Is this right for her to do.
Although I have told my female colleague and others to back off.
But she still keeps calling my phone.
Sometimes she is naked at night using psalms to curse and pray against them.
She claims they attack her in the dream.
I want to stop her from making those dangerous prayers just because of the innocent family members of the women. Some are married.
She says I can't stop her

Lol, this is funny.

She must have seen something and that is why she is making all those prayers. So keep off from them and face ur family

Her prayers won't work if they are not guilty, however, if they are.... ,

This one weak me...
someone help me with one of those 'weak me memes'.

LMAO. Your wife na modern day terrorist

You’re not saying the full story.

Why are you sympathetic to these women who are supposedly your admirers trying to put a rift between you and your wife if you value your wife and your marriage?

I’m sure if you want to someone to stop calling you, they will stop by the time you’re serious about it. There are many ways to acheive that. number blocking, threaten to report them to their husbands since they are married, seriously tell them off and make them uncomfortable about calling you.

If a guy is hitting on you when you’re not gay, I’m sure that by now they would have gotten the message loud and clear that you’re not interested. When it’s women, y’all suddenly become helpless victims who can’t show disinterest and mean it.

The fact that there’s even multiple women ‘admiring’ you Mr George Clooney, says a lot. You’re obviously the problem. Focus on your wife.

Hmmm

Terrible wife,signs of witchcraft

But why are you bothered.
Maybe you haven't been treating her right.
Have you been comparing her with those women.
Leave madam alone o
Is it not God that answers prayers?
If there hands are clean, nothing will happen, and if otherwise, God knows how best to answer prayers.
I love your wife by the way

Poster,
She is raining mountain of fire and miracle on your admirers, you should be praying the prayers work so those admirers would leave you alone!
Those admirers just love your money-open ya eyes!

lol

I HATE men who love attention, they act like women

if I hear say you say make them stop

if it was the other way I know you would have seized her phone and ban her from going out

The other women are not the problem; you are. She took her vows with you, not them. As a married man you shouldn't be behaving [with other women] in ways that make your wife feel threatened.

Why should that disturb you?
If there is no admirer the prayer will not work na. But if there is, They should mind there business and you too should mind your family and stop being sympathetic to admirers with evil intentions.

nnamdibig:
Why should that disturb you?
If there is no admirer the prayer will not work na. But if there is, They should mind there business and you too should mind your family and stop being sympathetic to admirers with evil intentions.

Well spoken bro

My wife knows am not a woman woman person. I don't know why she's taking it too far.
Plz how else do I make her understand that I don't intend to cheat on her ever.
If I leave their calls or chat she complains.if I delete them just to avoid issues she says am hiding something. Cos I forgot to delete one time. I didn't know she has gone through them before I deleted them.
I don't have any interest in those women. But you know how desperate some women could be I was trying not to be harsh till their feelings fade away. But wifey doesn't see it that way.
Now she says she doesn't trust me again.
It's destroying my marriage.

Na waoh! Na real terrorist your wife be aswear! Just advise her to pray that your dckk won't stand except for her; that would be a better prayer point.

Mfm pikin

SAMBARRY:
Mfm pikin

iya aura e Ku jor mefa

How would you want her to handle it if some guy was hitting on her?

Patman123:
My wife knows am not a woman woman person. I don't know why she's taking it too far.
Plz how else do I make her understand that I don't intend to cheat on her ever.
If I leave their calls or chat she complains.if I delete them just to avoid issues she says am hiding something. Cos I forgot to delete one time. I didn't know she has gone through them before I deleted them.
I don't have any interest in those women. But you know how desperate some women could be I was trying not to be harsh till their feelings fade away. But wifey doesn't see it that way.
Now she says she doesn't trust me again.
It's destroying my marriage.

Nothing is destroying your marriage. Your wife might be a little insecure but you are the problem here. She said she don't like those women, get rid of them simple. If she is uncomfortable seeing you communicate with them, simply cut them off. Tell them in black and white that your wife don't like their continuous closeness to her husband that they should mind their business and look for a single guy to be close to.

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Now she says she doesn't trust me again.
It's destroying my marriage.

You must have hurt her to say she doesn't trust you anymore.
You can make her trust you again.
What kind of friendship are you having with Women that want to sleep with you.
Stop deleting those chats and SMS and let her see how you have been firm in saying No to these women. No beating around the bush.
Block them and make sure you don't respond to their calls from any other number.
Put yourself in your wife's shoes.
If a man on your street tries to woe your wife and everyday you keep seeing her gisting and laughing away with that same man.
How would you feel?
Won't you question her fidelity.

Patman123:
My wife knows am not a woman woman person. I don't know why she's taking it too far.
Plz how else do I make her understand that I don't intend to cheat on her ever.
If I leave their calls or chat she complains.if I delete them just to avoid issues she says am hiding something. Cos I forgot to delete one time. I didn't know she has gone through them before I deleted them.
I don't have any interest in those women. But you know how desperate some women could be I was trying not to be harsh till their feelings fade away. But wifey doesn't see it that way.
Now she says she doesn't trust me again.
It's destroying my marriage.

Will you feel be comfortable with your wife "trying not to be harsh with her male admirers, hoping their feelings would fade away?"

Lol, ashewo attention seeking man. You married the woman that has your medicine. With all those curses you will be afraid to go further with those women you are gathering around you. It is only a matter of time before you start multiple affairs and your wife has seen it. So she is being proactive. Focus on your marriage, your career and your family and stop looking for trouble where there should be none.

Bro, I understand your situation. It's possible you have her caused to doubt you and it's also possible that she's just a naturally insecure female when it comes to her man. Whichever it is, it falls on you to reassure her regularly of your commitment and fidelity to her and rebuild her trust in you. And seriously, if you sternly tell those females not to call you again, they won't, except there's something else they are looking for - whichever it is, you know how to get them to stop calling, except there're some things you are not saying. If she keeps at it and continues to disturb you on this subject and acts out, you should both seek counselling with your Priest/Pastor or a marriage counselor. Trust takes time to rebuild once lost, so patience on your part is essential. If however she remains adamant over an extended period of time, then it might be that she had always been an insecure woman and you either failed to notice it or ignored the warning signs. In this case, you have a whole lot of more patience to exercise.

Patman123:
My wife knows am not a woman woman person. I don't know why she's taking it too far.
Plz how else do I make her understand that I don't intend to cheat on her ever.
If I leave their calls or chat she complains.if I delete them just to avoid issues she says am hiding something. Cos I forgot to delete one time. I didn't know she has gone through them before I deleted them.
I don't have any interest in those women. But you know how desperate some women could be I was trying not to be harsh till their feelings fade away. But wifey doesn't see it that way.
Now she says she doesn't trust me again.
It's destroying my marriage.

Oga , allow your wife to pray against them abeg!

Some ladies of these days are so desperate and diabolicall. They can go to any level to destroy a home . Your wife is very wise, let her continue to protect her home against karishikas.
One of my neighbour home has been destroyed by gf of the husband . its just too bad . the husband has turned his back against his lovely kids and wife . His only son's life is at risk now. Failed plans to kill the son happened recently .

Biko keep away from female admirers o!

Women are desperate and wicked o! No say , I no warn u o!

Patman123:
Is this right for her to do.
Although I have told my female colleague and others to back off.
But she still keeps calling my phone.
Sometimes she is naked at night using psalms to curse and pray against them.
She claims they attack her in the dream.
I want to stop her from making those dangerous prayers just because of the innocent family members of the women. Some are married.
She says I can't stop her

There is no smoke without fire

You must have given her the impression that you have female admires

You must have give her the impression that you are a ladies man

You would have stopped paying attention to her

You must have stopped showing her affection, that is if you have ever done so before

Cutail your excesses and seat her down, talk to her and prove your innocence

What she is doing is as a result of her state of mind not being happy

If you have or keep female's she must not suspect you at all

Women can detect danger in marriage more than men

ahnie:

iya aura e Ku jor mefa

hey my love

Patman123:
Is this right for her to do.
Although I have told my female colleague and others to back off.
But she still keeps calling my phone.
Sometimes she is naked at night using psalms to curse and pray against them.
She claims they attack her in the dream.
I want to stop her from making those dangerous prayers just because of the innocent family members of the women. Some are married.
She says I can't stop her

Do you want her to pray for them?

Eeyah! The travails of a chic magnet.
Omo dara o dejo
Poor Mr hot cake
Fresh boi always segzy
It's not your fault admirers are attracted to your Adonis good looks
What's a sweet boy supposed to do?
Not give them his phone number? Of course not, that would be uncivilized
Set boundaries? Of course not, that would be snobbish
Tell them to leave you alone? That's a taboo!

You'd better start doing the right thing before your wife adds your name to her midnight ritual

Those midnight prayers strong and dey potent! So he knows that is why he is concerned

Op, it is the very right things to do especially if your name is added o. You better stay away from the female admirers and ease your wife's mind.

bukatyne:


Do you want her to pray for them?