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Namady:
Thanks dear... you sound like a psychologist.

psychologist by experience not profession. Life has taught me a hand full.

Namady:
Sadly she’s the last born. Sorry lad

both of u MUST make "compromise" a watch-word (should i elaborate?)

show her what it means 2 be honest, sincere &truthful in real.financially and otherwise ok?

Namady:
our wedding is scheduled to take place on 23th March 2019. The Pre-wedding photos are attached below.
I have been on Nairaland since 2010 and I have learned a lot. So, I want to use this medium to seek for your advice as I am about to start a new life.
Lemme me very brief. I’m a private Sch teacher with Master’s degree while my fiencee is a registered nurse already working with state government. We dated for 7 years but we hardly spend more than two weeks together in a year. What advice can you give us? ��

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Look for a better job but get married Sha
I know your wife earns way better than u now don't be comfortable with that. Else u will learn the hard way. For me u r jobless almost, working in a private school where u can be fired anytime

Just ensure you love and respect one another.

Oyindidi:
Learn to tolerate your partner as love alone can't keep a marriage. You're both coming from a different background so study your likes and dislike so as to live in harmony.

Don't deny yourselves some good romance, its bonds couples.

Don't sleep with your kids on same bed when they start coming

The last point is very important but I noticed that most parents do it. For me, from the day my baby left the hospital, she slept in her own bed. There are exceptions...when she wakes up and is uncomfortable. But as soon as she falls asleep, she's is back in her bed most times.

Good advice

Namady:
Sadly she’s the last born. Sorry lad

Sadly? That should be a plus for you . No younger siblings to add to the equation.

ogawisdom:
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Look for a better job but get married Sha
I know your wife earns way better than u now don't be comfortable with that. Else u will learn the hard way. For me u r jobless almost, working in a private school where u can be fired anytime

I’m on it already. Thanks

Never invite third party into your home, neither parents, siblings nor friends. I wish you best of luck, congratulations