Gaggi:


If she allows him have his way outside, he will likely stop 'hating'. She doesn't want another child and her partner desperately wants one, what is wrong in that? Let him go outside and get it, after all the burden of care will be on him. This craze of women wanting to keep the man to themselves is why many women discover their husband have kids outside wedlock when he dies. The man wants a kid with his wife and the wife says no, allow him go out then.
A woman who has a philandering husband still needs sexual satisfaction and it's only wise to use protection. or are u also suggesting she goes outside to get satisfied? Dear coco, not all women have whoring tendencies, irrespective of their partners behavior. Not all woman are like u liberals who believe whoring is a modern day virtue.

Chiamaka789022:

Thank you I'm interested can you please give more info

eniolorunfe:


Like you said above, Sex selection or Gender selection is an option for cases like this in this 21st century. Can you give more details about what it entails for others that may be interested, since you have gone through the process? I think it will be helpful information....just saying

danny34:



Hello, I have just threw more light on the sex selection. Thanks

danny34:
We are Africans, truth be told, most men will never be happy without a male child - ME INCLUSIVE! Do you notice that most who are advising you to divorce are fellow women. As a man this is my candid advice, do sex selection. You n your husband made mistakes not starting early to select your babies gender.

So take the family planning off, consult a trusted doctor to guide you. Select a male gender n boom give your family happiness. Its a good thing that both of you seem well to do financially.

I got married last year at 29, with is 25. Told with we will try for a boy, she said no, she wants a gal. I SAT HER DOWN N EXPLAIN O. I WANT AN HEIR, 2 SELF, THE EARLIER WE HAVE THEM THE BETTER FOR US O. Tried it n it worked. It can work for you too.

Contumely:


Could you say what you mean exactly by wanting an heir?

And what benefit or quiddity is such an heir to you upon your demise?

Again, how do you rationalise this your inordinate desire for an heir? Few reasons will suffice.

danny34:



Let me start my response this way... We are entitled to our opinions, views , likes n dislike.

I want a family where I would have 2 boys n a gal. It is my preference. Am entitled to think that way without recourse to what other think.

LadySarah:
This was My neighbour last yr After his wife birthed theirthird baby girl.Their rshp soured to the point that neighbours had to intervene and urged the mqn to make do with Those girls and train them well.
last last he went outside and got another lady pregnant.

He was so sure of a male ,he had already thteatened the wife .Lol,the day he came to inform My husband that the baby had arrived,My ears were itching .

Sidechick birthed a baby girl



Oga is humbled

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Life is so simple, y complicate things? Get pregnant and scan for the sex, if female u abort. But then take the issue to your God in prayers, he will definitely give him a son to carry on his name.

comtem2011:
Hmmmm, what an advice!!!!

PrimadonnaO:


How do you talk about God and abortion in one statement, though?

Chiamaka789022:

Thank you I'm interested can you please give more info

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Life is so simple, y complicate things? Get pregnant and scan for the sex, if female u abort. But then take the issue to your God in prayers, he will definitely give him a son to carry on his name.

LadySarah:
To raise one child these days isnt a small feat let alone four,then because of a ''male'' child will now amount to five.
Nne,God forbid but If he dies today,will You singlehandedly be able to raise 5 children?As in wetin he keep?Thats one question Every mother should Ask herself.
What is the guarantee that it will be a male?\

One Okonjo,Dora Or Amina Mohammed amongst your beautiful daughers isnt it better than this selfish journey he wants You to embark on?


For me,i'd say No,capital No.Any type of No

FORWARDEVERLY:
Any person that insults the man here is a useless fool.. the man wants a male child and no apologies for it..
That is his choice.. thank God he is a stoic fellow like me.. no one would cajole him to jettison such thoughts...
Y'all need to respect people's choices..

Clowns..

truthsayer009:


Do you know what it means to cater for 5 kids and above? I bet you don't even pay for the roof over your head.

Chommieblaq:
I cringe at some of the advice I'm reading here..
A man that publicly agreed you are dead!

Cococandy why are wasting your time, she clearly ignored your advice.

Op pray for your husband, fast too and don't forget to remove the family planning. Keep trying, if it's a girl abort it and try again, i guess this's exactly what you want to hear.