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Daeylar:
Churchhill is a kind, gentle and generous man
A man who refused to pay for his child's schooling is a "kind gentle and generous" man.
A man who refuses to give money towards the upkeep of his child is a 'kind gentle and generous' man.
A man who due to his poor treatment of his child made the courts grant full custody of his child to the mother is a "kind gentle and generous" man.
These are the attributes of a kind gentle and generous man while Tonto is the one who has problems.

If a man can treat his child that came out of his body with such disregard and disrespect, is it Tonto that he will treat with love and respect?

But according to uche the fool, tonto should have kept quiet, to protect the utter wickedness of churchhill so that she would be seen as a good, drama free peaceful woman and wife material abi?

This man is nothing but stupid shameless misogynistic dog of a man.
Idiot.

Shameless feminist spotted. You don cast. No be today.

omooba969:
What's wrong with the guy?

Nothing wrong with a man who is more known for his gossiping ways than his achievements in his chosen field.

He is no better than Tonto, always running headlong to comment on things that don't concern him.

Pavore9:
Nothing wrong with a man who is more known for his gossiping ways than his achievements in his chosen field.

The Message or The Messenger...?

Abeg pick one.

Gloriagee:
You are not in a position to define who's a wife material. One man's meat is another man's poison...

A poison remains a poison, doesn't change in character.

omooba969:
The Message or The Messenger...?

Abeg pick one.

When the messenger cones from a judgemental point of view, the message loses essence.

Does he look like someone responsible enough to head a home? If he terms the person he is scathing as a failure, let him show the world how he has been a first class husband!

Totobulie:
@uche. One mans meat is another mans poison. She is not a wife material to u, but she is to somebody. I have seen a lot of guys get married to a lot of women that most holy and responsible women condem. The same way she did not meet your criteria of wife material is the way you, uche will not also meet some other people's criteria of wife material. For example, I personally don't like a wife that sticks her nose into people's affairs, so I could say you lack already one of the attribute I seek for in a woman. Now let me ask you @uche.... Do you think u can make tasty and delicious meal that I will ok? Are you neat enough to be my wife? Do you smell good almost always? What's does your sex level read on the sex meter scale? Answer these questions and know if you are a wife material.

You couldn't help but show your love & voracity for sex.... you too like sex!

Obudupikin:
I agree, totally.

I agree too.


BTW, Obudupikin, I did enjoy Govt Guest House, Obudu in those days I came to your place.

Pavore9:
When the messenger cones from a judgemental point of view, the message loses essence.

Does he look like someone responsible enough to head a home? If he terms the person he is scathing as a failure, let him show the world how he has been a first class husband!

You're inadvertently picking on the Messenger, I clearly understand where your sentiment lies.

Are you also denying the Message?

She may be the victim of a Yoruba demon. Very likely. Or a victim of a man whose heart was stolen by another fair lady and her inability to keep calm through the pain given her earlier post/ latent unhealed pain of losing her mother so lashes out. Or theirs was a case of just unseen incompatible personalities in love/lust bound to fall apart.

Maybe karma.

Anyway it shouldn't be Uche who she "loves" picking her apart.
None wife material to one may be Wife material to another. It depends on the two personalities involved.

But i always saw that something wasn't very right on Churchhills side. He was always looking like one cockhold, half interested and being coerced into it unlike Tonto who was always looking soo excited.

omooba969:
You're inadvertently picking on the Messenger, I clearly understand where your sentiment lies.

Are you also denying the Message?

Which one concern me with weda person be wife material or not, does is lessen or add to me? If a man who have successfully steered his marriage for over 20 years makes comment about what/who should not be a no-go area when it comes to marriage, I listen up but not riff-raffs!

Pavore9:
Which one concern me with weda person be wife material or not, does is lessen or add to me? If a man who have successfully steered his marriage for over 20 years makes comment about what/who should not be a no-go area when it comes to marriage, I listen up but not riff-raffs!

Lol ...ok

flexyfit:
Hmm...this one is looking for trouble

Did he mention anybody's name?

toto dikeh is a successful prostitute actress.

She is actually not...

brenister10:
Another Tonto e-warrior spotted. Just pray your brother or your son doesn't marry someone like Tonto

I don't know Tonto, she doesn't know me. I just have an issue with this man poke nosing in everyone's business.

kolafolabi:
I am seriously waiting for Tonto Dikeh's epic reply..

WHICH EPIC REPLY SHE HAS APART TO CAUSE

dis guy just lik attention sha.hu ask u na.

since when is being a wife material an achievement. Misplace priorities in Africa. So maybe he should tell us if he is a husband material....

princetemitee:
Just passing by

Where you dey go

Must Every Woman B Good 4 Marriage? Abi U Neva C Rugged Wife? Bcuz Tonto Projected Her's.. Wife Master.. Wait She Go Reply U .

Woman Lapa

It's true. She's a quarrelsome person. Who no like peace for house?

That being said, he should mind his business.

Seriously waiting for Tonto reply

Keep your fallacy to yourself pls.

I see awesomeness in that lady, if she is for me, I have no issues having her as a wife.

Treat her well and be loyal. You've got no worries, but if you cheat and expect her to clap you. You rather think twice.

donstan18:
He said nothing but the bitter truth.

Before you doubt him, ask yourself is you can marry a woman with Tonto Dike type of character and aggressiveness.

And also ask yourself if you will be happy to see your son marry a woman like her.

Tonto Dike deserves not to be called a wife. No reasonable man can tolerate her.

Pavore9:
Will you be comfortable with your sister marrying this guy?

Irrelevant..

Tonto is not a wife material..

Or would you wish to marry a woman like her?

If you think Uche Maduagwu is not a husband material..

Then open a thread on his head..

nuele:
Keep your fallacy to yourself pls.

I see awesomeness in that lady, if she is for me, I have no issues having her as a wife.

Treat her well and be loyal. You've got no worries, but if you cheat and expect her to clap you. You rather think twice.

Awesomeness

Joke of the year..

I could have bet my two balls that marriage was destined for the scrap heap,even before it was contracted..

That's how awesome,she was..

The woman is a bitch of the first order..

Before the marriage and after the divorce..

She has been nothing but a bitch..

I get that you're a fan..

But, AWESOME..

God bless Brother Uche..no woman behaving like Tonto can maintain a successful relationship with a Yoruba man ..Imagine a woman trying to dominate your life In this modern age ! Even the bible teaches that a wise woman keeps her home..Any woman that can't fight to sustain her marriage is unfit to marry .
It takes serous battle to maintain love .

You simply viewing it from one perspective.

Nevertheless, motives play a huge role here (both ways), but I am of an opinion that she is awesome.

donbenie:
Awesomeness

Joke of the year..

I could have bet my two balls that marriage was destined for the scrap heap,even before it was contracted..

That's how awesome,she was..

The woman is a bitch of the first order..

Before the marriage and after the divorce..

She has been nothing but a bitch..

I get that you're a fan..

But, AWESOME..

nuele:
You simply viewing it from one perspective.

Nevertheless, motives play a huge role here (both ways), but I am of an opinion that she is awesome.

No bro,am a married man of ten years experience..

Believe me,some people are not meant to be in a marriage..

Look at Mercy Johnson,now that's one classy lady..

Tonto may have her good qualities,but being a good wife ain't one of those..

I hate people that don't mind their business especially one concerning marriage .
Their is this couple where I deed my IT in Lagos , the husband those not eat the wife's food or talk to her but yet he provides for them and still can't take any shit from anybody in the compound. when his wife is insulted by any of them. He would fight with his last breath over her case yet he doesn't eat her food or anything that comes from her.
I don't know when people will ever learn to mind their business , let's learn to stay away from other peoples marriage affairs .