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Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Jenifa123: 3:29pm On Mar 10, 2019
Good afternoon everyone and happy Sunday.
Please I need your advice for a friend that is going through a phase right now.
Let's call this my friend James.

So James is in love with a certain lady who he introduced to the family, at first the family accepted her whole heartily and was happy about the marriage until recently when it was revealed that the said lady has a 10 months old child for another guy, now the parents are on his neck to end the relationship with the said lady and note please the sister of the James said God told her that the lady is the one for James.

Please I need your advice for a friend.
Thank you
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by peteruuu(m): 3:30pm On Mar 10, 2019
Jenifa123:
Good afternoon everyone and happy Sunday.
Please I need your advice for a friend that is going through a phase right now.
Let's call this my friend James.

So James is in love with a certain lady who he introduced to the family, at first the family accepted her whole heartily and was happy about the marriage until recently when it was revealed that the said lady has a 10 months old child for another guy, now the parents are on his neck to end the relationship with the said lady and note please the sister of the James said God told her that the lady is the one for James.

Please I need your advice for a friend.
Thank you
grin it's always 'A FRIEND'

Hanti! Tell us the truth grin cheesy
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by dingbang(m): 3:32pm On Mar 10, 2019
But the lady in question should tell the truth, does she have a kid out of wedlock?

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Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Jenifa123: 3:33pm On Mar 10, 2019
dingbang:
But the lady in question should tell the truth, does she have a kid out of wedlock?
Yep she does
A 10 month old child
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Jenifa123: 3:33pm On Mar 10, 2019
peteruuu:

grin it's always[b] a friend[/b]...

Hanti! Tell us the truth grin cheesy
Uncle Thomas.
It's for a male friend
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by dingbang(m): 3:34pm On Mar 10, 2019
Jenifa123:

Yep she does
A 10 month old child
ok. The husband should be her advocate now sha and make the parents see reasons why the baby won't bring problems in the future.
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Jenifa123: 3:36pm On Mar 10, 2019
dingbang:
ok.
According to him, she did.
But he didn't tell d family, the said sister found out and told the family.
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Jenifa123: 3:37pm On Mar 10, 2019
dingbang:
ok. The husband should be her advocate now sha and make the parents see reasons why the baby won't bring problems in the future.
That seems impossible since the parents doesn't want to hear of it
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Nobody: 3:38pm On Mar 10, 2019
Jenifa123:
Good afternoon everyone and happy Sunday.
Please I need your advice for a friend that is going through a phase right now.
Let's call this my friend James.

So James is in love with a certain lady who he introduced to the family, at first the family accepted her whole heartily and was happy about the marriage until recently when it was revealed that the said lady has a 10 months old child for another guy, now the parents are on his neck to end the relationship with the said lady and note please the sister of the James said God told her that the lady is the one for James.

Please I need your advice for a friend.
Thank you


Is it family that will live the marriage for him

His answer to this question is what he needs
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by dingbang(m): 3:38pm On Mar 10, 2019
Jenifa123:

According to him, she did.
But he didn't tell d family, the said sister found out and told the family.
ok so its his fault then. He should clear his mistake. Some sisters can be so annoying. Why didn't she go through him first, if I have such kind of sister I swear, I will be highly disappointed in her and may not forgive her until she fixes what she caused.
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Jenifa123: 3:39pm On Mar 10, 2019
dingbang:
ok so its his fault then. He should clear his mistake. Some sisters can be so annoying. Why didn't she go through him first, if I have such kind of sister I swear, I will be highly disappointed in her and may not forgive her until she fixes what she caused.
The sister took permission from him before telling the parents sha
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by dingbang(m): 3:40pm On Mar 10, 2019
Jenifa123:

That seems impossible since the parents doesn't want to hear of it
well, at this juncture, I think he should just give her belle then. grin

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Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by dingbang(m): 3:41pm On Mar 10, 2019
Jenifa123:

The sister took permission from him before telling the parents sha
something that he is supposed to tell the parents by himself. I think the guy sef is not man enough.

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Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Jenifa123: 3:42pm On Mar 10, 2019
dingbang:
well, at this juncture, I think he should just give her belle then. grin
grin grin grin cheesy
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by madridguy(m): 3:53pm On Mar 10, 2019
The guy in question should listen to his family otherwise he will regret is action.
Marrying a lady with a baby daddy is completely waste of time.

Let the lady go back to her husband " the father of her 10 month old baby ".

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Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by donbenie(m): 4:51pm On Mar 10, 2019
Abuheekmat:



Is it family that will live the marriage for him

His answer to this question is what he needs
Ol'boy forget o..

If you enter a marriage without the blessings of your family..

You're in for a long thing.. shocked
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Nobody: 4:58pm On Mar 10, 2019
donbenie:
Ol'boy forget o..

If you enter a marriage without the blessings of your family..

You're in for a long thing.. shocked


It's not blessings but curse to allow them to make you marry whom you don't want..
It's marriage we call it... Not dating. .

No parent would want his or her kid to suffer in marriage......

I don't know why people take woman that has given birth as stigma that singles shouldn't marry..

Dumb cultural crap
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Maxi3k(m): 6:06pm On Mar 10, 2019
If that niggá loves her he should marry her

Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by lobell: 6:14pm On Mar 10, 2019
Jenifa123:
Good afternoon everyone and happy Sunday.
Please I need your advice for a friend that is going through a phase right now.
Let's call this my friend James.

So James is in love with a certain lady who he introduced to the family, at first the family accepted her whole heartily and was happy about the marriage until recently when it was revealed that the said lady has a 10 months old child for another guy, now the parents are on his neck to end the relationship with the said lady and note please the sister of the James said God told her that the lady is the one for James.

Please I need your advice for a friend.
Thank you

How old was the baby when they started dating? James comes off as a weakling and is trying to help her by marrying her. I will not be surprised if she was his girlfriend and left him to get pregnant and is now back to James with some sob story about how it is him she always loved.

Women can be evil sha. Quickly looking for maga to take care of her and her baby since baby daddym is not forthcoming.

Better tell that spineless Arrow that he should run away as fast as his short short legs will allow him. There are plenty girls out there that have not open eye and he should go find himself one.

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Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Nobody: 6:15pm On Mar 10, 2019
Jenifa123:

grin grin grin cheesy
Knowing how dicey such matter can get with parents, he should have told everyone that he is the baby daddy.
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Powermind: 6:28pm On Mar 10, 2019
lobell:


How old was the baby when they started dating? James comes off as a weakling and is trying to help her by marrying her. I will not be surprised if she was his girlfriend and left him to get pregnant and is now back to James with some sob story about how it is him she always loved.

Women can be evil sha. Quickly looking for maga to take care of her and her baby since baby daddym is not forthcoming.

Better tell that spineless Arrow that he should run away as fast as his short short legs will allow him. There are plenty girls out there that have not open eye and he should go find himself one.

This is exactly what I wanted to post. You can imagine such a wicked lady! Ten months old baby!!! Haba!! How long have they even been dating that he wants to marry her? What if the baby daddy later comes back and says he wants the lady back. Nna she should wait till the baby is grown to like 2 years to clear all doubts of any return of her baby daddy before thinking of even dating

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Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by Printerscanner: 7:10pm On Mar 10, 2019
He should not try it. There are millions of young single ladies, responsible and Godly. This fornicator and baby mama should go and get married to Alhaji Megida and be his 7th wife. Useless olosho. Baby mamas are useless prostitutes.

Fellow baby mamas that have picked up cutlasses and guns, go fight your baby daddy.
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by revolt(m): 8:00pm On Mar 10, 2019
The family is simply wise. He will regret his life. The guy wants to wreck his life.
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by frozen70(f): 10:22pm On Mar 10, 2019
The most important thing in marriage is happiness of both parties

What leads to happiness is love for each other

If the guy in question is happier with her despite she has an infant, it's his choice,
He already knows that she is nursing a baby

His parents should allow him to follow his heart

He is the one in the field and he is the one in procession of the ball, he should be left to play it well

Marriage is not for sentiments but for true love and happiness
Re: Parents Does Not Want Him To Get Married To A Woman Who Has Given Birth by SOFTDRINK: 2:05pm On Mar 11, 2019
The parents are right.


No sane man marries a single mother. Why will a man waste his money marrying a single mother when he can get better girls for the same price?


If the lady wants to marry,she should go and look for single fathers, divorcees ,polygamist etc.



No sensible single man will spend his money to marry a second hand.

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