My wife and I have been married for 5 months now. Though we planned not to have babies until after a year or two but things changed after the marriage cuz we told our parents and they instantly kicked against the idea. I mean both parents.
But for 5 months now, we've been trying to have a child and it's just not happening.
Although she's been battling with fake pregnancy symptoms since then.
We decided to go to hospital for checkup, the results from 2 different hospitals confirmed that we are both okay and nothing should be stopping us from having a child.
Tho I'm not worried about this but she is so I'm kinda curious, is there something we are doing wrong?
Fathers in the house, doctors and midwives.

(Mods, please don't move this to frontpage, I'm a little popular in my area and I don't want people to start calling me)

raa1:
just continue to pray and trust God ,dont give up

Alright... Thank you.

Always have sex at 1:34 AM, thank me later.......

It will come when you least expect it. Try and find out from you doctor when your wife is ovulating.. Good luck.

She shouldn't be that anxious. Babycenter.com is useful for married couples

Ladiesdream:
Always have sex at 1:34 AM, thank me later.......

Really?

chukxie:
It will come when you least expect it. Try and find out from you doctor when your wife is ovulating.. Good luck.

Thank you

Kelvin30286063:
My wife and I have been married for 5 months now. Though we planned not to have babies until after a year or two but things changed after the marriage cuz we told our parents and they instantly kicked against the idea. I mean both parents.
But for 5 months now, we've been trying to have a child and it's just not happening.
Although she's been battling with fake pregnancy symptoms since then.
We decided to go to hospital for checkup, the results from 2 different hospitals confirmed that we are both okay and nothing should be stopping us from having a child.
Tho I'm not worried about this but she is so I'm kinda curious, is there something we are doing wrong?
Fathers in the house, doctors and midwives.

(Mods, please don't move this to frontpage, I'm a little popular in my area and I don't want people to start calling me)

I am a naturopath in Ghana and can assist you. You however need to work with your wife on this.

Not all women understand their cycle or know their fertile periods which enhances the chances of conception.

1) When next your wife begins to see her period, mark the date an write it down somewhere you can remember. From when she begins seeing her period to the next time it begins is known as her cycle. Some women have 28 day cycles while others have 32 and so on. A 28 day cycle means when she begins her period on the 1st, she is likely to ovulate on or around the 14th.

You first need to identify her cycle then it becomes easier to pinpoint her fertile period and ovulation day.

Her fertile period is around 5 days prior to her ovulation and 1 day after. For example if she is to ovulate on the 14th, you can start meeting with her from the 9th and give it a space of 2 days per meeting. So 9th, 11th, 13th and 15th. For good measure you can meet with her on the 14th as well if you are able. Under optimum conditions, sperm normally survives in a woman for up to 72hrs while the egg from the woman survives for just 24 hrs. So just in case she does not ovulate on the 14th and does so on the 13th or 15th the chances are high that there would still be sperm in her waiting to fertilize the egg.

I normally do not advice couples who are trying to have children to be too focused on timing but its always good to have it at the back of your mind just in case you want to also avoid those fertile periods and thus avoid pregnancy.

2) If your pocket is able enough you can also get her Pregnacare conception from the pharmacy. Its a mix of high levels of vitamins the female reproductive system requires in order to better the chances of conception. There is also Pregnacare for men.

3) I am going to be a bit blunt at this point. Position taken during sex is also important especially at the point of ejaculation.

From behind or doggy is good because it allows for deeper penetration and will help the sperm deposit get closer to the cervix.

Missionary is also excellent as well as leg on shoulders.

Try to avoid the standing position because gravity works against the sperm even though they are very good swimmers, you still need to maximize their chances.

Follow my advice and your wife would be flaunting a baby bump in no time (as long as the gynaecologist has cleared both of you of other hindrances).

If you need further assistance you can reach me privately.

Give yourself at least a year.

Adalassy:


I am a naturopath in Ghana and can assist you. You however need to work with your wife on this.

Not all women understand their cycle or know their fertile periods which enhances the chances of conception.

1) When next your wife begins to see her period, mark the date an write it down somewhere you can remember. From when she begins seeing her period to the next time it begins is known as her cycle. Some women have 28 day cycles while others have 32 and so on. A 28 day cycle means when she begins her period on the 1st, she is likely to ovulate on or around the 14th.

You first need to identify her cycle then it becomes easier to pinpoint her fertile period and ovulation day.

Her fertile period is around 5 days prior to her ovulation and 1 day after. For example if she is to ovulate on the 14th, you can start meeting with her from the 9th and give it a space of 2 days per meeting. So 9th, 11th, 13th and 15th. For good measure you can meet with her on the 14th as well if you are able. Under optimum conditions, sperm normally survives in a woman for up to 72hrs while the egg from the woman survives for just 24 hrs. So just in case she does not ovulate on the 14th and does so on the 13th or 15th the chances are high that there would still be sperm in her waiting to fertilize the egg.

I normally do not advice couples who are trying to have children to be too focused on timing but its always good to have it at the back of your mind just in case you want to also avoid those fertile periods and thus avoid pregnancy.

2) If your pocket is able enough you can also get her Pregnacare conception from the pharmacy. Its a mix of high levels of vitamins the female reproductive system requires in order to better the chances of conception. There is also Pregnacare for men.

3) I am going to be a bit blunt at this point. Position taken during sex is also important especially at the point of ejaculation.

From behind or doggy is good because it allows for deeper penetration and will help the sperm deposit get closer to the cervix.

Missionary is also excellent as well as leg on shoulders.

Try to avoid the standing position because gravity works against the sperm even though they are very good swimmers, you still need to maximize their chances.

Follow my advice and your wife would be flaunting a baby bump in no time (as long as the gynaecologist has cleared both of you of other hindrances).

If you need further assistance you can reach me privately.

Wow, that's revealing. Thank you

Kelvin30286063:

Thank you

You're welcome !

Kelvin30286063:

Really?

The Lord has spoken, your children are on the way.

Kelvin30286063:
My wife and I have been married for 5 months now. Though we planned not to have babies until after a year or two but things changed after the marriage cuz we told our parents and they instantly kicked against the idea. I mean both parents.
But for 5 months now, we've been trying to have a child and it's just not happening.
Although she's been battling with fake pregnancy symptoms since then.
We decided to go to hospital for checkup, the results from 2 different hospitals confirmed that we are both okay and nothing should be stopping us from having a child.
Tho I'm not worried about this but she is so I'm kinda curious, is there something we are doing wrong?
Fathers in the house, doctors and midwives.

(Mods, please don't move this to frontpage, I'm a little popular in my area and I don't want people to start calling me)

Procrastination is dangerous while TTC, since fertility decreases with aging particularly for women. For unexplained fertility Orthodox assistance is never the way out! its not deceit but the gospel truth. visit my thread on infertility to learn more about my raw herbal fertility treatment. please I don't sell herbs, I only use it to naturally assist conception.