HARDDON:
her most important question is what caused the first marriage to crash? Why did he agree to the divorce?( dont think he would have if actually he is a christian that truly fears God unless ofcos, she was promiscuous.)

She should not only hear from him , but also other people and the stories shouldnt contrast.

has he truly changed? ( only God can answer this question, so she should ask him)


does she have a large heart and can be mother to all the kids, whether they stay with them or come visit ,without having to be wicked to them?


Kindly tell her: the last thing she should consider now, is those things u listed up there : "very okay, perfect character, handsome, God fearing, good family, financially ok"

if she is in doubt about this advise, let her ask the first wify how far!


May the good Lord direct her steps.

sisisioge:
Well if it's one, we say sheets happen.
If it's two, we say guy is Stoopid.
When it's three, we call him a serial wetinwetin.

Biko, if your girl is as hot as said let her carry her tent go pitch else where. Although, nobody holy pass o but some of us come smelling like roses compared to others in the sniff factory. Whew, it is well. May God help her .

silverr:


Amen o

well, she doesnt have access to the first wife. according to him, his first wife married him cus of money, she didnt love him. Disobeys him everytime and brings down heaven if he doesnt give in to her demands He initiated the divorce and she didnt object.

HARDDON:



Have access to the first wife? said that out of sarcasm... cos those probably where the thing the first wify saw and jump on! only to realise too late that all that glitters aint gold. you friends shouldnt make same mistake.

@ bolded, how can a man that have two kids from the extra worlds, give those reasons and she blivs him?

so is he telling us that he is perfect? it was all her fault? common! slap some sense into her.
and hey, there are always richer men than him, she could have married.


i hate to do this to a fellow guy but here is a lil secret question:

you are a woman Silver, when your man is cheating on you, do you still hold him in regards? that could be why she disrespects him and wano bring down the house each time....She must have been pained.

she didnt object because she was fed up too! and hey, here is the BIG one, did she cater away all his property during the divorce?

she married him for his money,never loved him yet she wasnt the one that initiated divorce so she cud lay her hands on the pie and be free? wow woman!

this is a big deal, any how she wano do it, she must investigate what really happened to his first marriage. look for old neighbors, ex wife's friends, family member, just about anybody. this is very easy. let her ask him his ex wife's full names. facebook is her friend thereafter.

if she doesnt do this and jumps head on, sorry is her case! cos from my ""old player's feelings", the guy luvs soup mixtures!

silverr:


Really strong points even I failed to notice.
I forgot to add that the lady was still okay till her friends and fam taught her to be an action lady. that was when he started seeking happiness elsewhere . According to him, she asked for 80% of all she knows he has.

talking to his ex-wife can be tricky cus we wont know if she's lying. Same with his family members.

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eyinjuege:
She should go and get someone else to marry.

He's impregnated 3 women, and none was good enough to marry? Your friend will soon become the 4th baby mama
Even if he's from a rich home, and equally rich himself she doesn't need so much baggage. I won't be surprised that the most attractive thing about him is his wealth.

Let your friend take her eyes off that

Quietboy2017:
Like if you think Op friend is considering the man because of money

thorpido:


Op,did you say 'perfect character' and 'God fearing'?Hmmm

silverr:


well, he claims it was in the past. so far he hasnt given us a reason to doubt him. Upon my advice, my friend set him up with 2 different girls who dont know themselves. One stripped herself naked in his sitting room and tried to seduce him but he threw her out almost naked. He told the other that he will ask his gateman toflog her the next time she visits.. we were on a call with the girls so we heard everythingg.
Since then, my friend wan hear anything again.

Mille:


The guy is just 34 and already has 4kids from 3 different women.

And yet you say he is God fearing and has a perfect character?

thorpido:
Too much baggage.
He should marry one of his baby mamas.

The only thing that is most attractive about him is his money and his 'player-handsomeness'.

Op,did you say 'perfect character' and 'God fearing'?Hmmmm

silverr:


let me set some things straight,
my friend is very well to do. considering the toll his divorce took on him, she's now richer. she has been the one spending on him. she recently got him a fitted office in v.i among many others I wont list. This is another thing that bothers me

DBestDoc:

How sure are you @ the emboldened?

This man sure knows how to use women to get what he wants, he's perfected the art of .

Cooked stories swallowed hook and sinker.
I sympathize with other sisters that fell victim to his charms and illusions of perfection he gives.
I wish his current catch all the best!

silverr:


well, he claims it was in the past. so far he hasnt given us a reason to doubt him. Upon my advice, my friend set him up with 2 different girls who dont know themselves. One stripped herself naked in his sitting room and tried to seduce him but he threw her out almost naked. He told the other that he will ask his gateman toflog her the next time she visits.. we were on a call with the girls so we heard everythingg.
Since then, my friend wan hear anything again.