thing when they have money and fame too!!! Vice versa

You're wrong. Men in most cases think they need more women and sometimes go for a second wife

Sugarbear007:
To me dis whole issue is a scam to garner sympathy to her already dyeing modeling career.
Her sudden rise to fame and its benefits are fast fading hence it has to be fed with controversy to keep her in the light. To me o, she's just pulling a skibi as naturally people have always expected a strain in their relationship.. But what do I know

85% true and 15% false

fran6co:
Hmm, don't ever allow a woman b the bread winner.

but she was a bread seller

Olajumoke, you’re looking so pretty and polished. This your baby daddy though!!! He is feeling totally insecure with who you’ve evolved into. Let him get a job o! any job will do so far it is legitimate. That way, you’ll both have more respect for him. Right now, He comes across as a lazy leech. I know of an architect whose husband lost his job. For a while, he did all kinds of menial jobs. He even Joined construction workers until he got a good job. He so earned our respect.

NoToPile:


Bros even when jumoke was a bread hustler, the guy wasnt even the bread winner.

Who leaves his wife alone to come all the way down to Lagos to hustle to fend for herself and baby was it not when she became famous that he came back.

Even when there was nothing he wasn't really there which might not be his fault because maybe he was poor, what I cant seem to understand is why now that his wife can establish him or even connect him he hasnt made use of that opportunity. Heared he does aluminium window(dont know how true this is).

Why wont he work for two years, if jumoke didnt come to Lagos to hustle will she get her big break.

How will you sitdown for two years doing nothing thats unforgivable.

The question is were you living with them?. Put your self in that guy shoe. Imagine seeing the woman you are living with disrespecting you all the time. The worst case is this issue of coming home late at night without explanations. Don't you think that the guy deserve explanations. It's over two years since she turn celebrity but she couldn't use her connection to get the guy a good job. If it's the other way don't you expect the guy to carry his family along. Pray you don't find your self in such condition. My advice to the guy is go out there hustle like other guys and provide for his kids in a little way he can. He should just forget Jumoke, both of them are no longer on same class.

fran6co:
Hmm, don't ever allow a woman b the bread winner.

Rubbish talk

Ladyhippolyta88:


It is insecure men like you that can never pray for your wife's success and would pray to see her downfall.likewise you insecure somebody.

That guy was right while you were wrong !

Both of you are thinking the same ideology but communicating it differently ....

No matter how rich your wife is , she ain't suppose to be the breadwinner .... it is wrong !!

Now , e right for ya eye

Now, go back and read that guy post again

Men, I take God beg una, always try and feed your family and drop something extra, if you think because your wife is a millionaire you can sit back and just enjoy her money, you lie. The only way this can work is when you are her manager, motivator, planner, advicer, etc, she would look beyond the lack of money and focus on the other advantages of having you in her life. Yes, challenges will come, you can get broke, but doing nothing to better yourself for two years is a disaster.

mightyokwy:

Bros if na you you go feel same way. No sane man will remain same seeing his woman going out and coming in with different men at ungodly hours without any form of explanation. The guy is too gentle less we would have heard that fight broke out in there home. The guy should focus in getting something doing first and provide for his children. As for the lady, he should just forget her both of them are no longer in the same class anymore. If it is the guy that make money he is expected to carry his family along but women think otherwise once they made it. She has join single mothers gang in our entertainment industry

You are sounding very emotional. Take it easy, we are saying the same thing. Even the guy stated that he is not married to the girl as the girl's parent are not ready for a sit down. So basically it is the girl housing the guy and providing the feeding money. She is not lazy. Remember the girl was hawking bread before now, so that shows a hardworking woman.

If a woman can hawk bread to take care of her kids, I see no reason the guy should not do taxi driver or anything else to contribute to the family instead of this silly victim mentality. Why would he be worried about the pusssy and how the woman comes back home late. Is there any technology these days that we can detach the pusssy and kept at home so she can comfortably go out and secure more deals without being accused.

Come to think of it, even if she fuccks. They are not married yet. She is actually a great woman for housing him, cos I think he is not doing enough to take care of his home. He should go out and hurstle tight.

For such guys, the best we can do is take their wives from them,a and nothing go happen. Men should be men.

sweetrace:
Olajumoke, you’re looking so pretty and polished. This your baby daddy though!!! He is feeling totally insecure with who you’ve evolved into. Let him get a job o! any job will do so far it is legitimate. That way, you’ll both have more respect for him. Right now, He comes across as a lazy leech. I know of an architect whose husband lost his job. For a while, he did all kinds of menial jobs. He even Joined construction workers until he got a good job. He so earned our respect.

Inferiority problem is worrying the guy, he didn't "married" a celebrity but now had one just overnight ..... He doesn't have what it takes to control her new level !!

Simple .... I am seeing separation here .... Unless Olajumoke come back to his level ... (e no go happen) .... Na the Nigga suppose upgrade Na ....

If your wife/husband upgrade, u self must upgrade else both of you shall live world apart !!

Shikom !!

KingSatan:
So sad when you said "I will not say anything" but yet you said EVERYTHING!

The last sentence summarized everything..

Remind me of French Montana song - famous

mightyokwy:

The question is were you living with them?. Put your self in that guy shoe. Imagine seeing the woman you are living with disrespecting you all the time. The worst case is this issue of coming home late at night without explanations. Don't you think that the guy deserve explanations. It's over two years since she turn celebrity but she couldn't use her connection to get the guy a good job If it's the other way don't you expect the guy to carry his family along. Pray you don't find your self in such condition. My advice to the guy is go out there hustle like other guys and provide for his kids in a little way he can. He should just forget Jumoke, both of them are no longer on same class.

The question should be 'is the guy ready to hustle.

Jumoke hustled her way to fame,

Is he ready to hustle or he wants to be collecting money from jumoke.

Getting a good job might not be easy because I dont think he has paper qualifications but he can always hustle, sell building materials, learn handwork, plumbing materials even transport business as long as its legal hustle.

Coming late at night is expected and how do you know shes not explaining to him, even 8-5 female workers come late too.

You are talking about respect, how many women will respect a man that cant go out to hustle something. Even if na ordinary chop money he brings he will be respected more.

A whole man not doing anything for 2 years.

Abeggii

The man should follow your advice, let him go and hustle shikena.

mixta140:

Na lazyman woman fit use do shakara...
I find hustle do , I only buy things for myself and kid ... then give her food ... her head come straight. ..
We still dey ooo ....
She no want spend her money ni... that just the cus of the fight then, and me dey empty account for family. .. since then I keep my earnings from her ooo ...
Was very plain before.

Buahahahahaha

Capensis:


You are sounding very emotional. Take it easy, we are saying the same thing. Even the guy stated that he is not married to the girl as the girl's parent are not ready for a sit down. So basically it is the girl housing the guy and providing the feeding money. She is not lazy. Remember the girl was hawking bread before now, so that shows a hardworking woman.

If a woman can hawk bread to take care of her kids, I see no reason the guy should not do taxi driver or anything else to contribute to the family instead of this silly victim mentality. Why would he be worried about the pusssy and how the woman comes back home late. Is there any technology these days that we can detach the pusssy and kept at home so she can comfortably go out and secure more deals without being accused.

Come to think of it, even if she fuccks. They are not married yet. She is actually a great woman for housing him, cos I think he is not doing enough to take care of his home. He should go out and hurstle tight.

For such guys, the best we can do is take their wives from them,a and nothing go happen. Men should be men.

Like i said pray you don't find your self in his condition. Until you find your self in his position then you will understand what it feels like seeing your woman with another man everytime without explanations and you knowing fully well that you can't do anything to change the situation hurts even the more. She should detach her work from her family knowing fully well how sensitive the nature of her work is. Allowing guys bringing her home always at midnight show that she doesn't regard the guy for anything. The guy is her man and derserve explanations. To you beacuse she is the bread winner she can do what she want abi. That sound funny. You just confirmed that it's not the fault of the guy that they have not legalized their relationship. Also what has the lady done to help him out in getting a taxi you mentioned. Are two of them not supposed to be working together for a greater future. Jumoke should give attention to her man.

awoluyi:


If it happens by fortune that a woman becomes a bread winner, the man should be careful not to remain permanently a bread eater. The man should wake up and do something of his own life. A man is expected by nature to be a crown over his wife. Olajumoke's husband needs not be great before starting to improve on his status, he needs to start so that he too can become great. I sense complex in the relationship!

u HV spoken wisely bro, nice one

fran6co:
Hmm, don't ever allow a woman b the bread winner.

Is she the first woman bread winner? There are many others that are even way ahead of her that you wouldnt even know their husbands are out of jobs except they open their mouths to tell you.

NoToPile:


The question should be 'is the guy ready to hustle.

Jumoke hustled her way to fame,

Is he ready to hustle or he wants to be collecting money from jumoke.

Getting a good job might not be easy because I dont think he has paper qualifications but he can always hustle, sell building materials, learn handwork, plumbing materials even transport business as long as its legal hustle.

Coming late at night is expected and how do you know shes not explaining to him, even 8-5 female workers come late too.

You are talking about respect, how many women will respect a man that cant go out to hustle something. Even if na ordinary chop money he brings he will be respected more.

A whole man not doing anything for 2 years.

Abeggii

The man should follow your advice, let him go and hustle shikena.

I have said it that the guy should go out there to hustle for his family. But we know how had it is to get a job in this country. The guy actually mentioned going out to look for job but nothing seems to be happening. His woman know people who can help him get a job. Even if it a taxi the guy mentioned in his interview, Jumoke can talk to her friends to lend a helping hand. I mean both of them should be helping each other. Nothing last forever.

UncleDaddy2017:


Is she the first woman bread winner? There are many others that are even way ahead of her that you wouldnt even know their husbands are out of jobs except they open their mouths to tell you.

sir I knw, but no matter the condition don't just fully fold ur arm and add nothing to the welfare of the family...just do anything legal to support.

mightyokwy:

Like i said pray you don't find your self in his condition. Until you find your self in his position then you will understand what it feels like seeing your woman with another man everytime without explanations and you knowing fully well that you can't do anything to change the situation hurts even the more. She should detach her work from her family knowing fully well how sensitive the nature of her work is. Allowing guys bringing her home always at midnight show that she doesn't regard the guy for anything. The guy is her man and derserve explanations. To you beacuse she is the bread winner she can do what she want abi. That sound funny. You just confirmed that it's not the fault of the guy that they have not legalized their relationship. Also what has the lady done to help him out in getting a taxi you mentioned. Are two of them not supposed to be working together for a greater future. Jumoke should give attention to her man.

Again, you are sounding so emotional. Is someone fuccking your woman? I am not on such economic bracket and will never be. I am not a religious guy, I am a realist, so I state facts without sentiments. Actually if this lady was my spec and I happen to see her suffering because a 'husband' could not take care of her and her kids, I will actually 'befriend' the woman irrespective of how the guy will feel. This is not a world of feeling feedback loop, but a plane for realists.

Stop being emotional. The pusssy will always be there for the guy, and no man can actually fucck enough, cos ladies loose count easily.

My worry for the guy is not the lost of fidelity, but how he will survive should the lady throw him out. That is why I emphasize on him hitting the streets and being a man. There are a lot of women who will 'die' for him if he has a lot of money to throw around, and for that reason a man must work, and very hard to earn a superior class.

Dont be emotional, it is what it is.

Babe, if modeling no dey pay again you can become a TV presenter. (Yoruba) E go pay u for life after all, u gat the looks.

My one kobo revelation...

This babe is high on skushi. You leave him to God to judge and you reveals everything. I suspect serious away match loading. Sidekicking fall on her

bigtt76:
She f@cked up by this last statement

I can't blame her for the statement the supposed find something do

mightyokwy:

Like i said pray you don't find your self in his condition. Until you find your self in his position then you will understand what it feels like seeing your woman with another man everytime without explanations and you knowing fully well that you can't do anything to change the situation hurts even the more. She should detach her work from her family knowing fully well how sensitive the nature of her work is. Allowing guys bringing her home always at midnight show that she doesn't regard the guy for anything. The guy is her man and derserve explanations. To you beacuse she is the bread winner she can do what she want abi. That sound funny. You just confirmed that it's not the fault of the guy that they have not legalized their relationship. Also what has the lady done to help him out in getting a taxi you mentioned. Are two of them not supposed to be working together for a greater future. Jumoke should give attention to her man.

A lazy guy deserves no attention from a woman. Such level of empathy will ground the family back to bread selling mode. Why cant you see that there is a difference between realism and emotional coloration. Wisdom is to separate emotion from realism of what this life is.

That guy is no longer on the class of that lady. She is kind enough to even keep him under her roof even though they are not married. On this planet, it is the responsibility of the man to take care of woman and the children and the woman can only assist. The Being who built humans put it there on those old books, yet you guys do not pay attention to details.

I actually think the lady needs to stop giving him some assistance so he can wake up and smell the coffee. Life is not fair, it was not designed to be fair at all.

The sooner he hits the street the better his lot will be. No one has unlimited elasticity in tolerance. Soon enough the lady will throw him out, cos that girl wey I see so, no ready to go back to hawking bread. Her pussy can secure her contact and contracts to get to the top. Every man reading this should understand how women think. They are there for the good moments, and if you have a woman that sticks with you during the bad moments, it is either she is not pretty, too religiously controlled, extreme respect for you not love or may be she is respecting herself.

Learn these hard truths and stop being emotional, son.

Capensis:


Again, you are sounding so emotional. Is someone fuccking your woman? I am not on such economic bracket and will never be. I am not a religious guy, I am a realist, so I state facts without sentiments. Actually if this lady was my spec and I happen to see her suffering because a 'husband' could not take care of her and her kids, I will actually 'befriend' the woman irrespective of how the guy will feel. This is not a world of feeling feedback loop, but a plane for realists.

Stop being emotional. The pusssy will always be there for the guy, and no man can actually fucck enough, cos ladies loose count easily.

My worry for the guy is not the lost of fidelity, but how he will survive should the lady throw him out. That is why I emphasize on him hitting the streets and being a man. There are a lot of women who will 'die' for him if he has a lot of money to throw around, and for that reason a man must work, and very hard to earn a superior class.

Dont be emotional, it is what it is.

Working smart is better than hard working. You can ask bricklayers and loaders of rice and cement

Ghostmode2two:


Working smart is better than hard working. You can ask bricklayers and loaders of rice and cement

Most people who talk about working smart are criminals. I just hope you are not one of them, but I do not really care how a man makes his bread, as long as your interest does not conflict with mine. It takes me sometimes 6 months to develop prototypes of my products and it is sheer hardwork and even planning, executions, operations and management so is daily optimizations, and innovations generated from feedback loops so I see no place in nature that we call it smart work. We always call it hardwork.

JudgeOGBUNABALI:
Most Male celebs celebrate their wives once they hit it big ... But most female celebs turn stardom to frustration for their male partners.
Why are most women so air headed?

sense dey your head. You said it all

You guys shouldn't kill this little girl abeg. Even educated, exposed, rich and trained celebrities fail on this matter too. Let alone one who had suffered poverty without a formal education like her. Men too feel lazy and will always like to show their ugly faces when their wives are making it, even when their levels are no longer the same.
....Chiefo....