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CHoccolaTE:
Men are just selfish and sex obsessed that's why they keep vomitting this thrash about men can have sex without emotions so wives should tolerate their cheating.
In fact the more I read Nairaland men's comments the more I realise how very useless, senseless and extremely selfish Nigerian men are

So your wives should be 100% faithful while you cheat because you can have sex without emotions?

What about men that end up loving their girlfriend so much thy marry them and start rejecting/abandoning their first wives like the evil pieces of shiit many men are?

What about STDs? Or you think condoms protect against every single sexually transmitted disease? Newsflash, there are diseases you can get even after having sex with a condom. So after catching on of these diseases you want to go back home to infect an innocent woman who was busy staying faithful and respecting herself?

What about if your condom tears during sex and you get another woman pregnant? Or worse contact HIV from her? Should your wife also stay and start taking HIV drugs forever because you were a fool that had no control over his sex urges?

Fight corrupt politicians them no fit fight, only to come online and fight women and claim superiority when the rest of the world disrespects them for being dishonest scammers.

Nigerian men are a disgrace.

that was well said...na only women matter Nigerian men get power reach, but when it comes to speaking up against the ill in the society they become weak and speechless.

I don't understand men who keep women for more than sexual pleasure. Marrying a woman is the biggest risk a man can take. From the start of the union, she's likely to trick you into raising a bastard.

When she cheats, she will take your weaknesses, your secrets and hand it to her new lover, if the lover is manipulative enough, he could make her destroy you via poisoning or assassination.

There are so many life-ending risks that come with Marrying a woman. But Almost none for women Marrying a man.


I'm talking about this from the perspective that women control the sex market. Women don't seek sex. They give sex. Men don't give sex, Men find sex.

SEX is like a commodity to women. They give but want something from you. Either your dicksize, money, attention sexual prowress etc..... But men just want to nut. They just want to ejaculate and leave.

My point is, women value sex. They have been socially engineered to see sex as a prized possesion. They're extremely careful with who they give it to. That's why men Men pay for it.

By getting married, a man has purchased the right to his wife's vagina. The vagina not only belongs to her.

Now giving away your vagina when you're not married is a different thing. But giving your vagina out when a man has purchased the rights to it is a big problem.


This is more than just gender. This is how we have been socially engineered. A man cannot work hard, pay a huge amount of money to get married to you, work hard to care for you, then you go and give sex freely to another man.



The point OP is trying to make is, there is a stigma that comes with cheating for women, if you can ignore the stigma and repercussions, and still go ahead and cheat, then you can do anything. Including killing your husband.

toplinetrtrend:
women should go ahead and marry more than one husband nah. Let's see how they will fair

the last time I even checked on women who have more than 1 husband, the kids don't fair well, in fact the women doesn't actually do well,

joxxy01:
As a guy, maybe u should consider marrying a porn star and then u would understand what the article meant on the long run

nice one, he should try watch unfaithful, it's an American movie, he probably must have watched it but failed to grab d story line

kennygee:
Na wa o

Do we forget that God will not judge us based on our gender but on sins committed?

It is very okay for a man to cheat but it is dangerous for a woman to?

The Bible says that God looked at His creation and said Everything he created was good. So God created men to be polygamous so they can commit the adultery/fornication He said is a sin?

Make Jesus do come abeg.

When you legally marry your wives, it is no more fornication and adultery.

The Lord will help us. Both men and women are not allowed to cheat in a relationship, but Men can still control their Emotions even if you are sexing them than woman would do.

frozen70:
Your statements are true words

Women are delicate people to love

The only way out is for a man to love his wife and avoid situations that will warrant her to have any reason whatsoever to love another man

Women have just one heart and once its not taken care they move on to another man with the same heart of love to give to him

Men have more than one heart of love to give that's why you see them having a wife and still have girlfriend yet the love is not clashing in this head and he can still handle both women in his life

It's not so for women

The moment a woman who is married finds love with another
Automatically the attention is shifted to the new man

It's a situation that can be avoided by men

How should it be avoided

Firstly marry a woman you are willing to show love to and give her attention

Secondly, master the act of love making to your woman that will take her to orgasm and make her feel like a real woman

Thirdly, protect her from your family because she is prone to attack from her inlaws

Lastly, I didn't meantion money here because what women want is pure love not money,
Money comes in to blend the relationship.

Best comment for me so far.I feel like buying you a drink.

Preciousgirl:
Lies

It's very true. Girls attach emotions to everything.

I am not saying that it's OK for men to cheat but a cheating man won't wish death on his wife.

kennygee:
Na wa o

Do we forget that God will not judge us based on our gender but on sins committed?

It is very okay for a man to cheat but it is dangerous for a woman to?

The Bible says that God looked at His creation and said Everything he created was good. So God created men to be polygamous so they can commit the adultery/fornication He said is a sin?

Make Jesus do come abeg.

I like you.

To cheat is wrong. Adultery is wrong.

But women attach emotions/feelings to everything... There were times I'd tell a dry joke but the girl that's attracted to me will laugh like I'm funnier than Bovi.

If u don't believe this then ya not being logical but then again...ya a girl, u cnt b logical.

That's why we don't argue with women...it's fruitless

That's why we call men that argue a lot "woman wrapper"... It's a woman's nature to be emotionally blind.

What a silly write up! This Op must be a serial cheat, a gender biased write up to encourage men to cheat! Who on earth told you African men are polygamous in nature, folks always looking for reason to justify their sin! All this long epistle is trash!

Divoc:
A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while many men do not have s**x with emotions, women can’t have s**x without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have s**x while women need a reason to have s**x.

Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.

Men don’t equate s**x with love. A man can have s**x with another woman but still doesn’t love her. That’s why women who fall in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrate some hidden secrets concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). She can even accept poison from you to eliminate her husband.

For men, s**x and love are two different things. But for women, s**x and love are one and the same thing. For men, s**x comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before s**x (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having s**x with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.

The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn’t mean he has stopped loving you. But I can’t say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. And she can even kill her husband once she starts cheating on him.

If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. That is the main reason it is dangerous for a man to continue staying with a wife who cheats on him. That is why it is now encouraged everywhere in the world including in the Bible, for a man to divorce his wife only once she starts cheating on him. Cheating women are more deadly to husbands than ordinary criminals or weapons.

There are many cheating women in the world who invite criminals to break into her house at night only to come and eliminate her man and police officers plus relatives can’t detect this as the same woman tend to mourn more than any person at the funeral so as to attract sympathy and hide her evil acts.

That’s why psychologists discourage women,more than men, from cheating.
Women can’t handle the emotional conflict that comes with cheating.

That’s the reason an observant and intelligent man will notice that his wife has started cheating on him once he starts doing it because most women tend to lose respect for their husbands and try to avoid s**x with them in most times.

Cheating Women will even be giving excuses for not wanting to have s**x with their husbands. Study has revealed that nearly 90% of women who cheat find it hard to have enjoyable s**x with their husbands, again an intelligent man will detect this once his wife’s behaviour with regard to s**x starts changing. But a dull man can never detect this and always tolerates fake excuses from his cheating wife until he is completely eliminated.

Women can’t cheat on their partners with people they are not emotionally involved with. They attach emotions to everything. That’s why you can’t always trust their judgement. When a joke is cracked, most women who laugh are not laughing because the joke is funny but because they like the person who cracked the joke. If they don’t like you, no matter how funny your joke may be, they won’t laugh, but when a man laughs at a joke, it’s because the joke is funny, not because he likes the comedian. Men are not always sentimental and emotionally involved.

Study has shown that every relationship begins to flounder once a woman starts cheating. There are many men who cheat on their partners but still show them true love. But it is very hard to find a relationship in which a woman is cheating and things still remain the same.

I repeat, nearly 100% of cheating women wish their husbands quick death or divorce to have unlimited s**x freedom while nearly 100% of cheating men can’t wish their wives quick death or divorce. That is why most men can’t allow their wives to be physically or verbally abused by their girlfriends. Men will always stand for their wives.

A man would cheat but would still love and respect his wife, but the opposite is true with cheating women.
Once your wife starts sleeping with other men/man, just know that your death is near.


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/11/cheating/

Omudia11:
A runs girl will graduate in to a cheating wife. It is unfounded to say women cheat with emotions bla bla bla. Do you know that a large proportion of porn star are married? So they sleep with dozens of men with emotions? Very laughable

porn actresses are doing it professionally for money.. it’s their job

Even though i slep with 49 girls anually but i cant stand a cheating wife i will disgrace her beat her to pulp and send her packing

hammerFC:
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PORN-STARS ARE HAVING SEX WITH EMOTIONS, ABI?


PROSTITUTES HAVE SEX WITH EMOTIONS, ABI.


THE DAY U LEARN SEX IS A THING OF PLEASURE FOR MEN AND WOMEN IS THE DAY U WAKE UP.


A WOMAN WILL FUCUK U FOR THE FUN AND NOT LOVE U. FACT!


SHE WILL GO BACK TO HER HUSBAND AND KIDS.

man u ar not in the realm to understand the message

It is shameless to publish this word for word even in the daily. This is ubunja's intellectual work 100%. I want to recommend ubunja sues vanguard newspaper for this shameless intellectual theft. This is a shame absolute shame

Ubunja come see your work o.

classysupanova:
What a silly write up! This Op must be a serial cheat, a gender biased write up to encourage men to cheat! Who on earth told you African men are polygamous in nature, folks always looking for reason to justify their sin! All this long epistle is trash!

You're not properly educated. Where in the article did the op encourage men to cheat?

Divoc:
Must we copy the whites(western world) in everything? I strongly advocate that the men should marry more wives...African man is polygamous in nature. This one-man one-wife is not really working for we Africans...Polygamy worked for our grandfathers. People even practiced polygamy in the Bible.

You obvious don't know what goes on in polygamous families. Because you think it worked for our grandfathers doesn't mean it was good or they themselves enjoyed it. And who told you monogamy doesn't work Africans

Sugar mummies are doing it for what?

leofab:
porn actresses are doing it professionally for money.. it’s their job

frozen70:
Your statements are true words

Women are delicate people to love

The only way out is for a man to love his wife and avoid situations that will warrant her to have any reason whatsoever to love another man

Women have just one heart and once its not taken care they move on to another man with the same heart of love to give to him

Men have more than one heart of love to give that's why you see them having a wife and still have girlfriend yet the love is not clashing in this head and he can still handle both women in his life

It's not so for women

The moment a woman who is married finds love with another
Automatically the attention is shifted to the new man

It's a situation that can be avoided by men

How should it be avoided

Firstly marry a woman you are willing to show love to and give her attention

Secondly, master the act of love making to your woman that will take her to orgasm and make her feel like a real woman

Thirdly, protect her from your family because she is prone to attack from her inlaws

Lastly, I didn't meantion money here because what women want is pure love not money,
Money comes in to blend the relationship.

You've tried

Derajeth:
Best comment for me so far.I feel like buying you a drink.

Lol

Ugosample:
Married women cannot have multiple sex partners?

who is telling you that?

one big madam I know I'm Zenith bank go just dey laugh you

That woman was a cheerful giver (both in kpomo and Kudi )
I've been away for a while so I have not been hearing the gist


P.S. I did not call name o

And you non collect your share?? Is few compare to men.

Its either many people who replied to this thread are hypocrites or they have total comprehension problem... They're totally daft and dull...


The OP's points are clear but some supposedly smart and intelligent creatures decides to make it seem like the OP is promoting cheating by men...

Well, I've had experience in a thing like this albeit slightly and yes the OP is right... I've also read countless scientifically proven research that echoes the same thing... But some fooools on here are saying otherwise...

Me self I have also read countless scientific research that proves that men who cheat expose their wives to STDs and infect them with HIV too. They also fall in love with their girlfriends no matter how much they try to deny it.

Sex obsessed fools

CHoccolaTE:
Me self I have also read countless scientific research that proves that men who cheat expose their wives to STDs and infect them with HIV too. They also fall in love with their girlfriends no matter how much they try to deny it.

Sex obsessed fools

Stop deceiving yourself. The rate of contacting HIV and other STDS as a woman is higher than that of a man. Men cheat but it barely distracts them from their responsibilities. It's not the same with you women. You cheat and get pregnant for another man or give out your husband's secrets and weaknesses.


There's a reason why the Bible labelled you women as "THEY THAT KILLETH KINGS".

I don't know why the truth is always bitter.

highcollide:
Stop deceiving yourself. The rate of contacting HIV and other STDS as a woman is higher than that of a man. Men cheat but it barely distracts them from their responsibilities. It's not the same with you women. You cheat and get pregnant for another man or give out your husband's secrets and weaknesses.


There's a reason why the Bible labelled you women as "THEY THAT KILLETH KINGS".

And there is a reason more men are criminals and killers and rapists and kidnappers. because they are naturally wicked and self centered so they tell lies to make it look like infidelity by men is not as bad as by women.
I have read stories of men that killed their wives and abandoned their families because of side chick.
The ones that were spending money they could have used for their children on side chick house rent and schoolfees and clothes.
There was a story of a man on Nairaland who caused his own sons death. The side chick killed the boy cause the man was falsely promising her marriage and making her do abortions for him.

sircrabo:
as sad as it sounds, it's the truth.
any man knacking a woman constantly has a remote control over her (even without jazz). especially if the guy lasts longer than her husband. the guy will be in charge of her mumu button.

Together they can empty the man's account and elope with all the money to a place of unlimited knacking. women are actually a weaker vessel.


Any day her bf demands her husbands head, she will gladly bring it.

If the BF happens to be far better in bed, it will make the woman hate her husband the more and each time they make love, she will imagine her bf's rod penetrating her.

i'll rather live with a serial killer than a promiscuous woman

If you are promiscious and a cheat,then you deserve a woman like you.

True, but there is more to women than you think Emotions make people erotic U don't predict such people

Omudia11:
The truth about what exactly? Are you a woman? Have you ever been a woman?
Have you ever been a woman that cheated then felt the need to murder your husband? I have said it and will say it again that most of you nairaland men are some of the dumbest on the planet.

The truth will kill ur dumb ass. Idiat

hammerFC:
MANY PORN-STARS ARE IN ACTUAL RELATIONSHIPS, SIMILARLY PROSTITUTE.

FURTHER, U HAVE NEVER SEEN RUNS GIRL WITH HER BOYFRIEND?

STOP THIS MALE SUPERIORITY NONSENSE.

MEN ARE NOT SUPERIOR EMOTIONALLY. WE ARE MORE EMOTIONAL THAN THE WOMAN.

DAMN, Y SO MANY MEN KILL THEIR WIFE?

" Y SO MANY MEN KILL THEIR WIFE?"
The killing is more out of Ego

A man protects his ego, so irrespective of gender they react when they feel it's attacked

To say you're dumb is an insult to dumb people. You're irredeemably stupid.

xest:
The truth will kill ur dumb ass. Idiat